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From Todd
Joe said it well [see Joe's entry below], and yes that goes for tattoos, too. No, no, no. They are ugly and pointless, in my opinion. Seems that so many girls nowadays are trying so hard to be unique in their style or placement of piercings and/or tattoos that the only truly unique girls are the ones that have none of the above. It's unbelievable.

I may be somewhat extreme about it, I'll admit, but I will not date a woman with tattoos or strange piercings. Not because I think less of them as people because that's not true at all, but I'm just not turned on by it. In fact, I am 'actively' turned off. Seriously girls, you don't need a stud in your tongue to make your blowjobs feel good... it feels just fine au natural.

From Joe
Make this "piercing and tattoos"...for that matter, throw in breast augmentation, too. If I want to see mutilated bodies, I'll go to rotten.com or some similar site. I see absolutely nothing artful, attractive, interesting, evocative, stimulating, humorous or enjoyable about punching holes and/or tinting the human body.They're pretty nice the way they are...what makes you think you can or should "improve" the original work?

From Jim
Piercing grabs hold of you and makes you want to do more. I am a corporate lawyer living very conservatively on the east coast. I first visited a piercing shop in San Francisco in 1990 and was stunned by the magnificence of genital metal. It was three years before I could bring it up to my wife and discuss my getting one. 

On a trip to New York in the summer of 1993, I finally got a Prince Albert piercing. She thought I was crazy. Until she saw it and got to play with it. I followed it in 1994 with the most extreme male piercing--an ampallang. Wife didn't like it and I had to take it out. When she was pregnant in 1997 I got an apadrayva, another extreme piercing and had it for about 6 months. I've also gotten my tongue pierced, tongue web, nipples and frenum.

There is something about the process that is almost addictive. No one I work with or relatives would ever guess.

From Ray
Here's my take on piercing, I would never dream of getting a facial or tongue piercing but I got a nipple piercing - it made my otherwise insensitive nipples sensitive. For the most part it is, like most piercings, just fashion - it looks great.

A couple of years later I decided to get a genital piercing- a lorum (base of penis and top of scrotum). I don't go around showing people so it's a naughty thing to do, a bit of a secret turn-on. It works really well for clitoral (or anal) stimulation with a dangling piece of jewelry. So well that the feedback from my girlfriends sent me back to get a frenum (underside of the end). At first it was a fizzle - it was irritating to me and my girlfriend. Until after about six months when it fully healed and I got some properly fitted jewelry. It really works well for control, by focusing on its stimulation I can come or not by choice. Now she prefers it - she gets disappointed when I take it out.

From Ghost Rider
Allie, [see entry below] if you care any thing about your teeth, ask the guy to remove the jewelry before you start giving him oral. I know it sounds wild and is a turn on to think about doing it with the barbell or rings in place but this is an excellent way to chip, crack, or break your teeth. In a relationship, it is easy to forget or get excited to the point of nibbling and hitting the jewelry. It really saves on the dental bills.

From Allie
I was recently with a man who was pierced down below and it was the first time I had attempted oral in that type of situation. I need help! How can I successfully give oral to someone with a few piercings through his penis? Any tips?

From Kay
I would never dare presume to tell anyone that he or she simply must get this, that, or the other pierced. What works for me may well not begin to work for them, so I can only speak for myself.

My nipples are extremely sensitive, and I find now that the pierced one is exquisitely so. Breathe on it, and my cock starts squirming around; give it a lick, and up I go. It took me forever to get up the courage to have it done, as I was afraid of the pain just like everyone else. But it was quite tolerable, and the results have definitely been worth it. It has delivered in every way on my expectations for looks and for physical gratification.

Would I pierce anything else, other than my ears (one of which is pierced, BTW)? No. The very idea of getting my cock pierced is enough to make me want to encase it in concrete just as a protective measure. I rather like the look of a single piercing at the eyebrow or navel as long as it's a thin ring, but multiples or thick barbells don't make it in terms of being attractive to my eye. A pierced nose always makes me wonder how sloppy the jewelry gets when the wearer has a bad cold, and septum piercings make me want to tie a rope to them and lead the wearer around like a cow. You don't want to know what I think of tongue piercings; or worse, tongue splitting <ugh! cringe!>.

Then again, I'm sure there are a lot of people who wouldn't care for the three tattoos that I have, either, so... what's the phrase? Chacun a son gout <wink>.

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