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Blowjobs: pleasure or powerIn the book How to Write a Dirty Story by Suzie Bright there is an exercise you could call "Could You Would You?"  The exercise is designed to free up your imagination. I invite you to read the following 3 questions, and share your answers with us. —Chris Garcia

1) Explain a sexual fantasy about an experience in the  real world you would jump on in an instant if you could have it, no questions asked. Something you would have no reservations about actually doing.

2) Explain an experience you would like to have but only under certain conditions, otherwise not. Under those conditions you'd definitely give yourself to it, otherwise no way.

3) Explain a fantasy you'd love to do in your imagination, something that excites you and maybe gets you off but you'd never in a million years do it in the real world, either because its impossible to perform or too squicky to endure. But something that excites you to play around with in your fantasies.


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From Debra
1) In Real Life: I've only been married a few years and things sexually are getting a little boring. I know we need to expand things and try something new and different to add some excitement. Last weekend I surprised my husband by wearing a short skirt and a nice blouse which isn't too uncommon for me. The surprise was the fact I didn't wear any panties or bra. I unbuttoned a few extra buttons when we were out for drinks and it gave him a nice look at my tits. I also made sure he noticed my no panties by giving him a few nice flashes. What was nice was I noticed a few other men stealing glances and I was excited to flash them also. One the way home, we parked the car and had sex in the car. We hadn't done this for years and it was more than just the fingering or hand jobs we used to do. He and I were totally naked enjoying a nice fuck. 

2) Under Certain Conditions: To have sex outdoors somewhere. I would like to try a picnic at a park or at the beach and if it was secluded enough, to have him fuck me from behind.

3) Only in my Fantasy: I kind of enjoyed flashing the other men in the bar and I started to fantasies about doing some more flashing. I got so horny thinking about meeting one of these men as I came out of the bathroom and he complimented my on my nice pussy. I would give him another look and he starts to finger me making me all wet with one hand and has his other hand on my tits. I return the favor and give him a nice hand job. When I get back to my husband, we leave and I fuck him right in the parking lot because I am still so wet and horny. 

From Lara
1) In Real Life: I am a bridesmaid for a friend of mine in a few weeks. I showed my dress I'm wearing which is shorter than my normal dresses. I modelled it for my husband without any panties on and asked what he thought. He told me it looked hot but I should be careful since I gave him a few nice shots of my pussy and ass. I was glad he noticed since I was showing off for him.  I told him I had some nice panties to wear, but now want to  surprise him by going commando and flashing him at the wedding when I get a chance.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Before going home, I would like to go out to a bar or dinner and wear this bridemaids dress again. I plan on being less reserved and want the dress to ride up so my husband has a great view and see if other people notice. I'm hoping I can also give some nice flashes of my ass to some other men around and to have my husband finger me under the table.

3) Only in my Fantasy: I would like my husband to get so turned on fingering me, that when I go to the Ladies room, he follows me and fucks me in the hallway or Ladies room. Even when someone else comes along, he just keeps pounding his cock in me and we give them a nice little show. I don't think he or I could really ever do this, but it would be nice to be so horny that we would do this.

From Anonymous
1) In Real Life: I would love to have my wife let me nail her by a lake or pond in broad daylight knowing that someone would see us and letting her peg me in the process. The idea of my wife pegging me with a dildo intrigues me.

2) Under Certain Conditions: I would love a threesome with her sister who has large tits like my wife. Just the idea of that make me horny. But it could never happen for a lot of reasons.

3) Only in my Fantasy: Tto be able to take one woman after another for a sexy all night sex party with my wife and two other women over and over again every way, every position and every act. but ain't gonna happen.

From Veronica J.
1) In Real Life: I am dying to have a woman urinate all over me and let me drink her urine. I do not frame this in any kind of BDSM context at all--I just think peeing is insanely hot.  Unfortunately, I have yet to find a female partner who agrees with me. 

2) Under Certain Conditions: I would love to masturbate with a group of women, but it would have to be the right group.  I remember reading years ago about a sex therapist who gave workshops to women who struggled with achieving orgasm.  All the women were exposed and masturbating in a room together as the leader instructed and guided them.  *That* is the kind of group I'd be looking for--something wholesome and supportive and polite and respectful, not just random people off the street.  I'm not so much interested in the exhibitionist/voyeur element, as the presence of all that female sexual energy in a room.

3) Only in my Fantasy: Coprophagia. I'd never actually do it, because it's entirely gross, but I do fantasize about it. I think this urge stems from emotional wounds, not sexual desire, so I will leave it in the realm of occasional fantasy.

From David
1) In Real Life: let my wife peg me.  We've played here, come very close but it has yet to happen yet.  Looking very forward to it, not sure it will live up to the things I think it will but sure looking forward to finding out.

2) Under Certain Conditions: I'd like to try the glory hole thing.  Oral sex on a man focused only on the cock.  I know I'm not emotionally or physically attracted to the male of the specie however I would like to experience sucking a cock.  If only there was a vaccine for STD's life would be a whole lot less complicated.

3) Only in my Fantasy: But gee what a dark side I didn't know was there.  Tie me up, put a hood on me and fuck me every way but silly no matter what gender.  Whip me beat me make me write bad checks, spreader bar and the works.  Anne Rice as a nom de plume.  There is an odd part in the back of my head that wants to wear the collar. 

From Matt
1) In Real Life: To capture my wife masturbating on video. She has just recently been willing to give me a show as I watch her stroke her pussy with her fingers. She gets nice and wet and it isn't long before she inserts two fingers and starts to rub her g-spot. It is just so exciting to watch her pleasure herself and I would love to record it and be able to watch it at other times. I would hope this could also expand to video us having intercourse. Getting the camera set-up to record it all would take some practice to record what we would like. It would be nice to find someone to hold the camera and record the session, but right now, we don't know anyone we could trust to do this.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Trade our video tapes of her masturbating and us having sex with other couples. I would love to know that other couples are getting turn-on watching our tapes. It would also be nice to watch other couples fucking each other as we were fucking also.

3) Only in my Fantasy: My wife has a friend that is a cheerleader at our university she attends. When we go to the football games, I enjoy watching her and have a fantasy of her coming over after the game with us in her cheerleading uniform. She is ready for some fun and we start to undress her from her uniform. Slowly exposing her bra and panties she has on under her skirt and sweater. My wife unfastens her bra and her tits are exposed with nice erect nipples. She lets my wife suck on her tits and then move down to her panties. Her panties come off as my wife kisses her pussy and begins to eat her nice pussy. We then all get naked and start to fuck and suck each other having a great threesome with these two beautiful women.

From Tim
1) In the Real World: Go to a club with my wife and enter seperately for a night of acting single again. She has a very sexy body and I would enjoy seeing her show off her stuff in a nice stretch top and short skirt. I would also insist she wear either thong panties or no panties at all. When dancing she would be free to grind and enjoy it all she feels comfortable with. I would even sneak a few dances with her myself and let her skirt slid up exposing her ass. I also think it would be hot to watch some other guys feeling her ass and tits as they dance and her grinding against their hard cocks.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Invite another person into our love sessions. We both have interests in a threesome and would like to give it a try. We just haven't found the right person or situation to give it a try. She would like to taste another woman's pussy, and I would love to watch her enjoy that pussy. Having a different pussy to taste and fuck would be nice for me too.

3) Only in my Fantasy: To go clubbing and to have sex on the middle of the dance floor. It gets out of control and another guy starts to fuck my wife and I turn and fuck his girlfriend. Before long there are multiple people sucking each other cocks, eating pussy, and fucking on the dance floor with a big audience watching.

From Debbie
This is an interesting topic and has me thinking nasty thoughts to come up with ideas.

1)In the real world: My husband and I are going on vacation and I want to surprise him with a new bikini. I purchased a very small bikini hoping to get up enough courage to wear it on vacation. I tried it on and it felt so sexy to wear it, but it sure doesn't cover much. I have a brazillian wax scheduled just before we go to be able to wear the thong bottom without showing any pubic hair. I also found the top to not always hold things in, but I'm going to let my tits slip out when I get the chance.

2)Under Certain Conditions: I want to have sex on the beach or at the hot tub. If we find ourselves alone at the hot tub, I will remove my bikini and let him finger me awhile, then I want to climb on the side and let him kiss and enjoy my sweetness between my legs. I want to trade places and suck his mr. happy. I don't know if I want to finish him giving oral or let him do me doggy style before we head back to the room. I will just have to see how it goes.

3) Only in My Fantasies: To trade partners with my friend from work. We talk about sex and I've found my panties getting wet while we talk and she tells me about some of what she does with her husband. Her stories are great and I wonder what it would be like to have her husband take me and do some of the things she talks about, especially anal sex. I have never tried it, but I am warming up to the idea and suggested it to my husband. He doesn't show any desire to give it a try. But I think my friend could teach my husband some new things and then try them on me.

From Enki
1) In the real world: My lover and her sexy business partner conspire together and surprise me one night by "coming onto me" in the hot tub, where we often cavort - until this point always regrettably well behaved - over wine. They start by snuggling up on either side of me, then begin suggestively running their hands up the insides of my thighs, stopping just short of Mister Happy ... then my lover pops the question I've been longing to hear.

2) Under certain conditions: Only with total secrecy and confidentiality would I consider the same sort of sordid skullduggery with another man as the third party. This would be the ideal threesome, especially at our age (we are in our fifties) as I believe a woman's lasting power would be equal to the sum of at least two men.

3) Only in my fantasies: I arrive home from work on Monday and find out my mother-in-law is completely fed up with all the shenanigans in the hot tub and has moved out to her own apartment.

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