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clit sizeI have not done a thorough survey of every sex partner I've ever made love with, but I have noticed that woman with the most intense and frequent orgasms, had a large clitoris. Another, who tells me she has had only two or three orgasms in her life . . . well, damn it, I couldn't even find her clitoris.

What say you Ladies and Gents: true or false, does clit size determine the ease or intensity of orgasm?  —Anonymous


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From Ano
To Steve [see entry below]: Please! There is more to a women than her clitoris!

From Steve
I simply adore a woman with a large clit and labia to match. It just emphasis femininity and drives me crazy to see, touch, scent, taste, and bringing oral pleasure to my partner. Also, its really a huge treat to observe how a women with a large clit touches herself.  Totally different than a small clit woman. Woman with small clits seem to like pressure because they cannot hold on to a shaft like a large clit woman can do. I once dated a woman with a large clit and she often asked me if I could find her a clit clip to keep her hood back when she masturbated. I meant to write one sentence but now my mind is running.  So there is one problem with women with large clits, they are rare and hard to find.  I wish there was a way to weed past the tinys and find a pretty lady that's well endowed. If I ever am fortunate enough to meet a lady with one I will marry her!

From Bart
I am a 40's male who has never married and have dated many women. I have dated only one woman who had a "large"clit and she was hands down the best woman I have been to bed with. I have heard it said that size of the clit means nothing but all the women that I have been with were very good but nothing like her. She was as close to perfect as I have ever had. Her sex drive was wonderful! When I gave her oral sex,it was almost like doing a blow job! This woman was beautiful in looks and performance in the sack. I am sure that her great sex drive was because of her huge clit and I have never found a woman like her since. Any female who is lucky enough to have a large clit should be proud of it, like she was.

From Horny Girl
I really have to respond to (Mature Lady) below. Please don't have sad feelings about wanting a smaller clitoris. I was a little frustrated sometimes when I was younger I have to admit as my clitoris also is much bigger then common too. But those times are far back and today I really enjoy that I have a bigger one. Mine is a bit over 3 inches erected an I'm even crazy to say that I want it to be bigger.

I prefer women too and my girlfriend and I have the best sex I can imagine. I have been with guys who loved what I got but as I said I prefer girls. I masturbate nearly every day and I even love to watch in the mirror when I am horny erected. I am proud very proud, so please learn to love what you got and you will find so many new ways for sex and making love with a girl. 

From MatureLady
I have an extremely large clit,  when erected its about 4inches. My sex drive is over the top crazy. On top of things, I am a 23 year old lesbian. The only problem is that I have been talked about and it hurts really bad. I want to think that I am normally like any other female, but truthfully I am not! Sometimes i wish I was born fully female,  instead of born with an large clit that looks like a mini penis.

From Horny Girl
I know that I'm not the only horny one in here from reading the participants and that make me feel calmer and more secure to participate. I take the bull by the horn and admit that my clit is oversized. I was born that way and when younger it did not always turn out to my favor when after bath time or physical training someone peeped at my crotch they could be annoying. One time when we fooled about one girl started and the other followed and showed their pussies and I did the same. They stared at me and teased me saying I have a penis.

Today I am over with that part of my life and surely enjoy what I got and happy that my parents didn't reduce my clit. I love every horny second in my life and I love to masturbate. I do it nearly every day and I really love to feel excited. I even want to show myself from time to time to show what I got it's crazy maybe but even to tell this make me feel hot. Bye friends!

From Brandon
I love sucking my girlfriends big clit! She is a petite little blond with model looks and a clit about one inch long! When I take her whole clit into my mouth and suck it she goes wild. I belive like others posting here that the bigger the clit the better sex drive. In fact, she prefers me giving her oral much more than intercourse. Ladies, if your lucky enough to own a big clit, do not have it cut!

From Kevin
I dated a sexy lady off and on for about 4 years who was very endowed in this respect. Nothing turned her on more than being sucked until she orgasmed. It almost looked like a small penis and the biggest I have ever seen. She fully understood why men love to receive oral sex because she loved this part of sex more than anything else. I must say, I loved doing it for her.

From Logan
So nice at last a place it seems for everyone. About big clits it really fascinate me. Since a few years back I have more and more been thinking and looking for big clits. I am not that big but my clit is quite visible. When I'm surfing about looking for big ones I have been a bit confused about the languish some of the people use when they show and define bigger ones. Words like "Hermaphrodite" "small dicks" and so on is quite common.

And I wonder why! A big clit is just a big clit no more or less. I love big clits but compare to those words I so often see is not giving any credits to a over sized clitoris. We who have bigger clitorises is just as normal as other women, with uterus and normal hole were we pee from. It's just a genetic thing like guys who have small cocks or a really long one. Guys with small ones don't hear the word "hermaphrodite" There are differences about Hermaphrodites of course. But a women with a big sweet clitoris sticking out when erected do many times look's like a penis but we are still women. Women with a bigger one then common. And to talk about myself I will say I really love what I got. And I love to play with myself.

Thank's for this great site!    

From Dan
I can say honestly, that I absolutely love a woman with a big Clit. The bigger the sexier as far as I'm concerned. I really do love going down on a woman, and I have never had any complaints. It is my first move after foreplay or to continue foreplay I should say.

From Marie-Jean
Does clit size determine pleasure? I don't necessarily think that it works that way. The main thing is what kind of gene we are equipped with. If we are a person who easily become excited and have horny feelings and interest don't need a bigger clit "but" it can be a lot easier for pleasuring when your clit stick out. I met once a guy who have a horse big cock but wasn't that horny because of the size. As I am bi I had the opportunity to make love with a girl wish clit was quite ordinary in shape and she was a very horny girl that for sure. The brain is the horniest thing in our bodies I believe. But a over-sized clit is quite exciting and nice as well to suck at and not to forget to masturbate.

From German Girl
I am surfing at this site every time and it really gives me such nice horny vibes. I have to mediate something nice I can't just move about knowing this by myself. My dearest friend and I frequently share what happen in our sex life.

My clitoris is quite common in size maybe a little bigger but not as big as my sweet friend. So she really have a oversized clitoris. We have compared and there is no doubt about it her's is really big without any steroids or such she is born with a big one. When she is erected it's about a little bit over 3 inches and from much toying it sticks out quite good.

Mine is more bend. I have to admit I am envy to what she got. But from what she always tell me is that she is able to fuck with it. I am straight but she is bi and she told me in detail how she fuck her girlfriend's ass. And they both love it. Her girlfriends pussy is too loose for doing good but her ass hole is small and tight enough to penetrate. I am horny just writing this. This is so great.

From Susan
Great topic. Thought I was alone with this fat clit of mine! I just adore having a big clitoris and find that not only is it sexy, but men love it as well.  When I wear panties, or a bathing-suit, and get aroused, my clit pops out of its sheath on its own and gets erect and extended.

I am actually considering getting a clit-pump and I am anxious to see how big it can get! Here's to all the big clits out there!

From Lore
Holy Moses so good to read all the participation. And, those girls Anna, Honey and Karin really make me so horny and wet when they told about their big clits. Is it OK to have those feelings? Would give anything to meet a girl and feel a stiff clit peeking out like those. Love ya!

From John
I actually know a very beautiful woman who is considering getting her large clit reduced! She is very shy about anyone seeing it and is ashamed. I have tried to tell her that her large clit is a lovely gift and men adore large clits. She has a very strong sex drive and I am sure its because of her clit size.

To ALL women: if your clit is oversized,enjoy what you have! All men like their women to want sex and I think a woman with a large clit will have a healthy sex drive.

From Karin
Mother nature gave me a very big clit. But this was not enough for me, so I used a testosterone cream, for to make my clit still bigger! Also I do clit pumping, so I can get the maximum size for my little big man. If my clit is stiff, it sticks out very much, so it looks like a half-stiff cock about. The foreskin runs back, so my giant clit is full uncovered. My good piece has a size of 3-inches, when it stands up and is complete stiff. It can stand-up in a few seconds, during the orgasm can come in a minute or so, if I want it.

But mostly I masturbate slowly or with interruptions, so I can enjoy my hard big clit for a longer time. Sometimes I stand by my mirror, look at my huge clit full fascination and I move it with my muscles or by movements of my body. It is also super to ejaculate and see such in my big mirror.

I am a bisexual women and I have a girlfriend and a boyfriend. I fuck them both with my big clit. Rubbing my big clit to another big clit or against a small cock, that`s a great thing too.

And yes, it makes me horny, if my boyfriend has a smaller cock when it is flaccid, than my stiff clit.

From Honey  Girl
I love to read about this issue, can't get enough. My clitoris is quite big, not as big as Anna and Anonymous [see entries below]. But I would love to have such a big one. I can admit that when I have mine good erected it point out. When I was younger it bent down much more but today the thin skin under have loosen up in a way and when I'm good horny my clitoris peeks out between my labia. But the hood doesn't cover the tip then and it's a little sensitive from start. But after some toying and caressing it doesn't hurt.

Anyhow, I love to watch when it peek out like that. Can I frankly say that I love to masturbate my stiff peeking clitoris. Thank's all participants. 

From Mike
My wife has a very big clit and large pussy lips.  She is still a bit self conscious about it, but I absolutely adore it.  Her pussy floods when I get her clit aroused and capture it between my thumb and index finger.  I circle and pinch with my thumb and she comes loud enough to wake our neighbors. 

Ladies, enjoy your large clit and lips.  They are a true blessing!

From Anna
To the sweet Anonymous with a 4 inches+ clit. [see Anonymous' entry below] I absolutely adore to hear about your experience. I have not that big one just 3 inch+ fully erected. And I simply love my clit. I am obsessed and really love big ones. I think we are kind of special being equipped with such lovely big clits. I hope nobody with smaller ones will feel offended when I'm talking about our big ones.

I have such lovely contact with another girl to be honest. OK lesbian feelings. And we really love to enjoy each other. To find love in this crass world of ours isn't the easiest way. So if someone is able to get good contact with what they have and can use is together with guy or girl, I say go for it! Life is short. Love you all!

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