Anal Sex for Straight Men

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From Mike
Having read several comments on this penetrating subject I must also comment.  Early in our relationship my wife and I explored anal stimulation and both found it very exciting.  My wife seemed to enjoy my tongue tickling her little pucker.  One night we  were in 69 position and she lubed up a finger and slid it in up to my prostate, and messaged it. My cock got harder, then she started finger fucking me.  This was the most exquisite feeling and I showed my appreciation with a very big load of cum...which she sucked up while I gave her a very very intense orgasm with my tongue. 

Since then I have let her use a well lubed dildo and with very fine results. So men, enjoy and don't get uptight if your lady is willing to explore.

From Silverado
I am a guy. I am not in the least bit interested in men. I love to have my butt played with, its very sexy. I have a glass curved dildo which when I masturbate feels utterly fantastic when I slide it up my ass.

 My wife and I have only had penetrative anal sex once and she was uncomfortable with it and I found (probably because of that) it was just too much trouble to be worth it.

I love to rim her though and she enjoys it too, although she doesn't reciprocate. Ass play is good. It's just another sexual organ. Enjoy it.

From Rick
Me and my girlfriend of 5 years have talked about anal sex and we started out with finger play. I bought a strap-on and some lube.. we had toyed with the idea of her fucking me, to be honest I was a little apprehensive at first but it was something I think we both wanted.

We did it missionary style and doggy style, both were great! She was very gentle and loving which made all the difference. I didn't know a man could come like that, it was fantastic!  I can't wait till our next meeting.

From Anonymous
My wife caught me at home in the shower one time with one of her dildos. She didn't let me know she had watched me for a few minutes. Anyway that weekend she bought a harness and a 8x3.5 inch dildo and lots of lube. I was very uncomfortable when she made known that she had watched me and had something for me! It was slow going because I was nervous.

Now days she loves for me to suck her cock while she tells me how she is going to use me and rip my ass good while she slam fucks me. I LOVE IT! I've woke up in the early hours of the morning with her sliding up to me with that hard cock. It's such a turn on, I spread my legg and let her fuck me as hard and rough as she wants.

I'm not gay, but I do love having my ass fucked hard and deep!!

From Mike
I am a 70 yr old male currently using a butt plug to enlarge my anus to allow a man my age to penetrate me, along with a 20 yr old male to do likewise. I had no idea this would feel so good, even with an enlarged prostate, I enjoy getting it massaged by a hot cock throbbing in my ass.

Even with plenty of lube initially it was painful, but after the head of their cocks got past the sphincter muscle, it was downright orgasmic, with me coming profusely.

Although rock hard erections are a thing of the past, I can still eat pussy with the best of them, and enjoy giving a guy a blow job.

From Doug
I have hemorrhoids. A simple finger for an exam is painful and leaves me bleeding. Same with my girl friend. Neither of us find anal anything interesting at all, just painful. It's good that I don't have any great craving for anal penetration, because it isn't in the cards.

From CP
My partner & I have been experimenting with this for about a year now. Full strap-on as well as vibes and my finger (one of my favorites). He enjoys the raw intimacy and I have to say it really gets to me as well, the act of penetrating him I find to be an incredible gift. 

I don't know if men feel this way about vaginal penetration, but for me, his desire for me to do this is an act of trust and faith that's overwhelming, not to mention the intense sexual high we both get from it.

From Moniker
I think my guy wants to try this...and I wouldn't think anything strange about it. It doesn't make me think that he'd have homosexual tendencies. I think it's just another, new way to find pleasure behind closed doors. If he's attracted to me, and wants to share new experiences with me, all the better. Besides, I've heard that the prostate and be stimulated this way and is supposed to be like the equivalent to the female g-spot (we're trying to find mine now, why not find his too?)

I do think he's interested in it, but hasn't found the way to bring it up. I'm kinda shy too, but I'm sure it'll come up sometime or another. We've just started to discuss/try some new stuff...wish us luck.

From Bob
The first time I experienced it, I had an incredible orgasm. My girl friend and I were playing and the thought of this being gay never entered my mind it was just great. Since then masturbation is not complete without some type of anal stimulation. I'm 50 years old and this is just something I enjoy. 

I think if you start needing to add special labels to what you do to make something ok or not ok you have problems. Unless you like to feel you are doing something wrong which adds pleasure to the "badness" of what you are doing...that's a whole other game.

From Stephen
I got into this a few years ago with this woman I knew from the city. I'd been in a sexless marriage for decades... and moving into a much freer relationship meant the door was wide open. We did lots of things, and she thought exploring some backside fun with me was a great idea. We got into it too. I never had an orgasm from it. I think I'm one of those guys where the penetration kind of blocks some of the spiking possibilities (I read about that in Tristan Taormino's book on anal sex), but I liked the feelings a lot. I also got pretty good at doing myself that way.

One last comment, is I've read other postings about anal play where the guys feel they just have to say, "And I'm not gay.." I think that's silly. It's my body, and what feels good to me, regardless of how it happens, is what feels good to me. A loving woman, who's into creating pleasure in my body, is not making me into someone else. Lots of guys on guys like to fellate each other. why not? But because my lover also likes to, she doesn't make me feel gay. She makes me feel great!

From Nobilis
A friend of mine recently said something like "Any guy who likes his asshole touched is a little bit gay." I ripped him a new one, don't worry, but my point is that it's a fairly common prejudice. Lots of men harbor a secret fear that they might be "a little bit gay". That fear causes them anxiety and even pain that's hard to encompass in words.

From Oxartes
Well, I certainly can't speak for any straight man other than myself. It's not the fear of being perceived (by others or myself) as feminized or submissive but it's the choices one makes about the life one wants to lead & who one wants to lead it with that often obviate the possibility of ever fulfilling a craving or desire to be penetrated. Other desires take precedence over this one and relegate this one so far down on the totem pole of possibility that it's pushed out of reality into a small, well-concealed, deeply hidden section of our consciousness, where it will never see the light of day and indulged only as an occasional fantasy

From Bob
I cringe the second I hear the Doc snap on the latex glove. Last time he snapped on the latex he said, "You know, at a time like this, you don't care if your doctor went to Harvard Medical -- you're just grateful he has slender fingers." BTW, he went to one of those Caribbean med schools.

From Bruce
I love anal stimulation. I have bi tendencies, but most of my experiences have been with women. I love nothing more than a woman playing with my arse, and when they hit the right spot (prostate), my god, look out. Most of the girls I have been with seem to really get off that I am so into it, and they love to play with me. I can't believe so many guys seem hung up about it as it really seems to turn girls on quite a bit to play with a guys arse as well.

I have only done the strap on thing with girls a couple of times, but that has been a great experience. The thought of the reversal of normal roles is a real turn on for both parties it seems, and both girls said it was a long held fantasy of theirs to fuck a guy like that.

Do other girls in here fantasise about doing this?

From Tess
I think it's HOT. My husband likes it. He's not gay, or even remotely interested in any kind of m/m action. Actually, I can say that for several men I have been with. The anus is a highly erogenous zone. I know how to effectively milk the male prostate dry without a touch to my husband's penis. It's especially intense for him to have a "dry" orgasm after I have milked his prostate completely empty. My husband also claims that his ass "cums" much like a woman's G-spot orgasm.

It just feels good to have it stimulated. Penetration goes beyond stimulation; there are few sensory receptors inside the rectum, just as there are few inside the vagina. It is the actual act of being penetrated, filled, "taken" - that gives the pleasure. The exchange of give/receive is powerful and makes one very vulnerable. I think it takes a huge amount of trust and intimacy for a man to allow (or make a request for) himself to be penetrated. But in my experience, if he becomes comfortable with it, he will not be disappointed.

From Peter
My wife and I enjoy a lot of variety and anal sex is included. It's very erotic for me to occasionally assume a more submissive role and have her stimulate my prostate with one of her vibrators while she slowly strokes my cock. It's a real luxury to have her keep me on the edge for 10 or 15 minutes with the extra prostate stimulation. When it's unbearable to wait any longer, she'll speed up pumping my cock and push hard on the prostate. It's always a very intense orgasm and she says I ejaculate longer and harder.

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