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Holding his pee peeI have a desire to hold a man's penis while he is urinating. My husband will never let me. I was wondering if any other females have had this same curiosity and whether they've had better luck than I? And guys, have you had a gal ask you, or would you let them hold it, if they did ask?   —Wimz

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From Carlos
I am a 52yo guy. Over my lifetime, of the women I have been intimate with, I have been fortunate enough to have been asked to do this by three of them and had two of them return the favour. I wouldn't class myself as a watersports kind of guy but it is fun. The first two were when I was in my twenties. The most recent is my current girlfriend.

The women in my twenties both delighted in taking hold of my penis while we were in the shower and directing the stream around the place. They would do things like stopping the flow by either putting a finger or thumb over the slit or squeezing my shaft tight. As any guy knows this is uncomfortable! However, it is also strangely exciting.

More recently, while out for a summer's evening walk, I needed to pee. My current girlfriend asked what it was like for a guy to piss standing up. So I said to her "why don't you hold my dick and see for yourself" and she did! The one thing women don't know how to do is the flick to get the last drops out when the job is done. All she succeeded in doing was getting a wet hand, poor thing. She has held my penis other times when I have needed to pee but I started getting erect and it became near impossible much to her great amusement.

It may sound strange but having a woman hold your penis directing the flow of a great urination is a great way to add intimacy to a relationship. I don't know what the psychology going on there is all about but it works for me.

From Doug
I must admit, I've never been asked that question by any woman. I've been asked all sorts of other questions along the line of "Can I try this with your penis ..." and I am usually agreeable if it is reasonable.  I can't imagine not agreeing to this one.  It impresses me as no big deal. 

As somebody mentioned the problem of peeing while erect, it does take some practice to learning how to release it but painful desperation can be a great teacher.  The one inherent problem is that where that stream will go when erect is quite unpredictable and will make a major mess so it is best to be in the shower or perhaps outdoors were one can spray all about without any problem of shoes, clothing or furniture and rugs.

From Anonymous
I wanted to try this also. I guess that as a woman we don't get how easiy  it is to stand up. I'm sure most woman have tried to do this someplace and all that happens is you peed on yourself.

I stood behind him reaching my arms around him. After putting it in my hand I closed my eyes and said, 'Go'. I wasn't expected the power of it and I made him  pee on the wall and floor. He laughed. I was not amused.

At least now I know why the sound of it has such force. We just have that little tinkle. Once was enough for me. I found out what I wanted to know. Now on to the next thing.

From Rose
Done it. It's like playing with any other water-spritzing or -spraying device, but squishier. but hard or squishy, those things are really neat to play with.

Maybe this is more a comment on my failure to stimulate constantly, but after going one or two rounds, most guys I've been with, don't get erect immediately afterwards, again, and there you are all orgasmed out, standing in the shower together, and the organ's flaccid, and what with the running water and all, the urge to pee seems almost natural, so I just took it from there. "Let's see what else I can do with this thing."

Hope you find someone to try it out on.

From Mike
I've never been much of a watersports fan - looks more fun than it is - it can sting - it takes a lot of clean up. As a receiver of gland holding, everything is fine until she gets to the "I wonder if..." stage.
 
I wonder if this will bend like that... oops, sorry!
 
I wonder what happens if I put my thumb over the end.... sorry, did you like those shoes?
 
I wonder if I squeeze real hard I can make it into one of those fountain things that shoots and stops…oh, pretty -- let's do it again!

From Anonymous
My wife knows she can do whatever she wants. God knows, she satisfies enough of my quirks.

But your fantasy may be difficult to achieve in real life. There's a little muscle that contracts when a man is erect, that makes it difficult or impossible to urinate. It's there for a reason, as you can imagine.

It's hard to imagine a man whose crank is being fondled to stay flaccid or partly so. So what urine may come forth would likely be an unsatisfying dribble. Maybe some men can do it, but I couldn't.

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