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From Mountain Rose
I would have to say that my perfect man is someone that constantly challenges me. Someone that can arouse me mentally as well as physically. He must be a mind-reader so that he KNOWS my every thought before I say it out loud and he can prepare for the topic, event or sex accordingly. I believe he needs to be a man of many faces because I like a variety of looks from true cowboy to hardcore leather-clad biker. He has to be intelligent as well as funny, romantic, sympathetic, empathetic, kind, genuine and honest but on the other side of this he knows when to be strong, rough and even a little bit of a bad ass. He is also hard working, dedicated and simple. There is nothing sexier than a shirtless man doing manual labor out in a hayfield, especially when he's wearing nothing but a cowboy hat, jeans and boots and his chest and arms are glistening from the perspiration of a hard day's labors.

From Anonymous
I prefer dreads and gold teeth because I'm from the south and I'm hood. I love a guy that can lick a pussy real good and then come up and fuck you real good. Besides all that I have to like his personality and have to have a good sense of humor. When I have sex with a guy I want to be able to see how much he is enjoying it.

From Anonymous
Let's see...I want a man who is a man. To every letter of the word. Not that I am weak or incapable, but I love to know that my man can protect me and that he has the power and the attitude to take what he wants in bed. Nothing turns me OFF more then some one who is not confident in bed. Not to say that I always need to be ravaged, or "taken." But I will say that it gets me off knowing that ultimately he could have full control over me. I guess it must go back to the whole primal, raw, instinct thing. Because outside of the bedroom I would be pissed if a man tried to overbear me.

From Ebony
Honestly, I have always been attracted and extremely turned on by Asian men from Korea, China, Burma, Laos, Thailand, Indonesia, Japan or Vietnam. I love the dark sexy mysterious almond shaped eyes, silky jet black hair and smooth skin. Short, average or tall in height. Slim, medium or muscular build. Ones with accents or without accents- Doesn't matter. Asian men are HOT!

They make really great lovers and are really soooo good at foreplay, especially with licking the pussy and hitting all the erogenous zones on target! It's not so much the sex but the passion of their intense, dark eyes. I think that's so hot. I love being able to have intelligent conversations with men who can truly appreciate women for who we really are. An Asian man with a very ambitious personality is a definite turn on for me.

From Frances Deadbeat
I am rather chubby so I suppose the top of my list of what I want in a guy is someone who wants me as me. It's sometimes rather difficult to find guys who are not superficial and are not gay.

He has to be able to make me laugh. He has to be someone that I can have long intelligent conversations with, that can then degenerate into jokes or a wrestling match. Someone who is fun and comfortable. I want someone who can on rare occasions if necessary act mature and the rest of the time just be fun to hang around with. Someone who loves to read books and also to watch movies. Someone who likes to cuddle in bed for a half day without getting out of bed. Someone who has been to university and possibly can display some emotions.

Physically as a type sort of thing I often seem to go for guys that look plump, with curvy chins instead of bony ones. I don't think that I am really interested in anyone really bony, I mean you can't hug them. And not really massively obese either. Based on my recent interests I think I am into guys who are taller than me. Guys who are shorter or the same height often seem to short after stretching to kiss my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half.

Sexually I want someone who feels comfortable with trying stuff even if they have never done it before. I don't necessarily care if they are experienced just someone who is willing to try and share. And also willing to worship my body..... ah my fantasies! Someone who is prepared to reciprocate sexual activities.

From Katherine
My ideal man would have to be someone of great character. He MUST be intelligent. He must be someone who is willing to take responsibility in his life - if he has kids, he must own them and is willing to man up. I want a man with a regal presence, although I don't like the corporate power-house type. He must be secretly sensitive and sweet, but a force to be reckoned with. He must be honest and complete, because this suggests fearlessness to me - a man who has to lie is a coward.

In bed, he's a strait up F-R-E-A-K!! He loves to explore sexually, but comfort level comes only with me as his sexual partner. He is willing to try anything I put on the table and will not make me feel ashamed for bringing it up in the first place. He has to be experienced sexually, but rather picky about who he goes to bed with. He has to be able to be the man in the bedroom - I like to be taken - I like a man who knows what he wants and isn't scared to go for it without being overly aggressive or pushy, because he shouldn't have to be - just kissing him should be enough to get my panties soaked.


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