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This Month's Hot Topic

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?


On-Going Forums

Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?


Masturbation

Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...


Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Enduring Ménage
Could it work?

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?


Inquiring Minds

What do Men Want
Hint...it rhymes with 'vex'

What do Women Want
Hint...it's not size

What do Women Want?



Wht do men want?Ladies: What do you want in a man—is it the scruffy jeans look, or do you prefer suit and tie? Do you like aggressive men, or gentle men? What does your ideal man do that is seductive, sexy, arousing? What about men in bed? Do you want them to take charge, or do you want to be the dominant one? Describe your ideal man —in and out of bed.


Here's a few things women want...

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From Adorenna
He's kind to people that can't do anything for him. He makes me laugh and we laugh together often. He is intense and envelopes me. His stare is as intimate as his kiss. He's tactile and loves to touch me. He cares about himself - he's clean and his scent is subtle. He loves me for me and I can be totally myself with him. He's creative and expresses himself through art or music. He volunteers his time. He's athletic but not bulky - looks great in leather and is equally stunning with or without facial hair. He protects me and in his world I feel safe.

He knows that chivalry is not dead and with him I feel like the most beautiful woman in the universe. He encourages me and challenges me and thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread. I catch him staring at me from across the room and I know that when we get home he will rock my world. He's open and only plays games in the bedroom. He sings to me. He's smart and innovative. He has patience in spades. Does such a man exist? I hope so....

From Liszt
I want a handsome slim gourmet cook, a cute chauffeur, a sexy blond upstairs maid and a charming brunet downstairs maid. I want a hunky professional workout coach, a completely trustworthy, intelligent, and kind babysitter. I want a witty good-natured boss that actually knows what he's doing, a sharp-eyed detail oriented handyman, and a talented master gardener. 

From San Francisco Femme
I want an intelligent, kind, loving, generous, humorous man (50ish) with a strong and adventurous sex drive who's as committed to me & my orgasm as I am to him & his.  I want a man who understands that once a month I need to take a break.

I want a man who's into ass play, both ways, and is willing to try every toy on the market because we're committed to leading a true sensual & sexual lifestyle together even if that includes inviting in another M-F bisexual couple for a committed regular all-out-juicy foursome (and I want him to understand that a 3rd scares me but that including another couple doesn't).  You know how people talk about vision boards?  I hope that just by writing this I'm drawing him into my life for a never-ending playdate. 

From Cat
In looks I like a man who is clean. That has taken care of his teeth. Curly hair, long or short. A disarming smile. Funny and sees my funny side. I like to see a man dressed to the 9's but he can't walk around like that all the time, so, running shorts and a muscle tee shirt. Of course this means a nice body. My favorite thing is arms with muscles. A man that doesn't drive like a maniac, doesn't overdrink and NO drugs. Romantic and that has many meanings to me.

A man (this is a big one) that could spent a week-end with NO electronics! Likes cats. Can cook even if only 1 dish. Can spend a evening on the sofa only kissing. Really knows how to give a massage. Who believes in some of my passions. That doesn't eat in bed. Make me laugh in or out of bed. Who can like and love me. Will make me feel like the sexist woman ever. And will let me do the same to him because he is. I've only had men in my life that have bits and pieces of this list. I would be surprised to find it all. But wouldn't it be nice? He'd be so happy to have me. I would give the same back to him.

From Tray
The first thing is looks of course. Tall-ish, great head of hair, bright eyes, full mouth, great teeth, nice nose. Then the personality. No aggression. He's got to be fun and engaging. Younger than me but mature professional. He's got to be intelligent, great sense of humor, somebody you want to continue talking to at a party and curse when someone butts in and breaks up the conversation.

I want him to have a big cock, something you want to suck and feel in your mouth, as well as fill out your vagina or ass. You want him to have staying power, maybe last long enough to give you an orgasm or two. I want him to produce lots of cum. Beyond the fucking, I'd like to have a good, fun, creative relationship. Until this fantasy guy comes along I'll stick with kind, loving hubby who, with the wind behind him, is a great fuck!

From Gin
Give me a man filled with lust for me. I want him to be really really excited about fucking me, kind of desperate in his lust. If he has that than looks don't matter so much.

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