Women: During The Act

What do you think about?

Conventional thought is that women go into a silent litany about their appearance, a slide into self-consciousness, embarrassed that their partner may be critically of how she looks, makes love, sounds she makes, or doesn't make. While this may be true to some extent, I can't buy that that's all that's going on in her head. So tell us, what are you ladies thinking about when the clothes come off, and love making heats up the sheets?  —megan

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From Cat
I decide who will start. It can't start without kissing and I like it hard to gentle. I believe at first that most of the time I want it my way and that makes me think different things. I don't need to think of anything else but what's happening. I want to come and I want him to. So, I work towards that though work is really the wrong word. That are times I float out, lost in the moment. Screaming is my thing and I do that loud. So, sometimes I think about my neighbors, most time who cares. When I think about coming I try not to. It prolongs it and makes a bigger explosion. Why make love if you're not in the zone?

From Dewliet
Great topic!  When I'm fooling around with my husband, I like to think about textures of my skin, his skin, the hair on his arms, our sheets, etc. I close my eyes and picture my body's reactions to what we're doing and that allows me to feel the sensations more sharply.

From Anonymous
Think? You're supposed to think? Damn, must be what I'm doing wrong then.

From Jane
At first I usually think about the chores that need doing the next day, how I can best use my lunch hour to go to the cleaners, pick up groceries, and all that mundane jazz. And then arousal kicks in and I close my eyes and let my imagination go crazy wild with shocking scenes of dancing naked while two guys are feeling me up, licking, filling me up. Or serving treats and drinks to the guys playing poker, and playing me every which way because I'm naked wearing a perky feathered butt plug. Or one guy pulling up my skirt, while the other pulls down my panties and sucks my clit while fingering me, pulling my pussy lips. And on it goes till I explode in orgasm. It's like running a porn show in my head, with me as the star in a script of my choice. Works every time. 

From Anon
About 75% "wow that feels good" and 25% "is he enjoying it? Is there something I can do to make it even more enjoyable for either one of us?

From Selkie:
"Oh god. I wish he'd hurry up so I can get some sleep! I got to get up tomorrow!" I think about lots of relaxing scenes. Waves washing on a beach etc and try not to think about whether I will have an orgasm.

From His Woman
When I'm with him, all I'm thinking about is everything he and I are doing to one another.  "I want it now! Now! NOW! Give it to me, Baby! More! MORE!! OMG! That feels so good!  Don't stop! Mmmmm! Now, Baby. You know what I want!! Yes! Yes! YES!!"

From Oz
As a bisexual woman, it oddly differs for me depending upon who I'm with. With men I seem to be much more focused on the sex. "oh god, oh god, yes, bite me, yes, right there, oh god, gonna be covered in hickeys and have to wear that stupid turtleneck sweater, but who cares, oh fuck, yes, stop teasing me, more, more, ah, I love that sound he makes right before, ah!"

With women I'm a bit more scatterbrained. "why does she always do that thing? does she enjoy that? maybe I should try doing that to her. I hate when she just lays there when I eat her pussy, at least moan or grab my hair or something so I know you're into this. She started it, so she must be horny, but now she's all frozen. My jaw hurts, come already."

From Anonymous
Just a lot of one-liners, but it's all I can think of: He's really deep! I want it here, not there. Ouch! Why's he pushing my head up against the wall? I wish I were more into it, I'm not feeling as much as I usually do. He's really forceful, wish I had a dick to surprise him with in the middle of the night.

Oop! We're not doing it right... I wish I could be a bit thinner, then we could do more acrobatic positions. Whoa! This is absolutely incredible! I wish giving head didn't have to involve as much hurt. He's like an animal! Oh no, I have to pee! This isn't working. He likes this the best, hehehe. Wow, he REALLY likes this! I'm sleepy, just get it over with! We have to finish before 11 or we'll never get any sleep for tomorrow! Did we chain the door? Can we finish this, please?

From Heather
All I know is that for the past year my main thought has been to try to hurry up and finish before he did. The men in this group seem a whole lot less selfish than my soon to be X.. 

From HornyWoman
Wow, some of you ladies are so tame. I have wild crazy fantasies of being taken and watched by groups of powerful men while I am 'getting there'. I mean, like an entire NBA team fucking me silly, or jacking off over me, with the fully dressed coach looking on. Or... business men in fussy business attire giving into their most base desires and ganging up on me, one in my mouth, one in my pussy, one in each hand, overwhelmed, and always, always, a serious man or two just watching me, studying. It never fails to get me over the top.

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