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What do you think about?



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Three Pillows

From Kurt
When I was a young buck, and fairly new to sex I used to want to prolong the coupling experience, so I would think of FOOTBALL while I was pounding my girlfriend's pussy.  Now I am more concerned with other things like "is she satisfied?" and "how long can I keep it up?"

From Sean
Well... the few times I have done it ( I'm 19, virgin till 18), my first time was with a married woman and she was screaming my name. I tried not to think about what I was doing but damn she was screaming my name , um anything uninteresting or if I can think about my week maybe plan it out? haha

From Rory
It's weird. As a first-timer, I went from thinking "I hope I don't get caught," to, as a 42-year-old nowadays to thinking, "I hope this doesn't end." I've been married 17 years, strayed a few times. I have an unbelievably sexy wife and all we do is try and out-please the other person. Honestly, when I was with another honey, I kept thinking about how sexy my wife was. I haven't strayed for seven years.

From Kevin
I'm 43, male, Married 10 years, two kids. There are a number of things I think about during the process of making love and the progression of intercourse. At the start of intercourse I am thinking, "Oh, yeah. Oh this feels soooo good." After a while, if I haven't come, I will think of and remember fucking one of the women that I made love to in my younger days before I got married. I think of the feeling I had as a single man with no worries, getting fucked and feeling totally free and happy and getting laid. That gets me focused on coming and the pounding ensues and then as the rhythm gets furious. I watch (it is more like stare at) my wife's tits bouncing and jiggling and that sends me over the edge.

With a family, it is hard to find the time (er, freedom) for sex. I have noticed my thoughts becoming something like, "Oh, this is sooo much fun to be fucking my beautiful wife in the middle of the afternoon with the door to our nice bedroom locked. I am one lucky bastard. Oh, this feels good. Man, I hope the kids don't come knocking." I also think, "Take in everything. Remember this feeling as much as you can because (sadly) it'll be 2 weeks until you get it back."

From Anonymous
My wife and I have been married for 41 years and I am still in love with her. I work abroad and when I am at home and we have sex I think of coming home unexpected and catching her in bed with two black men and both have enormous penises. They are really hammering away at her taking turns and they don't know I am watching of course. My wife is using dirty language and she is in all positions possible and loving every thrust.

From Anonymous
I don't think when I have sex, things just automatically happen and I just enjoy all the feelings all at once. 

From Christian
I think most guys are lucky if they can just think about one or two things during sex. As an artist I'm damn lucky if I can only think about one or two things during sex. Because my personal passions in my artwork all revolve around erotic subject matter, so during sex, an erotic act, my brain is fluttering around my projects, my love making, her pleasure, my pleasure, figuring out how to incorporate the pleasures of what we do together into my artwork and have it shown in the final product, what else can I do to my partner, with my partner, what else will she do to me, can I incorporate what we do with one another into the writings that I do, etceteras, etceteras, etceteras. There are times when I wish I had a normal brain!

From TaL
That's a funny thing. At first it goes OK and I'm concentrated on the pleasure but after 20-30 minutes it becomes hard to focus. If I don't make myself thinking about something I start thinking about the university, the car or whatever... But making myself thinking about something makes me thinking about it and not thinking of what I'm supposed to think of. And then I'm starting to think about thinking... the harder I try the more my thoughts scatter around the place. The only good thing I get from it all is that I can go on for as much time as I wouldn't ever believe I could if I was told so. It sounds funny even to me but, well...

From Robert
Lol, ok I love this site. Thank you. For me it really depends on the woman and the situation. Now that I'm married, my thoughts are usually trying to figure out how to make her come harder. How to really get her off, and with kids, it's usually how to get her off fast so I can before we're interrupted!

From Day
Interplay. Like members of a quartet or anything requiring nonverbal communication I like to read the cues, to feel, to see, to hear, the pressure of a hand, a murmur, a sigh, "There, Not there, Oh, yes, HERE..."

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