Bush or Bare
Your preference is...
I only shaved my bikini line and only when absolutely necessary. I found shaving my pubic hair unpleasant in so many ways. When I decided to try shaving more I wound up shaving it all off. Once I got use to that I found I preferred it that way. I've got a few questions on shaving. Do you shave your pubic hair? If so, how much do you shave off? What about your partner or lover or spouse? Do you prefer them to shave their pubic hair, and again, how much?
It says as much about you as your shoes. —Kim Catrall (Sex and the City on the importance of pubic hair styles.)
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From Jenny W
For the last five years I have been completely shaven below. The main reason for this is my love of wearing really short skirts and no knickers which means that it is almost impossible not to give a little flash of my pussy whenever I sit or bend down. As my pussy hair was black it is not quite so obvious what is showing, and sometimes no one notices. Being shaven is also much more hygienic, and during sex the pleasure is much greater. I would never go back to having pussy hair.
My girl trims in winter and shaves smooth in spring/summer as she wear small bikinis. I like it smooth. During this early fall, she started to let it grow out. We sometimes shower together so I picked up her fancy razor and she let me shave off all her stubble which was erotic not to mention how good it looks.
During foreplay she took her little hair trimmer and cut my hair down to maybe 1/4 inch. The next time I shaved her in the shower when I finished, she took the razor and shaved off the rest of my hair smmoth from my naval to thighs. She had preplanned both my trim and first shave. When she first started my shave I didn't really want it but what could I say because I want her smooth.
I have to say, sex is way better when you're both smooth. During oral sex, she used to hold her hand over my pubic hair to keep it out of her mouth. Oral improved because she doesn't have to worry about getting hair in her mouth. Now when I finish shaving her, she takes the razor and shaves my stubble smooth. I came to realize that if I want her smooth, I'm going to be that way too. The longest I've gone between her touch ups is two weeks and then it's prickly. I tried to get out of my last shave and she insisted but I guess it was fun submitting to her demand.
I prefer something in between. I 've never experienced a partner who was completely bald in the entire region , nor have I encountered a "natural" woman. My preferance is based solely on my experience. Each of my sexual partners mirrored myself : shaved and well kept , save for a manicured patch of hair above the actual sweet spot. As a former girlfriend put it , she had a "landing strip" , and it looked lovely.
I wouldn't have a problem with a "natural" woman , as long as the hair was not an impediment to my tongue accomplishing the mission.
My wife and I are both completely bare down there, and we both totally love it! She loves the feel of my smooth dick and balls in her mouth so much that she encouraged me to get all the hair lasered off, which I am doing. When she’s down on me, sucking me off, there is nothing more sensual. For her part, she gets her hair down there sugared off quite regularly, and each time it grows back less – an added benefit. I love the drop-dead pure sexuality of her bare pussy, particularly because her lips get so big and engorged. Visually they are so captivating, and they are soooo smooth! I can suck on and play with those puffy lips for hours! And when we finally get around to fucking, the sensuality of her bare skin to mine - is mind-blowing.
Bush or Bare? For us it’s Bare all day, every day!
I like my girl smooth. One night, I again shaved her super smooth. She likes it and said I want you the same way. Hey I've got hair 2" long. She took the trimmer to me and wads of hair rolled off so quick it was amazing. She then shaved all my stuff clean. About once a week, she goes back over it. I hate to undress in front of friends, she laughs about my modesty. I look 10 years old but the oral is well worth it. If she didn't, I'd shave my own for the benefits. Try it!
Anonymous, I say neither, nor.
[see Anonymous' entry below] Don't go bald (personally speaking I don't like that look), it'll make your scar stand out like a beacon. And don't go bushy (too much bush is, well, unfortunate). I suggest you give yourself a nice neat trim, maybe shave in the groin area (meaning the crease at the junction of the inner part of the thigh with the trunk).
A neatly trimmed bush is gorgeous, and so damn hot! that it will entice your lover to lick your scar on his way down.
This is not a topic specifically mentioned. However I was reading comments on bush or bare and I have been struggling with which way to go because I have had 3 c-sections. I have a flat tummy and no stretch marks but I do have a visible scar from the c-sections. I am 43 years old and was wondering if this is a turn off to a man or does it matter? Also what would be the recommendation - bush or bare?
We both shave/trim but for a different reason. My lady kept her bikini line clear but no more than what grew outside her swim suit. I was naturally hairy until about five years ago when I was shaved in preparation for a surgery. I found that I liked the feel and we found an unusual side benefit. For years making love to my wife was a real lottery as she would get a UTI almost every time. Rough sex causes it was our advice - not us we'd say as neither us is into any kind roughness. Gentle love is our way.
Suddenly the UTI's vanished. The only difference was my shaven state. When it grew out about two months after the surgery we were back on the old treadmill. Make love and the next afternoon she would be off to the doctor for new prescription for her UTI. I shaved again and the UTI's stopped again. I keep myself trimmed pretty short and shave about every three days using an electric, stubble and ingrown hairs are real problems if I blade shave. She shaves occasionally especially her bikini line mainly using one of those rotating head depilators away from the 'tender bits' but these days doesn't go fully bare.
We've found it has made us more aware of our bodies and I am more exhibitionist. I would never had posted something like this 'before'.
I am Francine's age and I (respectfully) disagree with her. [read Francine's entry below] I first shaved when I was in college and a boyfriend hinted and hinted and then I surprised him and did it. It felt so odd then and I grew it back and for years I have tried it both ways. Over time, I trimmed it so I could wear a bathing suit etc. Then I trimmed it more and more. And my husband really liked it each time, especially when I started shaving the labia. He really enjoys looking at a pretty kitty and he takes frequent opportunities to peek and see if I am wearing panties and if I'm commando he'll pet me, finger me, and if possible lick me.(all of which I LOVE so I skip panties more often than not in hope for it.) I told him if he promised to continue, I would laser it off..and I started the process recently. After nearly 30 years together, things couldn't be sexier!
I'm a 50-year-old woman, and my opinion is that shaving the pubic hair
is a fad that young people have infatuated themselves with. I grew up in the 60s and 70s, and pubic hair was considered sexy.
To me, it still is. Woman look like women with hair, they look like
little girls without it. I've never shaved it off, but only recently have I begun to trim
lightly. No matter what anyone says, I prefer unshaven.
After some nagging my wife shaved it all off just to please me. That was years ago. She didn't like it and let it grow back. I didn't mind I just wanted her to try it once. Years later she started to trim it some and I started to shave my cock and balls. Things progressed for both of us. I started to shave a little more. Then she surprised me and went totally bare again. I love it! Since then I have gone totally bare too and we both love it now. I feel so much more kinkier when it comes to sex. It makes for great oral sex too. I definitely urge you to try it.
I have been shaving all the hair off my pussy for the past four years, originally at the suggestion of my boyfriend. I find that without hair sex is so much more intense and enjoyable.Most of my workmates have seen my shaved look, and they all love it. One of my female workmates has also shaved it all off, and says it feels much better.
I shave my pubic area, except for a little spot above my tool. It's been this way for years and I love it. It's so comfortable and I feel much more sexy for my wife and myself. It makes me want to walk around naked at my house all the time. I like it so much when I go out I no longer wear underwear. I just wear the shorts.
I just went for my first male brazillian recently and love having all my pubic hair removed. The female beautician did a great job and was very professional with the process. She does a number of men and told me men aren't harder just different. I just laid on the table totally exposed to her as she worked. She handled my package to get all areas and then I was on all fours for her to get my ass hair free. What a great way to go and the smoothness is just supper nice. My girlfriend couldn't stop touching me when I showed her and she finally went down on me and took me to completion. I found it interesting that with my girlfriend, I got a huge erection. But while getting the brazillian, even with a very attractive beautician, no erection or even a thought of it.
My preference is to go bare for myself. My wife enjoys a change up and will sport some trimmed bush and back to bare. She just doesn't like the upkeep of trying to go bare constantly. I get mine waxed so I have a good couple of weeks bare before it starts to come back in. Even before I get it waxed, it still is very soft and light.
My girlfriend and I have been members of the baldy beaver club for 8 years now. Neither of us have any desire to go back to hairy. There have been periods when for reasons of lack of time we have let the hair grow back for as much as a month. Neither of us like that. We have been staying a a nudist club the past several weeks, dressed only when we have to go to town to buy food. When we started shaving there were perhaps 10% who also did so. Now some days as many as half the folks of all ages are shaved.
I've got to admit I very much prefer the clitoris and labia being visible rather than lost in a forest of hair. I never much cared for oral sex with all that hair. Now when I can see and kiss that beautiful four petaled lotus, playing with her wondrous clitoris with my tongue and even putting my tongue as far into her as I can, which drives her wild, without a single hair and nothing but smooth slick clitoris and labia to suck and massage with my mouth I can't get enough. I like her to have orgasm after orgasm right into my mouth, drinking in her honey sweetness as she uncontrollably squirts and I find it is heavenly.
To each his/her own, but as for me I love the bush. At 83 I am a well seasoned widower and know what I like but don't tell my grands. They think I should spend my waking hours rocking in a chair.
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