Do Passionate Kisses Ignite Your Libido?

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From Blix Dubrille
It's been a while, but I still remember how to ride a bike too. I feel that if and when you kiss a potential sex partner, you are given lots of information about how that person makes love. Wet and sloppy? Prissy and thin- lipped (bet that one isn't going down)? Bitey and ultra-physical? Sensual and slow?

And I think, based on that kiss, we decide if we want to make love or not (or fuck if that's what's on the table). Besides kissing, dancing with a person will tell you plenty as well. So instead of breath odor and other such things, I was appraising my kissing partners abilities to see if I wanted to go any further.

Once I made that decision, and it was only "yes" if he or she was a good lover (because sex is like tennis -- you should only play with those who are as good or better than you are), then the kissing was less about advertising and more about reinforcement and that "added value."

From Swordofwords
I love the kiss that shoots electrons right into my cock as it makes it hard. I don't get that sensation from everyone I kiss, just a selected few. I love the sensuality of the foreplay kiss, not just sexual, but also sensual. The teasing, the tempting. The ones that make you yearn for that little probe. The probe that invites me in to marry the tongues. The gentle kiss on the nape of the neck, the one that reminds us, that this is one of the best parts of being a human...a man...a woman or both. 

When a woman kisses me just so, I can just imagine the feel if my lips were the labia of a woman...and it makes me gasp! In wonder! And you can't help but lose your thoughts, other than This is right! This is now! And if I want...and I want...I can just surrender and just let it happen...now! like a fresh brush stroke of paint upon a canvass. The best word that comes to mine is exquisite. Did you almost just feel that right now? With me. Me too. Who brought this up? Good work. 

From Teresa L
Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing? Maybe so. It just makes me impatient. People take it so seriously, too, like it's an audition for fucking. Hey, you got the role a long time ago -- time's wasting!

From Anonymous
My boyfriend and I have an interesting kissing relationship. I'll hold his arms down by the wrists and climb on top of him, lying on him. Then I'll nudge his head on its side and kiss all around his ear, down his neck, everywhere I can in that particular sensitive area. His reaction when I hold him down is different than when he's free to move around, and I think it's because he's submitting control to someone he trusts and is enjoying the free-spirited feeling. 

I enjoy this activity even more than I do playing with his down-under area, because he goes wilder during the ear-kissing than he does anywhere else. He gets almost violently aroused when I kiss his ear and neck while pinning me down; he's actually wrestled himself out of it and done the same to me, whether I will or not (of course, I always will). 

We both love teasing and wrestling; it's like a competition between us to force pleasure onto the other person, and whoever can force the other into submission long enough to get aroused wins.

From Lizbeth
Ahhh. I remember my first kiss like it was yesterday. It was my seventeenth birthday and it lasted eight hours. It was the first for both of us so it was a bit sloppy, but I loved all the wetness and desperation. I've never again felt quite as wonderful as I did that day, but kissing is still my favorite thing to do.

But, sadly, as many of you have already mentioned, those kind of kisses tend to taper off in long relationships. I spent years mourning them. then something fabulous happened. After having my daughter, sexual activity was limited for six weeks. Having just had a baby I really wasn't feeling up to doing anything too strenuous, so we kissed. and kissed. and kissed. It was amazing. Why had we stopped?

I'm happy to say that was a year ago and we are still kissing passionately and we've vowed never to stop again. And as far as it igniting my libido, well we didn't make it that six weeks without the baby. We only lasted three and it took everything I had...(I don't recommend this, by the way. it could have resulted in something quite bad.)

From Tessa
My husband used to laugh about our first date. He wondered if I would kiss him, and he leaned hopefully in my direction. I almost broke his nose meeting him half- way! We were together 34 years. We dated 4 years before we married (we wanted to finish college). There was a lot of good kissing in those 4 years. We had 29 years and 10 months of marriage when he died this past summer. He had never been sick, so when he was diagnosed with cancer in April, it was a shock.

Going to grief support groups and reading about grief, I have yet to see any mention of the loss of physical contact. I'm 52 years old, and I miss sex! But most of all, I miss those heavenly deep kisses that would take my breath away, the ones I could feel through my whole body. He was a wonderful kisser, and they seemed to get better every year. If I want to go out to dinner I can call a friend. People have been wonderful helping me out since he died. But the one void they can't fill is the kisses. I always wondered before how someone could rush into a new relationship after losing a spouse, but now I know. I was spoiled before and didn't realize it.

From Bill
I love kissing, before, during and after intimacy. I am 79, my wife 76. We have been married for 10 years, together for 13. I was widowed at 65, she divorced at 69. There were profound reasons why we could not marry until we did but to go into them could cause some problems. My wife displayed no aversion to kissing during our courting, although she did mention that a dentist with a moustache frightened her badly as a child. I have worn a moustache for 51 years. I offered to shave it off but she insisted I not do so and it remains as it always was.

After we became engaged (about six months after we met and four months after we became intimate) I noticed that she seemed to dislike open mouth kissing, something that we had done since a month after we met. She initiated the intimacy...myself being so in love with her that I felt any aggressive petting or attempts at sex would end her feelings for me.

She was, and remains to this day, a lady with a powerful libido. We are intimate at least three times a week and her orgasms are lengthy and, occasionally, multiple. Any attempt on my part to actually kiss her, closed mouth, instantly cause her to turn her face so that I end up nuzzling her cheek or neck. When I raise the issue she gives no reason other than "I don't care to kiss at all." Yet, I awaken her every morning after I have made and pour the coffee by gently kissing her cheek or forehead. She loves that and hugs me with passion.

I do miss the kissing but the sex is outstanding and in every way she makes me feel like a superior lover, which I know I am not, so I accept it for what it is. An unsolvable issue that could spoil the wonderful emotional and physical relationship that we do have should I attempt to change her.

From Justin
I recently had a first kiss with the young lady I am dating. I know that the first kiss is the defining moment that tells me if there is any future for the relationship. Well, if there is anything more sensually stimulating than that kiss, I haven't experienced it. I loved the feeling of her lips on mine, and even more the chills I was getting and feeling her shake made this kiss the most sensual kiss ever. So, yes, a kiss can be and is one of the most satisfying feelings in the world and anticipating one is just as exciting.

From Dane
It is by far one of the most sensual and lasting memories for myself...the kiss given and taken slowly. The ideal passionate kiss for me involves settling down to candlelight, extra soft textures and a very, very slight smell of a cologne or perfume (or the candles). The graceful touch and smoothness of our lips connecting makes the kiss register with my intellect and appreciation of our sexuality. But the real kicker for me, is when our breathing is slowed to a surreally slow pace and the exchange of her breath and mine tells my soul that the world is ok and that I'm with my lover and soul-mate. The kiss and the breathing lingers for days afterwards. Orgasms come and go like a tidal change, but the real power, or gravity, which creates the tides is from the relationship of two bodies interacting as they live and breath. Kissing is really a great way share intimacy.

Note breathing is a very big part of the kiss for me and the only way I felt comfortable with it was knowing (and trusting my wife to tell me otherwise), that I did not have bad breath. I have worked out a routine to make sure that my breath is fresh by taking good care of the mouth, tongue and other aspects related to good breath, such as diet and hydration. Fresh breath makes other parts of the body seem fresh as well for both of us. Take a slow deep breath and relax before kissing. Keep it relaxed while kissing and let it last as long as possible.

From Vi
My husband is not much of a kisser, but whenever he puts his lips to my lips or his lips to my ear I'm gone, lost. So yes I guess it does do it for me (at least one of the things).

From Shep
Now this is a topic to brighten up a gloomy overcast NY day. I suppose I have been lucky in that most of the people I have kissed were at least good kissers, but most of the people I have kissed have been women. The worst kissers were a couple of guys, but don't know if it had more to do with the whole "I am a lesbian and like women" than the fact that they were just bad kissers. I did find that women would spend much more time enjoying kissing than men did.

As sexy as a great kiss is, I must admit I think I find even sexier that moment right before the kiss when the passion, hunger and need have built up. Those few seconds before the lips meet are heaven.

From Christine
Interesting questions. I don't tend to think about whether my breath is okay, because I chew gum so much. I also don't usually think at all when I'm kissing. Normally, I feel and respond, if we're talking about the really good kisses. I have had one kiss where I felt my knees go weak, and I stopped it to suggest sitting down, at which point I was rewarded with him telling me he would hold me up.

That one kiss, where my knees went weak, did not happen in the beginning of the relationship. It was after a couple of years of being with that person. So, I do not see that the really good ones come only at the beginning. I also want to say that it all depends on each person. I mean, many do not care about kissing. They see it as a means to an end kind of thing. These people do not get very far with me.

From Cervo
I like kissing, a lot of kissing, long kisses, wet kisses, sloppy kisses, lewd kisses, rude kisses (which I supply as a sort of sudden surprise here and there), but they all have a time and a place in a progression. If you have just opened the bills and are about to call your insurance agent, wet sloppy kisses will need more build up than a sudden slosh of warm, soggy lips. I like the taste of lipstick. I kiss someone whose lipstick tastes like grape jelly. I thought I would faint the first time I found that taste on my lips though I would not eat the actual stuff for a large sum of money. She, on the other hand, would be very tasty.

The curse of kissing is the peck. Don't kiss if you won't kiss. Don't kiss to be nice. Don't ever, under any circumstances kiss to get it over with. Kiss when you feel like it. Kiss when you mean it. You don't have to make a big deal out of it for it to be a big deal. Finally, don't confuse a peck with a baby kiss, ladies and gentlemen. A row of baby kisses moving down the spine to ever more engaging spots is not pecking. Chickens peck. Chickens are fine souls but they are not romantic. Watch a chicken fuck. It's just not that endearing and its hard to kiss with a beak.

So kiss and mean it because it's worth your time more than anything else you have on your agenda. Cervo, known to some as Lush Lips (in a drunken sort of way).

From Paige
I'm a bi-sexual female in her late 30s, presently unattached. I love kissing so very much, mere words can't describe it. I've had much more satisfying experiences kissing women than kissing men. I like really wet, sloppy kisses with lots of tongue and lots of saliva.

From Dina
On the sweet subject of the kiss, I always remember Kevin Costner's line in Bull Durham about how he likes to play baseball and how he likes long, slow, deep, wet kisses that last 3 weeks—and all that Susan Sarandon's character can say in reply is 'oh my!'. Oh my indeed! A kiss is a prelude to what happens next—a good kiss, a great kiss can lead almost anywhere (from the lips down to the hips and then some!) Ah yes! There ain't nothing like it!

From Kat
My fiancée and I have been together about a year. He calls himself a Neanderthal, and he's not entirely wrong; he isn't romantic in the faintest. He's sweet, considerate, and protective and I love him with all my heart, but if a moment begins to get slightly romantic, he somehow ruins it. His version of foreplay is saying "lets f****" or "I'm horny, you wanna do something about it?" 

If I mention, "I'm horny" he'll just smile and ask me how long I've been on this site that day (we always end up messing around after I'm on here). Sometimes he'll tell me later. But if I'm really serious about wanting sex, I just walk over, bend down and give him a long, passionate kiss. No tongue, and bite on his lower lip. Sometimes I throw in a little moan while I do it...anyway, one kiss and he's

It's the closest thing to foreplay I get.

From Roxanne
I love kissing. It gets me hot faster than anything. It takes me back to a more innocent time when kissing was all I could do, so I had to make the most of it. And, a man whose tongue is good to your mouth is likely to know how to use his tongue in other places. Plus, it takes a real gentle and romantic lover to indulge in kissing and not take a shortcut to intercourse. I like to start with kissing and work up to the other sexual acts.

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