Erotica For Men

Beer & Tits?

While getting dressed this morning I noticed there upon my night-desk a book I'd read during the long cold nights of winter. What struck me as odd was the phrase "Erotica For Women" written above the pleasing image of a man embracing a woman on the cover. All this prompted the question what is "Erotica For Men?"  —MLW

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From James Fabert
I've been writing erotica for some time now. I started because I couldn't find anything satisfying in Hustler or Playboy or Penthouse Letters. That was all too staged and unreal for me.

I begin my books with a photo of the character I'm considering, and build their personality from that photo. No, I don't need nude photos for this. I look at their eyes. The old remark about "eyes are the windows to the soul" is quite true, from my view.

Having had a long and successful love life is a big help. I can remember all those very fine moments, and describe them in graphic and intimate detail; but with love behind it all. Love from me to the reader is a big part of why I write. I hope the reader is enjoying the sensuality of what I write as much as I enjoy writing it for you.

Personally, I must begin with long hours of foreplay based on love for that person, or 'getting my rocks off' becomes meaningless.

I trust this provides some insight into the 'erotic mind' you mention in your intro.

I write under the Pseudonym 'Blue Raven 6', an old work name from another life.

From Parker Lane
What I've written over time (from 1986-1996, I contributed hetero-oriented fiction to the LETTERS family of magazines, and to Hustler Fantasies) bounces around the territory between "erotica" and "porn."

I wrote from my experiences in the streets of Boston, my college time and military time. And I wrote a book-length porno sendup of the cruise-missile base I was stationed at in the mid-80's. I have known women who are turned on by the stuff guys like. But I digress—erotica for men is, after all is said and done, hot babes with tight little units—getting all-night service from Buck Turgidson (see Dr. Strangelove) or Someone Like Him. And forget the beer, thank you very much....Catawba Pink, Mateus Rose, a nice claret or Madeira will do.

From Tits Yes, Beer No
Erotica for men? Tits. Sorry, but it's really that simple, at least as far as this particular guy is concerned. When I read erotica, I want to read about the woman's breasts - even one sentence about them is enough, but there can never be too much on the topic, no way!

When I'm attracted to a woman, I want to see and touch her breasts. When I make love to a woman, I want to kiss and suck her breasts. That's how I am. Even if it's a woman's eyes or ass or legs or lips that attracted me originally, all the excitement that she generates in me will somehow focus on her bust. And even if I love her for her mind, somehow that love will seem most overwhelming when I can feel the texture of her nipple with my tongue. Breasts are just made for love. (I guess that even babies would agree with that, but that's another story.)

As for beer, forget it! Beer is about as erotic as pretzels.

From WR
It seems to me that virtually ALL erotica is for men. There is no genre or sub-genre of erotica that is popular with women but ignored by men. Even lesbian porn is widely viewed by straight men who like seeing women go at it.

From Vinayak
As far as India is concerned , we feel that a woman is itself strong & mysteries chemical. If a woman smells beer or wine when husband comes home, she gets annoyed. Therefore I prefer tits rather than beer.

From Quest
Hey BLaYDe [see next entry], Ever hear of the term "sweeping generalization." It's the operative principle behind racism, anti-Semitism, homophobia and most forms of censorship. I agree some men have perpetrated a lot of terrible acts against women. And some porn is just that misogynistic and hollow. BUT not all porn is a manifestation of pure evil. Just like not everyone has sex to 'make love'. Sex can certainly say "love you" and it's probably the best way to do so. But if that was the way it was supposed to be, humans would be hard wired to feel desire for only those who they deeply love. Which as we all know is NOT the way we are. It'd be great if we were, but we aren't.

Just as most of us recognize that Erotica/Porn for men does include the Friday after work junk-entertainment called porno, we must recognize that it can include any kind of erotic story, photo, or song. Despite what the mass media big wigs think, men aren't pigs ... we are potential pigs ... and potential princes.

Yes we should all have loving interactions with our cherished lovers ... but bad porn exists for those who have bad taste ... take away the porn, the appetite will remain. I think if we all worked on building respectful relationships with everyone men, women, straight, gay, black, white, Muslim, Jewish, etc. then people wouldn't need to bolster their self esteem by watching or making degrading erotica. As we all know, respect fosters dignity ... prohibition fosters defiance.

From BLaYDe
This is wrong... porn should be banned in all countries worldwide, nation wide.. it's exploitation.. and me being a male figure am shamed to admit it because of what men have done in the past to women and shamed them.... and themselves. if you want porn, don't watch it... wait till you have a partner.. make LOVE TO THEM... don't fuck them cos' fucking has no feelings... LOVE is Feeling is an emotion.

All you men must think out there about yourselves and your history. Make a better self.... a better you.. be a REAL MAN... a real man is not a man who has a long 'you know' ... a real man is a man who knows how to convey feelings and emotions.. how to tell a woman what she is and treat her right. If u can't do this right... man... you are not....

From nlj
Erotica for men is what they would fantasize about if pre-packaged visual stimulation wasn't so easily available.

From Anonymous
I fully agree with "shiloh".....beer and tits.

From Johnny Tender:
The sort of sex scene that includes...Girl-Girl... three some-- 2 girls and a man A striptease. An orgy. (Two orgies would be just about right) An office sex scene. A beach sex scene A seduction scene in an apartment. Doggie Style and Woman riding. An abundance of fellatio. Swimming pool or Jacuzzi sex and shower sex -- all three. A massage scene where girl massages him. Sex on a dewy lawn in the moonlight. Sex in a sauna Sex in a steam bath. Sex in a health club...on an exercise machine. Sex in a luxury airplane.

That should take care of the first chapter of erotica for men.

In reading for sexual pleasure I do admit to being very visually oriented... but the whole "dance" of seduction and sequence of the lovemaking has to build. The quickie sentence: (And he thrust it in, for example), does not work for me. I have to feel how it feels to the male and the female as it slides in. The more juicy detail the better, the more feelings and emotions described, the better, the more urgency -- I want to feel the man losing control...I want to sense the woman caving in to her craving. I want to feel the room get hot, the defenses melting.

From shiloh:
Answer: beer and tits.

From Anonymous:
I, for one, could do without the beer...

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