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From Anonymous
Why isn't he harder?  Not this position again, I can't feel anything.  This is so boring, I hope he comes quickly.  I wish he had taken the time to stimulate me first, so I can at least masturbate myself to finish.  I wish he would talk dirty.  I wish he would fuck me like an animal. Is he ever going to kiss me again?  Doesn't he realize kissing drives me wild? 

So there you have it, I bet a lot of married women have these same thoughts and you can bet we have all told our husbands what we want in one way or another, but they don't listen. 

From Gaby
I think I have fat thighs but I remember he said he loves feeling them around his legs. I enjoy knowing his pleasure is increasing, hearing his gasps in my ear. I wonder what my mum would think if she could see me now, especially when he starts to thrust faster.

From Galiana Chance
What am I thinking during the act? The range is staggering...

* If the cat knocks over my Diet Coke again, I'm going to make a slipper out of it
* If we weren't having sex and I made that noise, he would have me committed
* Variations on: up a little / down a little / to the left a little / to the right a little / more / less / slower / faster / harder / softer
* Yes exactly that, right there, and if you ever stop doing that I'll kill you.
* We should have brushed our teeth first
* I wonder what the thermostat is set to / if we should open the windows tonight / if it's going to rain
* I hope it's a big one so I can sleep without dreaming about work again tonight - doh! Don't think about work! Close your eyes, breathe, focus...

From Ischade
I have my 'short-cut scenerio' fantasies. These are almost guaranteed to get me warmed up fast. God help him and his lips if I'm thinking 'beige, we'll paint the walls beige. . .' because I will never get there. Once I'm into the fantasy enough that my body is responding well then I turn the brain off and surrender to the physical.

The only problem is some fantasies get used a little too much and then they don't work any more. (And then I throw them into a book and let other people use them.) And sometimes they start getting a little too detailed and I start thinking which only ruins things. Do I worry about the cat, the dog, and the kids? Yeah, but at some point this is my home, dammit, and if I can't have an orgasm here where can I?

From Alex
It usually goes something like this, a little mental monologue: "Oh, yeah, that's it, here goes, hold on...shit, what's that sound? Who cares... okay, getting loud now, getting way too loud, gonna wake the kid, gonna wake the neighbors... that's better, there ya go, what the hell's he doing? Oh, okay, that's nice, very nice, getting too loud again...too loud, way too loud, gonna wake the fucking dead, I don't care..."

You get the idea. Only in very rare circumstances do I drift into "gotta remember to take out the garbage," "is that a fly on the ceiling," that type of thing - those circumstances usually stem from my not being in the mood to begin with.

From Butterfly
Well, aside from the usual, "Oh God, that feels good," and the "What the hell is he trying to do?"... This is my typical mental monologue:

*Ow! You're on my hair!
*If he doesn't quit pinching my nipple, it's gonna come off!
*Did I remember to put the dog out of the bedroom?
*Can the neighbors hear me?
*He needs to hurry up, I have things to get done.
*Maybe if I fake one, he'll finish so I can get some sleep.
*various song lyrics (I hate when I get a song stuck in my head.)
*Did we pay the water bill?
*Shit! I forgot to call mom!

Now, I'm not saying my boyfriend is a bad lover. Quite the opposite, he's wonderful. But after 2 years, there's not much territory left unexplored. He knows how to push my buttons and in what order. But as far as what's going on in my head, it's hard to think about what he's doing when he's done the same thing a million times before.

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