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From Paul R
I have many sex toys that are used on a regular basis. My most recent purchase was the deluxe wonder plug, a simply amazing product, the others include but not limited to, are anal plugs, vibrators, anal beads, strap on dildos, my wife and I both enjoy using these toys on each other. I will be purchasing the dynamic 8.5 inch penis extension soon, I hope it works as well as the reviews I have read about it.

If you don't own any sex toys I recommend buying some, it's a really great way to spice up a sex life, and keep things interesting.

 

From Anonymous
I am a straight ( but bi-curius) male. I am married and have secret desire to be with a male. I am an avid fan of sex toys for both females and males. I have a jell masturbating toy called Head Honcho. It feels absolutely wonderful when I slide it onto my erect penis. The lube and the little fingers inside the sleeve make my orgasm so great. I also have a vibrating anal toy called All American Whopper. It is 8" long and 1.5" in diameter. It is made of a material that feels like real skin. It has a suction cup that helps keep it in place as I have the ride of my life.To see this toy, go to adameve.com and click on vibratores. Then, in the search bar, type all american whopper. I highly recommend this toy. Both male and females have given it rave reviews.

From D
Well, thought I would share too seeing so many others doing the same.  I have a little collection of toys myself, but I find them all less than completely satisfying unless I'm writing a hot story or scene.  Mentally, the sex and connection between the two people or D/s relationship has to be their for my mind to come to a complete feeling of bliss.  Writing erotica is a lot of fun but also work to get it right.  (Who says work can't be fun.)

I have read about some of the ones I have or tried, such as the jelly sleeves, but nothing compares to the Fleshlight.  The only problem I had was that I'm not one of these "big guys".  I'm average sized and the full sized ones feel good but nothing to write about since the deeper sensation parts start a little away from me.  That was until I tried their Sex in a Can models.  For an average guy, these are heaven.  They are also smaller so that they can be hidden easily and look like a beer can, but come in three types.  Works just like the standard version but are shorter with more sensations. 

I have a few anal toys from different makers.  Some are just plain scary until you are use to them.  However my favorite is the Billy by Lelo I got from an online place.  It's P-spot vibe made for guys but I think even ladies might like this one (or at least use it in their guy).  You do however use it with a condom on it for the toy's protection which means sharing is a possibility at least.  It is a multi-speed and function vibe and will make you squirm with the feelings it makes in your body when hitting the P-spot.

For a stationary type anal plug, try the metal ones.  They are heavier and are good for accepting the body's temperature.  They are also easy to clean up and lube up.  Other types might feel hard or have rough textures at the opening area that makes it hurt at times, but these are so smooth it feels like skin nearly and most won't hurt even for the beginner. The Aneros type P-spot stimulation devices are good but take a lot of practice and time to master.  Their vibe one is good but too large for the first timers out their. I still like my Billy vibe the best.  It cost a little but is well worth it for even solo adult play. After reading about all the pumps, I'm considering trying one now myself even.

From Anonymous
I recently got a new prostate massager. I'd been reading about them and just had to try one out. So I went to a sex shop and purchased a model that was about an inch across at its thickest point and maybe six inches long. I had a hard time getting the initial one inch through my anus (use lots of lube or spit), but once it got past the sphincter the rest slid in easy -- and oh my God, did it feel good.

As you contract your ass muscles the tip of the thing presses up against your prostate. This causes, initially, an outpouring of not only pre-cum but also whitish prostatic fluid from your penis. I've never been able to bring myself to eat my own cum because once I blow I have no interest in it. But I gobbled this stuff up. It tasted different from precum -- sweet, not salty.

Anyway, I kept up the contractions of my ass and I'd say within about 20 minutes I experienced an explosive, hands-free orgasm and ejaculation. I was alone in the house at the time -- and good thing. I bellowed as the orgasm surged through me and for several minutes afterwards I shuddered and spasmed. I swear, I hadn't shot like that since I was a teenager.

I had to wait a few minutes to withdraw the massager from my rectum because my anus had clenched around it so tight. Once I relaxed a little I pulled it out gently, which also felt good. It was surprisingly clean, but boy did it smell. But for some reason that turned me on. I think because the toy had gone to a forbidden -- even sacred place. I spent the next ten minutes or so just laying there, smelling it. 

From Anonymous
In my life, I've had three things inserted into my rectum: a doctor's finger, a thermometer and an enema tube. I finally got up the guts to add a fourth thing: a prostate massager. So far, its been a disappointment, mainly because I can't get the god damn thing in without significant anal pain.

Once I loosen up I'll probably enjoy this toy. I say that because I did a grin-and-bear-it masturbation session with the massager pretty far up there and I had a powerful and copious orgasm -- shot clear to my chin and moaned so loud I thought the neighbors would here.

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