Anal Sex

So what's the big deal?

Everybody's curious about anal sex. How does it feel? Can you really get off through the back door? Do books and movies honestly portray the pleasure (or displeasure) of anal sex? We're interested in what you think. Tell us what you think about anal sex, and about your anal sex experiences.

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From Rob
I've found that some women are not receptive to taking it from behind (anal) early in a relationship. But often if they can handle that position because of knee or back issues they love it as much as I do. It's a fairly well respected fact that penetration can be deep in the bow wow version, but I think it also adds for special delights in the entry and the withdrawal.  Also while some lovers say they're not liking anything to do with their butt, a little tease there can be quite enjoyable for them. I like the ability to enter slowly and withdraw, having her lips slowly conform the head of my member.  She likes that a lot too.  Then there is the "spank", oh my....  Enjoy, friends, or enjoy friends from behind.

From Nancy
I tried anal sex several times, my husband and I learning the recommended way to go about it without pain, only pleasure. Well, no pleasure here, didn't feel sexy, no orgasm, just a mild dislike. To be honest, my thoughts on the matter is, come on already, you guys can fuck a vagina, a mouth, between lush breasts, and let's not forget hand-jobs. And now you want to fuck ass? I think anal sex proves the saying 'if there's a hole, fuck it'.

From Jennifer
I have much stronger orgasms from anal than vaginal sex. The first time that I had anal it hurt like hell but after I learned how to do it the right way, its actually better than vaginal. My guy and I have anal over half the time we have sex. I could stop the pussy sex and just have anal and that would be great with me! More women should give anal a try and learn it the way I did. They would fall in love with it!

From Tslover
Anal has got to be my favourite thing to do in the bedroom... And we'll anywhere else the heat of the moment might find you in. Do not feel any discomfort or pain. Very generous with the lube initially, I like to get it up my ass bout an inch or two, and wait a bit for my ass to loosen slightly, have it pulled out, and re apply lube and go a little bit deeper. I find, usually after the 3-5th time it's at least 85% all the way up my ass, and then  you just slowly work it from there eventually taking it balls deep and the thrusting begins. When it's in, and lubed, and I'm gettin thrusted into, the feeling is so intense, it feels great, and having your partners hands on your waist pulling you closer as they thrust deeper, and then your eventually getting thrust into and  fucked fast, deep and hard. It's just ecstasy

From Sessywench
It took me a long time to agree to having anal sex with my husband.  I was really turned off by the poo factor and how him with his queasy stomach would react in such an intimate moment, so no, just no, would not go there. But he's a resourceful chap and one day came home with an enema kit.  Had me assume the position and that was the start of a whole new chapter. I get incredibly horny submitting to the enema, fingering as the hot water seeps into my ass. An orgasm from anal sex for me is much more intense than any other, it's especially superb when it is simultaneous, clit and anal orgasm at the same time....now that's a religious experience.

From Fill Me Up Buttercup
All I can think is that the folks who are turned on by anal sex don't have any bowel/elimination issues. I used to tend towards the constipation end of the spectrum until after my 1st colonoscopy... then it was more like Irritable Bowel w/both variants... I just can't even think of being turned on by anal play. Lucky for me, my husband feels the same way. We've discussed why anal play is so prevalent in porn - and that we both have no desire to experiment in that direction.

From San Francisco Femme
After I sent in my entry, pun intended, I realized that mine may give the impression that my desire for anal sex is typical for women when it's not.  A friend recently tried anal for the first time with her husband, and has now flatly refused to ever try it again, then I told her that trying it for the first time in a professional porn position wasn't really the easiest way to begin.  The easiest way is with a well-lubed finger and then, after your partner adjusts to that, two well-lubed fingers.  Progress to dildos, butt plugs (fun to wear during the day under your clothes), but then full-on anal penetration is usually easiest for a first-timer if the catcher is on their stomach with a pillow under their hips.  If you start gently, you can often teach your partner the pleasures of anal sex and they'll desire more and more, but gently is key before progressing to more active anal sex (like the type I now enjoy).

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