What Is It About High Heels?

When I want to look and feel sexy, nothing beats a pair of beautiful high heels, wear them with stocking and I'm a sex goddess. There is something about the way heels make me stand, walk, move. .. makes me feel incredibly sensual. Yes, I know heels are bad for my back, harsh on my legs and feet.  And yes, I know  I'm catering to the male idea of what's erotic. Sure, heels make a woman look sexy, but at a high cost. So what say you men and women — what is it about high heels, and are they worth the discomfort of sore calves and lower back pain?

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From Sandi
High heels have always been twofold for me. First I know they turn on the men in my life. I see the lustful look in there eyes when they pick me up and I'm wearing a skirt and blouse fitting very nice and a pair heels, not too high so I wobble around in them, just about 3 to 4 inches. Then when were at dinner or where ever we've gone I cross my legs so as to highlight my stilettos or a pair of mules I can dangle on my beautiful pedicured red toes.

But secondly I wear heels for me. Nothing is more sensual for me then to slip on pair of heels on my way out to work or just being at home on the weekends wearing high heel slides or mules. I'm a heel girl and won't be with a guy that doesn't like 'em.

From Doug
I just don't understand high heels.  I certainly don't find them sexy.  They look too painful to even begin to be sexy to me.  I think a woman wearing only her Teva's and smile is at her sexiest.

From Louis
Heels ALWAYS makes a woman more attractive to the guys. First, the heels make her calves more shapely and with the hose, it improves her legs immensely. Second, heels adds shape to her ass and alters the way she walks. I have noticed that when women wear heels, they have more swing in their ass, which really gets a guy's attention. All this combined with a short, slightly tight skirt and a blouse that shows off her cleavage gets her plenty of admirers. I realize that heels are not very comfortable but they are one of the most powerful tools to make any woman look so much better.

From Prerafaelite
Did you know that when a woman wears high heels it alters her centre of gravity.. therefore her hips are rotated forward which thrusts out her buttocks behind her and in turn causes her chest to be pushed forward by the increased curvature of her spine, which highlights her womanliness making her more attractive to the average male. There is a basic technical description, other than that they just look lovely.

From Drew
And as a (male) massage therapist I can say that high heels, if worn a lot, do dreadful things to a woman's body. So ... they may make a woman look "lovely" but at a high cost, and I don't think it is at all loving of men to expect women to do harm to themselves in this way simply to increase their attractiveness. My ex-spouse had a pair which basically were reserved for "bedroom" wear ... she'd dress up in them to do a striptease but that was about all ... and they always came off very quickly.

From Rudy
All of the comments so far have been great! I second all of them especially regarding heels pointing up when I'm on top or when she's got her legs over my shoulders...oh yes! One thing I'd like to add the form of the foot in the pump (classic styled pumps by the way) is so incredible, it has become sex in itself. That form, arched and tense creates the cleavage that is, in my opinion, one of the most incredible stimulators. Yes, those toes just a peek of cleavage and you have instant hard on! Oh the slings and strappy sandals, with normal thin soles...oh my my my! And when she's sitting with her gorgeous legs crossed and dangles a pump, careful now!

From Lady Elf
I believe that all of your options are correct. Heels do make a woman look and feel incredibly sexy or at least I do. I love nothing better to that put on one of my cocktail dresses and my 2 inch - 3 inch high heels and strut out into public. I am a 5'9 curvy woman which after I put my 3 inch heel makes me 6'0 and boy do men love staring. Now do not get me wrong I am not doing this to take men a stray or give them the idea that something will ever happen because along side my sexy heels and form fitting dress & long neck I display my wedding rings very proudly. (Which I clean every time I go out so they are very sparkly)

But in spite of how I feel when I wear these heels I do and feel the pain of high heels. As a former model I have been told that I have compacted 3 of my lower vertebra just above my hip bone. Now so every time I bend my knee & tilt my hips on the left side I lock my hips in place almost like dislocating them. So I have to force them back so I can move. For 20 mins after I hobble around in pain, I'm only 25

From Firemermaid
Yeah, they look great...but ohmygoddess do they hurt! My boyfriend found my struggles to walk in the things hilarious...now I'll wear high heels for bedroom antics, but that's it. I love cute shoes & boots, but they've gotta be comfortable. Here in the rainy northwest, almost everyone asks that shoes be removed at the door anyway--we wear a lot of clogs. Besides, no one's been in danger of mistaking me for a boy since puberty---I'm already seriously curvy.

From Inish
Despite all of the long term horrible things high heels can do to a woman - nothing can beat the feeling of swaggering across a room confidently in high heels. Heels are a tool of seduction, giving graceful curve to ones calves and foot. The look of a sculpted legs, delicately crossed to the side with a well designed heel dangling by ones toe- works better than a hair flip and a giggle anytime. We woman know it is not the shoe, but the relationship we have with them that is sexy; a playful peek into one's psyche. The bold and daring red pump to the sensuous strappy sandal - women have never dressed for men - but for the effect we have on men's girlfriends. A woman who can walk tall in heels has no problem being barefoot in the bedroom. No amount of hours in a gym can give my legs the shape a well designed heel can.

From Gussy
Great subject hiheels. When I met my wife, she dressed very well and I was so proud of her appearance, but the shoes got to me! Black patent nickles pumps or sweetwalkers both with bows. One day I told her how much they gave me the "hornies"  "You mean they get you aroused?" she asked to which I answered heartily,"YES" so from then on in our intimate times she would start foreplay with her black patent heels.

Somtimes she would use one shoe to have me come into as I did her with the other heel. Ahe would sometimes ask if I was bummed out about something, "wanna fuck my fuck-me shoe?". Beads somehow got in on the act as well, big white shiny beads or small pearl like beads she would wrap round my cock and then put a heel over it an wha-a-a-a-what a feeling.

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