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From Rocky
I was thoroughly enjoying a fresh shower at the age of 12 or 13 when I discovered that my under carriage really enjoyed being cleaned. I must have lathered up and gently stroked my enlarging penis a dozen times before I hit the point of no return and noticed the burst of sperm. I had never heard about anything like this before and I was sexually naive enough to believe that I had discovered a truly wonderful secret of the universe that could help advance science and thrill humanity! I'm quite fortunate that I started asking a few questions and doing a little research before I approached my algebra teacher to tell her about my remarkable discovery!

From Anonymous
Shortly after starting secondary school, I became best friends with a rather confident, precocious girl. Sometime during the first year of that friendship, she told me about the clitoris, and how if you rubbed it you would orgasm. I don't remember if we tried it together at first, but I certainly tried at home. When she asked me if I came, I said I thought so, to which she replied that if I didn't know, I couldn't have done. I think we were together when I did experience my first orgasm, though I think I was a little too self- conscious in her presence to enjoy it fully (we only ever masturbated in the same room, under our own blankets). 

I do remember once having a masturbation session where she suggested we moan, which I seem to remember we did a little. After that first orgasm I was hooked and developed various methods. My favourites, apart from basic fingering, was the running water method by detaching the shower head, and tying up a few socks, placing them in another sock and using a scarf to firmly attach them to a teddy or pillow, I would then ride this hard bump (usually wearing knickers to avoid too much friction). Those were very intense orgasms. I introduced another friend to masturbation, just as my friend had done for me.

From IrvingB (Carolinas)
I was introduced to masturbation by a male cousin who told me what it was and how to do it.  I remember having guilt feelings about it.  I would sit on the toilet wacking off and worrying if I was going to hell.  I would pray to the lord and ask if it was wrong and if it was to please send me a sign.  Well, I would swear off for a few days and go back to rubbing myself to orgasm.  I never got struck by lightening or saw any other sign, so I continued to pleasure myself.  I think that may have been the basis for my current agnostic point of view.  God has bigger fish to fry than worrying about a person please themselves.  Later I found some of my father's WWII erotica and really had fun masturbating.

From Slohand
My father began receiving a magazine called TRUE. It had been sort of a manly man's adventure magazine, but somewhere in the middle of his subscription they went in a new, much racier editorial direction. An article on truck-stop hookers remains lodged in my memory. One month they had an article with a headline something like, "The Sex Habit Nobody Talks About." It was about masturbation—a topic I hadn't much encountered in my very innocent Catholic school boy upbringing.

It didn't give a step-by-step description, but even a total neophyte like myself could get the gist of it. I must have read that article a dozen times, relishing the feel of my dick throbbing and my balls aching as I worked up the nerve to see if jacking off was all that this magazine was building it up to be. I'd experiment and play, trying different hand positions and grips, but never quite going over the edge. Too scared.

Finally one day I got carried away and exploded—almost literally. A copious shower of cum exploded shooting into the air and landing with wet little plops on the bathroom floor then running down my shaft and matting in my sparse public hair. I sat there on the toilet with my heart pounding and legs shaking. I was more than a little scared, but mostly amazed. Terrified of being caught I cleaned up, realizing all the while that I had crossed a major bridge in life.

From LKJ
One night while trying to get to sleep I was laying on my stomach.  Suddenly I noticed a delightful sensation coming from my genitals.  It immediately absorbed my attention as something I had never felt before. In the days that followed I studied this new sensation.  I found that I could increase the feeling by spreading my legs and by squeezing my penis in my hand. I spent many hours 'humping' on my pillow. I found that I could masturbate in the living room as well.  I would get a thick book and place it under the sofa.  I would then place my legs under the sofa with my genitals resting on the book.  I would lay there, not moving, while I would watch TV.  I don't know if my parents ever figured out what I was doing.  Nobody ever said a word about it.

I'm not sure whether I was having orgasms.  The word didn't mean anything to me at the time.  I felt very intense pleasure that I could prolong for as long as I wanted. I don't recall that my penis became erect until I was in my teens.  I say that because one night my penis did become erect and it really surprised me. Not long after that, I had my first ejaculation.  That surprised me!!  I knew in theory that a man would produce sperm that could somehow impregnate a woman.  It's one thing to know something in theory and quite another to feel one's body actually trying to do it!  Trying, that is, to do the first part, producing sperm.  It would still take me some time to figure out how the second part, impregnating a woman, might work.  (Believe me, I had some really strange ideas on how one might do that) In any event, I suddenly found myself, a man.

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