Real Cyber Experiences

I discovered the joy of sexual freedom through cybersex. I met all kinds of people, from all over the world. It was a way to express all the hidden desires I had suppressed for so long. Some of my cyber partners became so much more to me than just words on the screen. If you haven't done it, I guess it's hard to understand. They touch your life.

It can be very exciting, fun, creative, a real learning experience - discovering what really excites you, what you want, how you feel about things. My lovers and I have discussed everything from their marriages, their work, religion, kids, death, you name it. Sure I want to meet someone in real life someday;  have a husband again - I loved being married. But for now, this is a way to grow, to learn about myself, to rediscover what makes me happy.

I'm curious, what are your cybersex experiences? —Cathy

Are you curious about cybersex? Try the following safe sites:

• Adult Chat Rooms - Pick a room by geographic region or topic of interest. Try the Cybersex room, or the Cyberfantasy room, or the Webcam Fun Room (yow!). If you're new, the Lobby is a great place to get started. There's always chatters ready to play 24/7. Easy to navigate, lots of fun.

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From T
The cyber world and cyber-ships are extremely dangerous and can be emotionally damaging. I was involved with a "whatever-ship" as I call it for five years with a man who lived on the opposite coast. I got sucked into the world of fantasy with this man. My story isn't very different from the rest, he lied to me about his live-in girlfriend and I went back and forth being in contact with him. It involved a lot of phone sex play and many erotic emails and sharing of erotic stories.

The danger of these types of situations are when one person wants to make it "real" (me) and the other person does not (him). It ended very badly and I see his true colors now and that you can't trust everyone on the Net...actually, I don't think I'll ever believe anyone I meet from the Net after what happened to me.

The one sound piece of advice I can give to women is these men use you as a pawn in their sick, twisted fantasy minds...most of them are pathological liars and usually have some of mental problems/insecurity issues. The other sad part is that a lot of people don't see you as a living, thinking, feeling person--we are not just words on a screen or a voice over the phone. We are all people who deserve respect.

I've only had disheartening, sad experiences involving the Net. It's not the real world and it's easy to fall into an emotional trap. I fell hard for this person--stupid fool that I was but I learned a hard lesson and hopefully, will never make the same mistake again. Good luck and be safe!

From Anonymous Guy
I met my friend about 6 yrs ago and we got on like a house on fire. I suppose if you have similar problems in life then you confide in people you feel comfortable with and to tell a complete stranger all your problems helps ease the pain and suffering. At that time I met my friend my marriage was fine and I told my net friend I was totally loyal—oh how wrong I was.

Over time my net friend and I exchanged pictures of each other and we used to sit with our cams while chatting talking about sex and what we would like to do with one another. It was so stimulating and at times I have to admit I was so aroused by the content of our chats it stayed on my mind for days. Eventually we decided to meet up and she invited me to see her which I duly obliged. We made love had sex did all we said we would do while we used to chat, it was amazing, and if the situation was any different I think we would have ended up together.

As it turned out, she was a lonely housewife looking for some fun while her husband was out. If I could turn the clock back I suppose I wished I hadn't met her at all. Everything was ok till then but then if you have high expectations one becomes awfully disappointed. Would I do it again? No never. I still keep in touch with her and we talk now and again but personally I feel used and betrayed. Word of warning: not everyone is who they claim to be, most have some sordid secrets. So people beware, you have been warned.

From Anonymous 
I experienced cyber sex for the first time and I have never been so turned on in my life! It gave birth to and brought out my "animal". We reveled in fantasyland. It was a constant daily fever - what a rush. For me tho, it was someone I had met once and had been turned on by his brilliant mind. We proved one thing - the fantasy is always better/stronger than the reality. Our real encounter fell flat. It was uncomfortable and embarrassing...and premature.

From Brie
I had one of the most intimate and full blown love affair, only it was online. See we both love to role play and our roles took our characters to places neither one of us has ever been to. We both live normal lives with less then perfect figures, but in the role play we were who we always wanted to be and honestly when our characters finally made love, I cried in real life.

We kept our role play going for nearly four months and due to life issues we had to end it. We ran out of time and our role play had come to the point where either our characters made love or it was all for nothing. To this day I will remember our romance as one that was the best ever, if only it was real, but perhaps it will live on best in my heart. It was real, it was heart felt and beautiful.

From Anonymous
Out of curiosity I recent had my first cyber sex experience. It was fun to say the least...and really addictive. Just a few days later I found myself in another session with the same man online and a third with someone new. Being a virgin there is an attractive lure to cybering—and while some will say its because you can't "get any" in real life I strongly disagree. It's a fantasy. You're basically creating a sexual fantasy with someone online and the thrill of knowing your partner is getting off on it as much as you are is really titillating. During a session my cyber buddy interrupted and mentioned how he had an awesome orgasm just by reading my words and I thought it was really erotic.

From Anon
I never knew how powerful the mind was when it comes to sex. Just the words on the screen triggers the imagination, and it is powerful indeed. I've been with both sexes, sometimes many partners in cyberspace - things I would never dare to do in real life - but what a turn-on. My cyber persona can be anything I'm in the mood for and I guess that's what's fun - being someone you've only imagined.

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