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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
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Women: During The Act

What do you think about?



Inside the Erotic MindConventional thought is that women go into a silent litany about their appearance, a slide into self-consciousness, embarrassed that their partner may be critically of how she looks, makes love, sounds she makes, or doesn't make. While this may be true to some extent, I can't buy that that's all that's going on in her head. So tell us, what are you ladies thinking about when the clothes come off, and love making heats up the sheets?

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From Ischade
I have my 'short-cut scenerio' fantasies. These are almost guaranteed to get me warmed up fast. God help him and his lips if I'm thinking 'beige, we'll paint the walls beige. . .' because I will never get there. Once I'm into the fantasy enough that my body is responding well then I turn the brain off and surrender to the physical.

The only problem is some fantasies get used a little too much and then they don't work any more. (And then I throw them into a book and let other people use them.) And sometimes they start getting a little too detailed and I start thinking which only ruins things. Do I worry about the cat, the dog, and the kids? Yeah, but at some point this is my home, dammit, and if I can't have an orgasm here where can I?

From Sarah
Oh my lord I am laughing so hard at some of these posts! This is great. Sometimes I have fantasies, like I picture my fiancé and I in another situation, for example cowboy/Wild West saloon kind of thing. Other times I am really into the scene at hand, and these are generally the thoughts: Holy shit, he's hot. Oohhh that feels good. Ooh god! right there, don't move! Dammit, I said don't move!

And I do have to say that I had a boyfriend previously who I always ignored while we had sex... I'm pretty sure he was picturing playboy models while we did it, and I always fantasized about his friends or other guys I knew cause we weren't that into each other. But he had a big cock so it worked for me for awhile!

From Anonymous
1. Okay, I've come twice already, could you hurry up?
2. If I'm covering my breasts, that means you've sucked them till they're blistered already. That shit hurts
3. No, don't try to kiss me tonight. Be like Nike "Just do it."
4. It's midnight and I'm tired. Stroke yourself and go to sleep.
5. Why is it that my legs open when you want it, but I have to set an appointment when I want it? Who is she?
6. Work the clit. That's right, baby! Right there! Don't stop!
7. Shit, you stopped!
8. Watch and learn. This is how you should please me.
9. If my ass is to you, that does not give you license to kiss it.
10. Why couldn't he wait until early morning to do this? I'm tired.

From Gaby
I think I have fat thighs but I remember he said he loves feeling them around his legs. I enjoy knowing his pleasure is increasing, hearing his gasps in my ear. I wonder what my mum would think if she could see me now, especially when he starts to thrust faster.

From HornyWoman
Wow, some of you ladies are so tame. I have wild crazy fantasies of being taken and watched by groups of powerful men while I am 'getting there'. I mean, like an entire NBA team fucking me silly, or jacking off over me, with the fully dressed coach looking on. Or... business men in fussy business attire giving into their most base desires and ganging up on me, one in my mouth, one in my pussy, one in each hand, overwhelmed, and always, always, a serious man or two just watching me, studying. It helps me get me over the top.

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