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From Vinayak
We Indians are curious about sex dolls. I could not get any information from your website. To one of my queries you have advised to search Google with words "sex Doll". I could not not get much information. I shall be happy to get it from your website as you are handling bold subjects with dignity and yet be informative.

[Vinayak, Adam & Eve has excellent selections of Sex Dolls]

From Buzz
The most intense sensations are achieved when I am as rigid as possible and my head is continuously swollen to the max. To achieve this, I wear a Cock Rings. The resulting rock-hard firmness allows the vibrations to be fully transmitted down the entire length of my throbbing cock, surging through the root and into the groin area. I know of no other way to duplicate this type of deep stimulation.

From Art
I bought aVibrating Vagina a couple of months ago. It came with lube, and a vibrating bullet. The vibrating bullet was attached to some kind of controller. When turned on, the bullet could reach different speeds. At the very top of the toy, there is a hole in which you can insert the vibrating bullet. Just turn on the vibrating bullet, and let her roll!

I rarely use the vibrating bullet anymore. It feels more like the real thing without it. I like laying on my back when I masturbate with it. I just slide it down my cock, and fuck the shit out of it. This cost me 200 bucks, but trust me it's worth it!

From KH
Hi. I have to say that I love to see my man go of on Sex Dolls it really turns me on as I watch and at the same time I tease him while I masturbate. He jumps of the doll and begins fucking me so hard my god its great! Sometimes we both play with the doll and believe me we have the best sex ever before.

From T
I bought a Vibrating Vaginas a few weeks ago and its all I use to masturbate now. The orgasms are so intense I think I was still feeling the after effects half an hour later! I thought my heart was going to burst! Highly recommended.

From TD
I recently bought a Penis Pumps . You must use it with lubrication (sold separately). It's an elastic sleeve with a bulb at the end, with an inserted tube connected to a pumping bulb. It's supposed to simulate having a woman sucking on your penis. It's a good toy.

Just stick it in and after a few pumps, it went from being flaccid to hard and big. Then continued pumping for as long as I wanted. (Just like having real sex) After using this having it sucked on for a few minutes, I stuck it into my Luscious Lips. They are a perfect compliment for each other.

It still doesn't take the place of a real woman. With a real woman, it gets harder and much bigger a lot quicker, but its still a nice and safe outlet to satisfy for horny impulses.

From TD
I bought one of those love dolls/sex dolls/rubber women to safely satisfy my horny feelings. It had all three holes. It is definitely no substitute for the real thing. I wanted one to satisfy my desire to massage a woman's breasts, suck on her nipples and then to satisfy my erotic sexual needs. It's definitely no substitute for a real woman's body. So it doesn't satisfy my needs and not viable substitute. The breasts or taste or sensation of the real thing. It is good for humping though, when I'm in the need to hump.

A few other toys I have are a Pocket Pussies and Vibrating Vaginas. They work great. They are great for humping/masturbating both while on top on the bottom (especially good--I wish there were breasts I could suck from) or anywhere else. The holes are narrow (at least for my penis) and tight so lubrication is needed.

From Anonymous
I have an Artificial Vagina which is designed to look and feel real (but probably not as good as the real thing!). I lube up and thrust in and out, the orgasm is strong. I also have a butt plug which I really like. I lube up and bounce up and down on it and then jack off, it really enhances the orgasm.

For anyone wishing to experiment with Anal Vibrators, here are a few suggestions: Don't use lubrication. Masturbating while standing maximizes your ability to manipulate the vibrator and cock positions (I personally like to force it downward). While maintaining vibrator pressure on your cock, wiggle the hand that's holding the vibrator in small, very rapid motions (as if you had palsy) without changing the contact position of the attachment. For variety, place your cock on a hard, solid horizontal surface and squeeze down on the head area with the vibrator while using the above technique.

It should be noted that those having a problem maintaining a full erection can use a vibrator to have an orgasm even if they are only partially hard.

I must also note that, as part of our lovemaking, my girlfriend regularly masturbates with her own matching vibrator and we sometimes engage in mutual sessions. This is a great way of sharing comparably produced sensations that probably feel similar to both of us. My favorite approach is to kneel between her legs so we can readily see each other writhing from the intensity of our electric toys. I really get turned on when she switches on a squirming dildo and thrusts it into her wet pussy while buzzing her clit with her vibrator.

Finally, I should alert any guys using a vibrator for the first time that things may get a little rough and frantic before you explode. But you'll soon learn how to coordinate, and even vary, all the elements to your full satisfaction.

From Anonymous
I've got three. First is a double ended dildo, she puts it up herself and I enjoy watching her penetrate herself. I enjoy feeling it and sucking it.

The second is an anal toy for me on my own. It has a series of swellings on it, first of all I just enjoy the feeling of being penetrated with it's tip, then I let it slip out before I put it in deeper.

The third is an artificial fanny which I sometimes lubricate and fuck if I don't want to masturbate.

I'd like my girlfriend to bugger with me a strap-on as well.

From Lloyd
Being married for over four years with a normal sex life, I began experimenting with dildos. Having bought our first one for "my wife's use" was in reality for my pleasure. First starting out by spicing up our sex life, we would only use it on her, but after several months, I started giving indications that I also would like to enjoy it and I got her to hold it as if it was her dick and I would suck it until I would cum.

Using several ones at the same time is very orgasmic, sucking on one and fucking my self in the ass with another one is my favorite. I fuck myself almost every time she go out, like today, she gone over to a girlfriend's house to visit (maybe for a little sex also) so here I am ramming my 8" dildo in and out of my ass until I shoot the biggest load of my life. I think that she suspects that this is going on, but says nothing.

From TD
In response to Barbara K's inquiry and Teresa's [see entries below] about penis pumps/penis enlargers.

I own one of those penis pump items. Here is my experience from using it only once.

The opening to the tube had hard plastic flanges that tightly presses into the penis. After lubricating my penis, it was a struggle to fit my penis in all the way.

There was no instruction on the safe number of pumps before you run the risk of rupturing blood vessels and other problems as stated on their warning card. So I pumped it about 20 times, then agitated my penis by stroking the tube back and forth, then a got an erection that got bigger and bigger and bigger until my penis went to the end of the 9" tube. I could hold it for as long as I wanted—for a long long time even after my horny feelings left.

Taking it off was a scary challenge. I thought it would hurt due to the angled flanges digging into my shaft that would catch the tip (glans penis) and cause bruising or tearing possibly. I had to wait until my penis went soft. I drank a few glasses of wine. It was a struggle putting it on and it was a struggle taking it off. After about 10 minutes, I got it to come off without any damage or abrasions and without the tip of my penis being caught against the flanges.

From Barbara K.
I saw these little 'toys' for men when I looked around the XXX store a couple of days ago. One of them was a suction pump thingy. I'd be interested in hearing feedback from men about them.

From Vinayak
We in India have been hearing about a plastic doll of human size , with facility to accept semen at appropriate place and body curves like real sexy woman. I really do not know whether such doll is available anywhere. It has been an impression in India that it is merely a fantasy. I am curious to know the reality.

[Yes, you can find an excellent selection of Sex Dolls online]

From Mark
I have played with sex toys for years now. When reading this one might think I was hard up but that's not the case at all. The prospect of going outside my marriage to find a little extra is not inviting especially when considering the disease aspect. So I have a latex female sex doll and a realistic vagina that I use to play with. I find using the love doll is more realistic but it's a pain to find a place to store it where the wife won't stumble upon it. It is fun to play with and I have actually showed myself using it on cam a few times. I once cammed for a couple and they were so turned on by it that we now stay in touch and swap pics.

The realistic vagina Realistic Vagina is cool because when the mood strikes, it's out of the box and I can be a bit rougher fucking it. The doll, is a pain in the rear to clean up but more realistic. So for those of you considering purchasing either... if you want the more realistic lovemaking then go with the doll but be prepared to have more trouble cleaning it and storing it. Also, don't skimp on the price. It's better to pay more for a realistic doll. If you want speed and a fast relief, the go for the realistic vagina. Either way have fun.

From Tom
Wait a minute. No comments on cock rings?? Aside from the obvious anal toys that guys like, I LOVE my collection of cock rings and straps. A cock ring worn around the base of cock and balls produces a very pleasurable sensation of tightness and increases the pressure of the ejaculate (like squeezing a garden hose) which is also very pleasurable.

On occasion, I wear a black leather strap the same way, but it has two additional straps, each wraps around a single testicle, the result is a rather stimulating look and an incredible tightness on the entire package!

From Silent Partner
The ultimate male toy has four fingers and a thumb. I've never been interested in any of the sleeve-type things -- my hand still works fine (though I prefer my wife's hand, not to mention other parts of her anatomy). But we have a little butt plug that we share, which can be nice. Especially with a vibrator pressed against the base. One night my wife actually put the whole vibrator in me (it's penis-sized, intended for vaginal use). It was exciting at the time, but kind of painful too.

Does the Internet count as a sex toy? I'd say yes.

From Hrolf
The stimulation of the prostate does increase the volume of the ejaculate (and, theoretically, the intensity of the orgasm). I have found, however, that while it is very pleasant in the build up to orgasm, and the ejaculate was quite copious, the orgasm itself was not particularly noteworthy.

The best use I have found for a vibrator is to have my partner use one to stimulate her clitoris while I am moving my penis inside of her vagina. I can then feel the vibrations on my penis, while she is enjoying them as well. She becomes incredibly wet with this. With a little practice, I have been able to time my orgasms to coincide with hers, which is especially pleasing.

From Dick
My most frequently used toys (when I'm in the mood) are my pink jelly masturbation sleeves. One looser and one is a bit more snug.

The other is a delightful vibrating anal probe. It's about the thickness of my little finger and about 5-6 inches long. It's latex and has these very subtle ridges. I can tease myself in a shallow fashion or go for deeper penetration.

As I said, I have to be in the mood to use either, but they do provide some unique sensations.

From Anonymous 
Many men are reluctant to admit there is a world of good feelings and arousal from stimulating the anal area. I think they are afraid the might have homosexual feelings.

One of my favorite methods of play (with girl friend or solo) is to insert a vibrating dildo up against my prostate and relax and feel the sensations. Then began to slowly stroke or be stroked until the fantastic eruption takes place. Also while in 69 position one or two well lubed fingers working in and out really builds a full load for my partner.

From Don
I have a few toys of my own. The best is a little silicone cup that fits over the end of the penis. It has a small egg vibrator attached with a wired remote. It is great. It sucks onto the end of my penis and stimulates the underside of by penis head. It is as close to dry multiple orgasms that a man could have. It is great.

I also have a cyber skin fake pussy. It is OK. It feels good and my wife likes to watch me with it. I also have used an egg vibrator in my anal opening. It is very intense but a bit messy. Other items I've tried aren't that good. I do have silicone penis extension that is OK but average at best.

From Jim
Ok, here's my experience on the toy front.

I haven't ever had anything near my rear end, and to be honest the thought of a toy doesn't appeal too much. Whether that could change amid the intensity of high arousal that I can usually achieve, who knows? Always open to new frontiers I say!

Now, as for vibrators... Mmmm the feeling of one around the scrotum and the balls and the tingling on those subtly sensitive nerve endings there... wow.. also gentle teasing of the cock shaft and the head, sometimes while oral is performed.

It's all down to stimuli, whether that stimuli be mental, oral, penetratory, or vibratory. It all adds to the intensity of an orgasm for me. Jim (now more than a little restless....)

From Mary
Jim, This reminded me of something my girlfriend and I did to her husband that last time we played. We each have a most wondrous egg vibrator. It not only has variable speeds, it has about 6-7 variable patterns as well. The gentleman in question thoroughly enjoys being stroked, so my girlfriend got the idea to set the egg to a low speed and cup it  in her hand as she stroked him.

She still had her fingers wrapped around him, but the egg was pressing gently against him as well. The motion he enjoys the most is kind of a U shape that goes up the shaft, over the tip, and then back down the other side of the shaft. This is exactly what she did holding the egg. Bliss does not begin to describe his reaction.

From Chris Hall
I think it's because there's fewer toys made for male masturbation, beyond buying a bottle of lube and a box of Kleenex. I mean, do you think guys are going to admit that their best friend is the Jenna Jameson latex love doll?

From wimz
Hi Chris, I suppose you are right, but...but...but...I thought at least one male in the group might let us in to their secret masturbatory sessions. (insert kinda teasing grin here) Actually, what got me thinking about it was, I remembered awhile back reading a review (in Sex Toy Playground on ERWA) from a guy who had bought and used the Fleshlight toy. It was very hot. His review I mean. Hubba hubba. Yehaw, you go, Dane. I wonder if it's still in the archives. I'm gonna go look...

From Teresa
I bought my boyfriend a similar appliance. It was a masturbator with a pump on it, and I was so excited...but his reaction was "You wanna put that WHERE?" He didn't like it. ( But...that Fleshlight review was so hot that I might just order one and slip it on while he's not looking. *wink*

From Meri
What's the difference? We get ourselves off, they get themselves off; who cares whether they're using their hands, a toy, or their dominant foot? Seriously, it shouldn't really matter what they use to get the job done; whatever it takes. At least that's the standard I live by and after all, supposedly men in our culture are known for masturbating far more than women do anyway (what a crock!). Do whatever you need to do guys!

From Sailaway
I have a very beautiful girlfriend and a blowup doll. I like fucking both.

From Feeling_Strange
OK here's why I think I'm a weirdo. About a week and a half ago I through a bachelor party for my brother in law. We got him a blow up doll as sort of a gag gift. Well the other night I got drunk and my wife who works overnight had to leave before we got a chance to mess around. I actually blew up the doll, put on some porn and had sex with the blow up doll. 

Here's the thing. I have a drop dead gorgeous wife, and I just feel very strange that I had sex with a blow up doll. It actually also felt incredibly good. I mean I just loaded up the insertions with lotion and it felt like the real thing to some extent. OK so there's my story. I had sex with a balloon and enjoyed it. That's pretty messed up huh?

From Anonymous
I once put a three inch vibrator up my ass and turned it on. It felt relaxing as I pleasured myself many times laying on my bed totally naked. What a way to relax after a tough day at work. I laid there for hours while the vibe was vibing in my ass.

From Anonymous
I think there is a stigma towards sex toys for men. This is very odd considering the lengths men will go to while talking about masturbating. And, the real irony of it all is that most women find a man using a sex toy an extreme turn on!

From Anonymous
I've amassed quite a collection of "toys". A medium and large butt plug; a vibrating inflatable butt plug, nipple clamps and something that's called an anal chain - grey 12 inch rubber toy with about 6 huge bumps on it that you insert one at a time and then remove when the time is right.

However, I recently bit the bullet and bought this "toy" called the Anal Push and whoa - it's black, about 15 inches long with a handle and a huge ridge between the handle and the business end and this is not really a toy - its really a serious undertaking. I respect it in and of itself and I get erect lust thinking about using it!

From W
I absolutely have toys of my own. Unfortunately my wife has a hang up about toys, and refuses to use them with me. I'm hoping she'll change but I'm not optimistic.

I keep them in a cloth zipper bag hanging in the closet, and occasionally leave one or two in a dresser drawer for quicker access. When I'm alone and in need, I lay out the scene I pull back the covers, maybe put out some porno magazines or some erotic stories (Anne Rice perhaps or something printed off the internet). I might even set the mood with one or more of the following music, candles, red wine, and pot. I have a washcloth handy for the inevitable aftermath and put out the KY jelly. I take out the toys, and put batteries in those that require them.

These are my toys 1) A medium sized flesh colored butt plug. 2) A vibrator with a slim extension to penetrate with (doesn't work well because only the base vibrates) 3) A stiff plastic vibrator that isn't so great--too pointy, too loud, only one speed. It came free with a vibrator I bought a former girlfriend. 4) A double ended silicone dildo, with a semi-realistic cock at each end. One is long and slim (maybe 7 inches long and 3/4 inch in diameter) the other short and fat (about 5" long, an inch diameter. It's red in color. 5) And the awesome one--a G-spot vibrator, Hustler brand. About 3/4 inch in diameter, 7 in length, shimmering purple color, speed control on the base, and a lovely curve at the tip. 

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From Bill
I have several "toys" that I use both with my spouse and when I masturbate. These include cock rings, including a new remote control vibrating one that is a bust to wear when working around the yard since my wife can control it from inside the house (there is nothing like mowing the lawn and suddenly feeling your cock vibrate), an assortment of nipple clamps including vibrators, and several dildos for my butt. These little toys add zip to our sex life. My spouse also has her little assortment, it spices up the ordinary.

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