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From Alan:
The first thing I want from a woman is to see her eyes. A woman with beautiful eyes is very sexy. I am especially fond of green eyes. A woman who has an open mind, and is willing to experiment sexually and non-sexually is a turn on. She should also be able to use her femininity to seduce me. I believe most woman know how to do seduce very well. After we both know we have a connection and are turning each other on, I enjoy taking charge and then teasing her until she loses control. The biggest turn on is the wonderful sounds of a woman turned on and excited. The heavy breathing, the soft moans, the loud moans, her screams and her telling you how she feels. If more men would focus on long sexual teasing of their woman, and making sure the woman enjoys a wonderful orgasm, they would find that their lover would make love to them a lot more often.

From Kay
I want a woman with a great, big, well-exercised brain; one who likes to talk and to read; who challenges me and is able, with her education and verbal ability, to put up a good argument if she doesn't agree with what I say. Hell, I expect *male* friends to be like that, too; why should I expect anything less from my woman? If I say something stupid, I want her to be brave enough to laugh in my face and call me a fool. If there's one thing I hate, it's a ditz who gives me a pretty smile and says yes, yes, yes, no matter what I say. That's a crashing bore.

A streak of sarcasm is very appealing to me, mostly because I have a rather large one myself; also, a sense of the absurd and ridiculous that can allow her to laugh at the bizarreness of life on this planet. A sense of humor goes without saying, and that includes being able to laugh in bed. I want her to be my best friend as well as my lover. Friendship is crucial.

From David
Ideally, even if she's shy, she's confident, but not cocky, in her sexual attractiveness. Her heels aren't ridiculous stilettos, but might be high or platforms if she chooses to wear heels. To work or in a business situation she likes skirts just long enough to be appropriate business attire and blouses and jackets that fit tightly. Her pant suits are rare. Away from work, she likes short cutoffs, almost Daisy Dukes, or short straight-leg Gap type shorts. When we go out, She likes tight mini-dresses or long skirts with big slits. Underwear is optional and panty hose are worn only when absolutely necessary. She likes looking sexy, feeling sexy, gaining the attention of others and having a hypnotic effect on me. She understands when there will be a competitive feel where we're going. Even if she doesn't think she'll be the hottest woman in the place, she wants me to feel that I'm with the hottest woman in the place and will want others to feel that way, too. She appreciates that I reciprocate that feeling.

We're able to talk and share such deep bonds, we can sometimes communicate with just a deadpan look or wrinkle of the eyebrow. She makes me laugh, sometimes through her little ways or through perfect comic timing and observations.

Physically, she's not skinny. She's big-boned, literally -- broad shoulders and hips, long legs for her height. That frame is covered with curvaceous flesh with at least some muscle, even if covered by some flab. She can be short, but I prefer someone between 5-8 and 6-4 (I'm 6-2). She doesn't have to be my physical superior or equal, but in bed, she is capable of taking control when she really wants.

Sexually, she goes with her feel. She can be seductive or forceful, passively receiving pleasure or aggressively demanding it in a certain way. She likes receiving oral sex, but doesn't care one way or the other about giving it. She's multi-orgasmic and capable of great intensity during sex. At times, her intensity and depth make me shudder and wonder if I'm man enough for her. But I don't want to turn any of herself down. I want to become a better man for her.

From Peter
The perfect woman...well...assuming I am her perfect man... which makes sense because we would need to meld together in a special way. She would be smart and knowledgeable (not the same thing). She would probably have the same politics and ideas about religion that I have. She would love sex and would suggest things she would like to do that were a bit off the wall. She would have an incredibly sharp sense of humor. 

I like a woman with small breasts and nice curves. A great butt is a plus. But I would forgo that part to get the smarts and humor parts I mentioned. It would be so very nice if she was willing to try new things and situations sexually and otherwise. I would love to be able to talk to a woman who points out other women and compare notes about what she or I would like to do with that other woman. I would like her to look at men and think out loud about what it would be like to get fucked by him. I would want a woman who actively seeks to act out her fantasies and mine as much as can reasonably be attained.

From Jack
My perfect woman will look like Kelly Preston or Jennifer Connelly. She will be very sweet and friendly and not overly extrovert. She will look gorgeous without having to spend one hour in front of the mirror to make herself up. She will have long hair, child-bearing hips, narrow waste, ample breasts with big nipples, and a generally fit body but not at all muscular. 

She would love me to take erotic photos of her with my new digital camera, starting out with her all dressed and finishing with only her suspenders and her legs spread apart for me in an elegant pose. She will then sit on top of my cock and I'll use the auto-picture to take pictures of her riding me.

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