The G-Spot & Clit Stimulation

An Orgasmic Combo

I have a question about the G-spot, ladies (and gentlemen, if you think you can contribute). After much exploration (read 34 years) I have finally isolated my wife's G-spot. The search was fun, but she seems to be enjoying the fruits of the search even more...up to a point. She said, "that feels great, but I don't know what to do with it..."

I know not every woman ejaculates from g-spot stimulation but it seems from what I have read here and elsewhere that with or without ejaculation there is an orgasmic response that she seems to be missing.

So, the question is, what puts you (or your lover) over the top for a g-spot orgasm? Is it a change in speed or pressure, just more of whatever seems to be working (i.e. firm, regular stroking), clitoral stimulation in addition to G-spot? Is there something that she needs to do to trigger this phenomenon?  —Slohand

For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. —IsabelAllende

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From Doug
My lady is incredibly orgasmic.  During the early part of sex play as arousal is increasing I am usually massaging all parts of the vulva.  As her clit and inner labia become engorged my attentions turn towards her clit.  I start massaging her clit, around the base and along the shaft, occasionally stroking along the length of her labia.  When she is extremely aroused her g-spot starts swelling up and pokes out with a very textured feeling.  When this occurs it is now sensitive, at first to a light surface stroking and as arousal continues increasing to more of a pressure.  As more and more pressure is desired and arousal increases I switch back to clitoral stimulation..  I switch back and forth a number of times, each time orgasm approaches.  As this continues her clit stands out and puffed up inner labia become like an awning over her vaginal opening.  I then massage the underside of the clit under the glans, not stroking the skin but using a variable pressure.  Suddenly a very slippery milky liquid will warmly gush out, a teaspoon or two in quantity.  Then back to pumping the g-spot. 

When the intensity becomes almost unbearable I switch back to the clit and stoke along the edge of the hood near the glans.  This sends her over  the edge.  I keep the orgasm going with the clit for about 30 seconds and then switch to g-spot. I start massaging the g-spot with just enough force to keep the orgasm continuing and building.  After continuing this for a while I switch back to the clitoris.  This switching back and forth can continue indefinitely.  At some point during this orgasm I'll start intercourse and continue massaging her g-spot with the head of my penis.  I can continue on the clit with my fingers.  Then I enter her more deeply and get the head of my penis positioned against the high cervical-edge trigger.  With a specific positioning I can massage her swollen g-spot with the dorsal surface of my penis shaft at the same time as I put pressure on the high cervical-edge trigger. 

With just the right rocking motion with my pubic bone putting pressure on her outer labia, the dorsal shaft on the g-spot, the head on her cervical-edge trigger I can feel these fluid pressure surges happening in the large body of the clitoris and the clitoris legs in the labia with no more than about a quarter inch of movement entirely within my skin, no sliding, just pressure changes.  I keep the stimulation going on the clit.  At this point the orgasms that had been happening more or less continuously since starting starts building for something very different.  I feel my approaching orgasm building up in sync with hers.  She triggers into an entirely different level of orgasm with loud deep guttural yowls as I trigger with her.  As long as I have the physical endurance to keep this going her yowls and hyper intense orgasm keeps going.  It isn't either clit or g-spot.  It's both and then some for the final orgasm phase.  There are often warm little gushes of fluid I can feel on the head of my penis which is very sweet to the taste, sort of like maple syrup as her muscles contract and relax, contract and relax.  This massage of my penis my her vaginal muscles is simply glorious. 

From Horny girl
I want to make a comment to Anonymous here below and for me I think her words is very worth considering about our clits and about the length and how they appear in our bodies. It sounds absolutely logical if in common cases the clit part only shows just a little between the labia and the main part is inside and therefor we have the G spot inside our pussies. I am born with a over-sized clit and I have never been satisfied by insert anything or find any G spot in there. But to masturbate my big clit satisfying me very much. It seems very logical cause most of my clitoral length is outside. I will believe it is this way about how I am shaped and from what I have heard about other girls who have kind of over-sized clits. Thank's a lot for straighten out the worries I had about this. 

From Anonymous
I have always been a clit girl..very orgasmic but requiring direct clitoral stimulation and only ever coming via intercourse with simultaneous clit stimulation by hand. Recently, at 43 and w/o a partner, I have discovered that I CAN orgasm without that stimulation, using a dildo while masturbating. (something that has, until I accidentally discovered this new sensation, never done a thing for me. I enjoyed penetration, but it never got me off in and of itself)

Seems the angle is key, an upward curve/angle that strokes that area directly, and also the pace (fast and steady and fairly hard). Only takes a minute for me to come this way, about the same time as with direct clit stimulation, and it's very satisfying but also very different in quality from a clitoral orgasm..not as sharp or intense, much slower and softer in feel, I guess. But it IS an orgasm..my vagina spasms many times just as it does with a clit come and I feel extremely satiated afterwards. No squirting to date.

From what I have gathered on this subject, the clitoris is actually about as long as the average penis, but the shaft is internal, buried in the upper wall of the vagina with only the head poking out. So "g-spot" orgasms ARE actually clitoral in nature..maybe the difference is akin to stimulation of the shaft of the penis vs direct stimulation of the head? (not having a penis myself, this is my best guess). I look forward to eventually exploring this new found ability of mine with a partner! Meanwhile, I am enjoying discovering exactly what angle and pace I need to bring this off!

From Sensual Woman
I love deep vaginal orgasms and if you have never experienced one you are missing out. Actually women can orgasm several ways. The opening to the vagina has millions of nerve endings, the clit and the G-spot. If you want to come g-spot and clitoris at the same time you must engage in the fucking process. You can't just lay there, hips are there for a reason ladies.Your man will love it as well.

I always come right after my man or with him by sucking on his dick with my pussy after he has come and is still hard. Wrap your legs around his and position him low on your pussy, move your hips up and down on his dick and use your pussy muscles to contract around him. You will engage your clit and also the rim of your pussy as you suck him in, and hit your spot. You will come so hard. The technique can also be used while he is mounted on top, stop his thrust and fuck him inverted, raising and lowering your hips to slide up and down his cock. I guarantee results ladies.  Good Fucking!

From Ann
PQ, there are plenty of women who don't respond to g-spot stimulation, and plenty that do. [see PQ's entry below]. I'm one who to whom it feels much the same as other types of vaginal stimulation (and not nearly as good as clit stimulation). So I did considerable research on the issue of the g-spot (including discussions with my gynecologist), and the bottom line is after all these years, and all the hoopla, it's still pretty much up in the air.

The only indisputable anwser is that some women do (the minority) and some women don't (the majority) respond to g-spot stimulation (and apparently it's not a 'spot' but an area). So don't knock yourself out trying to find or stimulate something that doesn't do it for you. There's plenty of other fun spots to play with.

Here's two really good article: Finding the G-spot: Is it real? (CNNHealth, 2010) and What is the G-Spot? (About.com: Sexuality, 2005).

From PQ
I have tried and tried to find my g-spot...both alone and with my husband...and it's still a no-go.  I'm really beginning to believe it does not exist.

From fit2betied
I am no expert, but I spent many of my younger years learning about the female body and the magic they hold!  I have had several girls have squirting orgasms as we got busy, with the normal "I think I have to pee" excuse.  If you work past that you will be so surprised. Its the key that youre on the right track. 

As you have read everyones different and there are a lot of ways to activate the G Spot.

Patience is the biggest key, being super horny or properly aroused is another helping factor.  I had been trying to show my wife that she too could have G Spot orgasms, but it eluded us for years. One day after weeks of being too busy to be together we both took the time to release some pent up energy and make love.  After going down on her and getting her warmed up and really wet, I brought out a small hand vibrator and began using it on her clit, and using my fingers inside her, soon she was building up to a huge orgasm, she made her peak and started shooting juices from her pussy and soaked the bed and my hand! This was so fantastic she just kept coming and squirting.

She was so thrilled and we have been trying to recreate that moment ever since.  It will work but you have to enjoy the journey as well.  Keep trying and you will find it!  I can't wait for it to become a normal part of our lovemaking as I love to enjoy her juicy wetness!

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