Sympathy Fuck

Nasty or Noble?

Has anyone here ever been pressured into giving someone a sympathy fuck? How did it happen? What was it like? Who was it with, an ex-boyfriend, a stranger, a friend’s dorky cousin who just couldn’t get laid to save his life? And how did it feel compared to sex with someone you actually wanted?

I believe in being warm-hearted. I believe especially in fucking with a warm heart.    —Lady Chatterley's Lover

No sympathy here, just a lot of good sex...

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From Dan
While the idea of a sympathy fuck sounds noble to me, every time I've given one out, it completely blew up in my face.  Out of the three sympathy fucks that I have given in my life time, one turned out to be a filthy (literally), demanding asshole and the other two became clingy and overly emotional.

Like I said, I want to believe in the sympathy fuck and I salute all those that still take one for the team, but I have long since pledged to never give another sympathy fuck again.

From Angie
I think sympathy fucks are a very nice thing to do for someone who is suffering or in need.  When I was in the navy, we had a boy who was still a virgin at 19.  When I met him, his other three roommates were making such fun of him, I couldn't stand it, so I slept with him later that day, and was not afraid in the least to let them know it.  Of course, this was in the 80's when there were a lot less diseases, so none of us were all that worried. 

I can't imagine the recipient of a sympathy fuck being unhappy with the situation, unless the other person was a dick about saying they only felt sorry for the person.  Like everything else, it's all in how you handle it, and what your true motives are.

From Jon
This is probably way off topic, but from a consumer's point of view, having lived for the past twenty plus years in a celibate relationship, sympathy or not - any kinda fuck would be welcome. At this point, just getting some one-on-one editorial guidance on this story I'm laboring over from a sexy sympathetic female writer out there would be excitement enough. I'm easy to please.

From Ian
I live in an expensive block of flats near Birmingham, England.  A few months ago I met my neighbour, the lady upstairs.  I had heard them regularly dropping heavy items on the floor.  This time she was struggling with shopping bags, her husband being away playing golf in Portugal.  I helped her into the lift then to her flat, offering to help her if anything else came up.  Well, she said, would you like to join me for dinner?  It was a Friday, I had no firm plans so said 'yes'. 

To cut a long story short we ended up in bed, some great sex, she had no inhibitions, a fuck was followed by oral sex (a lovely 69), then another fuck, she displaying no interest in condoms 'too fussy' she said, preferring the full unfettered volume of my sperm in her vagina and tasting it in her mouth, swallowing it all with a great bravado. 

From Sympathy Vyxen
I think a sympathy fuck can be nasty or noble, but it depends on the degrees to which you find the other person attractive or repellant. If you fuck someone who's actually repellant to you, unless you're into masochism, then that's nasty and degrading. However, if you don't find the fuckee repulsive at all, then it's on the noble side if you actually want to comfort someone sexually.

From Doug
Yes, I've done it on a number of occasions, and each time it's something that I've either inadvertently talked my way into, or have otherwise not been able to refuse for fear of hurting the other party. Unlike some of your correspondents, for me the sex has been purely mechanical, and not at all fulfilling. However on each occasion, the other party involved seemed not only to enjoy it, but to do so immensely. I guess that making someone else happy in these circumstances should be reward enough!

From Ruth
This is going to sound awful but I experienced a sympathy fuck with my brother-in-law following the death of his wife. Between jobs I was able to spend some sympathy time with him before he returned to work. It started as a few days a week, mainly shopping, me cooking some lunch, listening to him tell me about his wife, him always breaking up in tears, me comforting him. To get him out of his depressed state I suggested visiting museums and going to see a movie or two.

It was after one of these visits, preparing an early evening meal for him before I left for my own home and husband, he began to cry, I lent over him to comfort him. I was wearing a lose fitting shirtwaister and my bra was fully on show as I lent forward. He undid one then a second button. I froze with fear. No, I didn't want this I said to myself but did nothing to stop him. After a few minutes he placed me across the dining table, pulled my pantyhose and panties away and I almost begged him to enter me. He took ages to climax and I must have sounded like a slut but this was one very good, enjoyable, satisfying fuck with a wonderful feeling of ecstas.

I left feeling very guilty, saying that it wouldn't happen again. It didn't. It was only a sympathy fuck but one that left me feeling unhappy about myself.

From Tony
I was in a bar when I saw a middle aged female sitting at the bar all by herself drinking a martini. So I kinda felt sorry for her and started talking to her. We ended up taking about sex in school and how young the kids do it these days. She was drunk by this time.

She unveiled her whole life story and how nobody wanted to fuck her because she is little overweight and ugly. I felt sorry for her. I ended up going to her house and we had good sex. And found out that she was a virgin. It was a good experience. You feel like you did something good.

From Irish Tim
I am an expert on this subject as every fuck I have had with my wife in the past 20yrs is a sympathy one as far as she is concerned. She has changed from being a normal sexual partner to a total disinterest in sex. When I get totally frustrated she will remove pajamas and knickers and say the 'magic' words "stick it in and be quick". 

Can you imagine trying to come in two minuets at 60yrs of age? It's some rush. If I haven't climaxed she will pull away leaving me to masturbate myself on her arse. That's not even a sympathy fuck but its the best I can do.

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