What do Women Want?

Ladies: What do you want in a man—is it the scruffy jeans look, or do you prefer suit and tie? Do you like aggressive men or do you gentle men? What does your ideal man do that is seductive, sexy, arousing? (e.g., I have a female friend who thinks that a man who is a good kisser is the height of sensuality). What about men in bed? Do you want them to take charge, or do you want to be the dominant one? Describe your ideal man —in and out of bed.

Here's a few things women want...

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From Cat
In looks I like a man who is clean. That has taken care of his teeth. Curly hair, long or short. A disarming smile. Funny and sees my funny side. I like to see a man dressed to the 9's but he can't walk around like that all the time, so, running shorts and a muscle tee shirt. Of course this means a nice body. My favorite thing is arms with muscles. A man that doesn't drive like a maniac, doesn't overdrink and NO drugs. Romantic and that has many meanings to me.

A man (this is a big one) that could spent a week-end with NO electronics! Likes cats. Can cook even if only 1 dish. Can spend a evening on the sofa only kissing. Really knows how to give a massage. Who believes in some of my passions. That doesn't eat in bed. Make me laugh in or out of bed. Who can like and love me. Will make me feel like the sexist woman ever. And will let me do the same to him because he is. I've only have had men in my life that have bits and pieces of this list. I would be surprised to find it all. Do I think this man is perfect? No. But wouldn't it be nice? He'd be so happy to have me. I would give the same back to him.

From Liszt
I want a handsome slim gourmet cook, a cute chauffeur, a sexy blond upstairs maid and a charming brunet downstairs maid. I want a hunky professional workout coach, a completely trustworthy, intelligent, and kind babysitter. I want a witty good-natured boss that actually knows what he's doing, a sharp-eyed detail oriented handyman, and a talented master gardener. 

From Anonymous
Of course if they are handsome, that is the first thing.  I am attracted to a man who cooks and spends time with his children.  I like a little 5:00 shadow on his face that makes a certain roughness.  A man in a suit, white shirt, and tie with his shirt and tie loosened.  Or in a pair of nice jeans showing off an ample ass. 

A sense of humor (ability to make me laugh) is very attractive.  A man that honestly takes the time to listen and be interested in a real conversation that is not about sports.  A nice smile, a look from a distance that says "hey I think you are really sexy" is an immediate attention getter.  But, hey, don't do all that and then be afraid to make the first move.  Come up and introduce yourself and say you would like to get to know the girl better.

From Tray
The first thing is looks of course. Tall-ish, great head of hair, bright eyes, full mouth, great teeth, soft nose. Then the personality. No aggression. He's got to be fun and engaging. Younger than me (I'm fortyish) but mature professional. He's got to be intelligent, great sense of humor, somebody you want to continue talking to at a party and curse when someone butts in and breaks up the conversation. So, it's someone you want to see again.

I want him to have a big cock, something you want to suck and feel in your mouth, as well as fill out your vagina or ass. You want him to have staying power, maybe last long enough to give you an orgasm or two. I want him to produce lots of cum. Beyond the fucking, I'd like to have a good, fun, creative relationship. Until this fantasy guy comes along I'll stick with kind, loving hubby who, with the wind behind him, is a great fuck!

From Lily
I've found that I generally prefer men who are older than I am. I'm really attracted to a man's eyes and by his gaze. I like it when a man is not afraid to look me in the eye. I also love strong, masculine hands and a hairy chest—not super furry, but hair is hot! On the other hand, oddly enough, I find that I have an attraction to bald or attractively balding men. Also: a killer smile, strong arms, cute ass...these are all in a man's favor.

In terms of personality, I like men who have something they are passionate about, who make me laugh,  who are assertive without being overly domineering, who is a god conversationalist and loves sex (especially sex with me!).

From Anonymous
A man in a suit. A smile. That's a must. I'm never curious about a man who doesn't smile. Eye contact.
Shows an interest in more than just my body. Intelligent conversation, and a sense of humor. How he treats me - what he does out of bed is what he'll do in bed.

The most erotic thing a man did that made me willing: we were at dinner on our first or second date, sitting in a booth, and he leaned over and flicked his tongue back and forth on my neck, just below my ear. Then he whispered, "you can have that anywhere you want."

From Gin
Give me a man filled with lust for me. I want him to be really really excited about fucking me, kind of desperate in his lust. If he has that than looks don't matter so much.

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