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CyberSex

Is Cybersex Cheating?
A complex issue

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The Global Village
Love in cyber-Ssace

Is Phone-Sex Cheating?
Your opinion please


Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?


Masturbation

Sexy Phone Talk
Is your phone a sex toy?

Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Mutual Masturbation
Doing it alone, together

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Spicy Sex!
Altoids, schnopps, chili?

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Cum Shots
Messy liquid darts

Describe Your Orgasm
How does it feel?

Faking It
Why the deception?

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...

Your Best Orgasm?
Color us curious


Keeping Abreast..

Breast & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Sex Toy Topics

Ben Wa Balls
Bliss or fizzle...

Curious About Vibrators
Tell us about yours

Men's Sex Toys
Got any?

What About Strap-ons?
Everyone's doing it!


Porn/Erotica Debates

Erotica For Men
Beer & tits?

Erotica vs Porn
Are they the same?

Porn on His Computer
why am I so jealous?

Porn Movie Concerns
Enjoyment or discomfort?

Porn and Relationships
Hot or not?

Porn for Women
Is there such a thing?

When Porn Isn't Sexy
What are they doing wrong?



Swingers & Cougars..oh my!

Get into the Swing of Things
But … how?

MILFs & Cougars
Hot moms & man hunters

Swing Clubs
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Relationship Woes

Polyamorous Relationships
Could it work?

Married And Gazing
Does looking = cheating?

Men & Women Revealed
What you ought to know

Older Women, Younger Men
Why rob the cradle?

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Why Do People Cheat
Is one not enough?

You Want Me To Do What?
Assent vs Aversion

Younger/Older Relations
What are the issues?


Inquiring Minds...

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
Are you thinking?

What do Men Want?
Your ideal woman

What do Women Want?
Your ideal man

What Do Men Want?



What do Men Want?Gentlemen: How do you like women? (okay, that sounds bad. While I'm at it, how do you like turkey sandwiches?)

No, seriously. What do you like women to wear? Do you like the bustin'-out-all-over look, or do you prefer a more sedate attire? Do you like aggressive women or do you want to make the first move? What kind of 'moves' are seductive to you (e.g., I have a male friend who thinks that a woman putting on lipstick is the height of sensuality).

If you're willing to get personal, what about women in bed? Do you want them to take charge, or do you want to be the dominant one? Is there such a thing as 'too responsive'? Or, you can just describe your true dream woman.

Gentlemen, the floor is yours...


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From Anonymous
I just need my wife to want me.  We have been married more than 10 years and she seems to be completely asexual.  She doesn't even like to talk about sex but she has admitted that she has never had any idea what a orgasm felt like and has never been curious about it. 

Her previous husband could not take it and left.  I will not quit and will not cheat on her.  She will submit to sex but just lies there and makes no response.  It is certainly not good for me.

From Sexman
The woman of my dreams wears slightly revealing clothes that have a "so I'm in love with a geek! big whoop! wanna fight bout it?" kind of attitude. (for the record, I'm a geek. big whoop, wanna fight about it? anyway,  she would make the first move because I like surprises in love.

As far as dominant or submissive goes, I like it kinda in-between.

Looks aren't the only thing I look for, but they're a definite plus. I also want someone compatible, that sees me for who I am. Lastly I want someone REALLY horny!

From Nell
I want a woman that I get along with. Personal chemistry is different for every two people, but when you're with someone and you have it, you know.

I want a woman who is truly unselfish. Cultural stereotypes would have men to be the selfish ones. But in relationships, women can often be emotional tyrants.

I want a woman with heart. You've got to have some stick-to-it to survive life in general. Same goes for relationships.

Most of all, I want a woman with a strong sex drive. (As long as she's loyal.) Being in a relationship that starts of sexually hot, but eventually turns sexless, is absolute torture for a man. In those cases, relationships are just big, fat, traps.

From Kelane
I love a woman who's nice to others as well as to me. She should be outgoing, not beautiful, I certainly don't need that, but sure of herself and her sexuality and strong in mind and heart.

I find women who are less beautiful in their face is so much more in their hearts. They appreciate you so much more and are most times, sweet and honorable.

Now to the matter at hand. She must be very hairy, with the scent of a hot, juicy, and dripping wet edible pussy. Mmmm good! She can't be afraid to explore with me. I offer no pain but pure, sweet pleasure. And she must not be afraid to react loudly to the best pussy eating she has ever had.

I truly love women and if given the chance I would rather be in the company of women for the rest of my life.

From Jack
I want someone not afraid to speak their mind. Looks aren't too important to me as they can be so misleading. Granted better looking people have lived more stable lives in most cases due to less judgement by the public, I still have found it not necessarily a factor.

I'm a short guy, I don't care how tall or short she may be as long as she does not have a problem with my height or how funny we look having sex. She just needs to appreciate me for the consideration I take in her, and understand I want to be understood. I'm pretty simple I guess

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