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What Turns You On...
Even if you don't want it to?



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CyberSex

Is Cybersex Cheating?
A complex issue

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Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

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Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?


Masturbation

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Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
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Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Spicy Sex!
Altoids, schnopps, chili?

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Cum Shots
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Faking It
Why the deception?

Loud & Proud Sex
Do your neighbours know?

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...

What is Your Preference
Oral sex or intercourse?

Your Best Orgasm?
Color us curious


Keeping Abreast..

Breast & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Relationship Woes

Happiness is…
Sleeping in separate rooms

Men & Women Revealed
What you ought to know

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?


Inquiring Minds

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

What do Women Want?
Hint...it's not length

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?

What do Men Want?
Hint...it rhymes with 'tex'

Same-Sex Curiosity

Did you ever? Would you ever?



Here's a couple of same-sex sites to explore:

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From Steve
I have to confess, my curiosity to suck a hard cock has gotten stronger lately. I do not find men attractive, nor do I want to kiss or cuddle, but do have recent desires to have a hard dick in my mouth to see what it feels like. I have told my wife about this and she says she would like to watch. We both think it would be hot.

From Delores
Michelle, your eyes and the way you look at her will say most of it. [see Michelle's entry below] If she returns the look she might be willing, just an opinion, but it works for me without me doing something that may get a negative reaction.

From Michelle
I'm a sexually active single woman in my early 50s. All my life I have been heterosexual. Now for reasons I can't explain I have become VERY interested in having sex with another woman. All my fantasies during masturbation center around a woman. I want to know what it's like to feel her nipple harden in my mouth. Feel her clit spasm between my lips.

I don't feel I could ever approach anyone, but if I was given the chance I would take it. Attracting a man has never been any problem, men are almost always receptive to advances by a woman. But making my feelings known to another woman, well I just don't know.

From Tom
As a straight married man with kids, I've always found the idea of being with another man repugnant; however, as I have gotten older, I find that more and more often I am thinking about it.

At first, I just wondered what it would be like to have another man's cock in my mouth and taste his semen as he came in my mouth.  I figured I was just curious about what women get out of blow jobs. Now more and more often, I fantasize about having ongoing sex with another anonymous married man. In my fantasy, his wife knows about our relationship, but my wife doesn't. I find the idea of being with a man behind my wife's back very stimulating.

In my fantasy, I think about us 69-ing each other, and us having sex with each other with each other.  I fantasize about kissing and touching his cock and him touching me.  Every time I think about it, I want to tongue his ass and swallow his cum. Although I doubt I will ever have the opportunity to actually follow through with this scenario, I would like to think that I would have sex or at least taste another man if I got the chance under the right circumstances.

From K
In the past 3 years, I have been very interested in women! All of my relationships have been hetero but I often fantasize about women--especially when I am masturbating, I think of giving and receiving oral sex. I want to take the clit in my mouth and pleasure her until she comes on my fingers. I have also fantasized about being pleasured by more than one woman.

The thought of sucking a woman's nipples can get me aroused in no time. I'm a stingy lover when it comes to men so I would never do it with my boyfriend. If we ever broke up or the opportunity presented itself, I would do it in a heart beat. I'm a black woman but I would experiment with any type of woman as long as her pussy is pretty, and huge nipples would be a bonus.

I also fantasize a lot about being double penetrated by two cocks and sucking another off. I never had these urges until my friends introduced me to sex toys and porn. For now these are just  fantasies but maybe one day it will be a reality.

From Kalliannassa
I am 27, female, married.  Am I curious, definitely. However I am very very picky.  Did I? Partially. Short shrift, I ended up in a 3some with my ex boyfriend and my replacement. Neither she nor I gave each other oral or anal sex, but we did a lot of kissing, fondling and nibbling of anything other than female genitalia.

  I flip flop between being curious about oral sex with another woman. I suppose I'm greedy, I'd much rather receive than give, although I am curious if I'd give as good oral sex to a woman as I seem to give a man. I know I'd love for my husband and I to find another couple to play with in any and all combinations, so yes I would again, although at this point in my life I doubt I'd take a female lover for myself alone.  Prefer a couple, but would share just a woman with my husband if that was what he and she wanted

From Anonymous
We have never had any same sex time although my wife says she is willing to do this providing two things are met. The first is I have to set this up for her and I don't have a clue how to do it. Although I must say it would be well worth watching her and another women. The other thing is that if and when I do set up her's and it's done I have to set up myself and another guy doing each other so she can watch. After some thought I figured it would be great to suck off another guy, especially if he was sucking me at the same time. My wife said she'd really like watching this.

Now it all boils down to getting the first one (any help) going then move on to the second.

[We've heard good things about Adult Friend Finder, which sounds like a good place to start your search]

From Mike
As a senior with limited hetero opportunities, I enjoy mutual fellatio with another man. It feels good, tastes  good and is damn good for you, provided you take the necessary precautions pertaining to hygiene and so forth. Sometimes we massage each other's prostate, now there's a thingy a woman doesn't have. When done properly, it can be mind blowing to be sure.

From Michael
I have been curious as to what it feels like to have another man's penis in my mouth. It's very strange, because I don't really find other men attractive. I don't have any desire to be physically close to another man. I don't want to kiss or hold them as I would with a woman. I just have this un-explained desire to know the feeling of sucking a penis. I'm certain I could find someone who would go along with it, but I feel that they would want something more and I know I wouldn't be able to give them anything else.

To this end, I find myself looking at transexuals. It's as though I'm trying to trick my brain into thinking I'm with a woman who just happens to have a penis. Thus making everything more OK. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

From Allie
I am a waitress in a nice restaurant/bar located in a college town.  Not long ago as I was serving a table of friends or co-workers, I noticed a stunning lady in her mid 30s with gorgeous boobs.  Our eyes met, which happens fairly frequently as you might imagine between waitress and customer, but this was different.  I believe we were instantly attracted to each other. 

Without being too conspicuous, I tried to put myself next to her each time that I went to their table.  Once her arm touched my leg, which I'm certain was not by accident.  To be sure there was something happening between us.  I watched and as she left to go to the restroom after dinner, I followed her inside.  As I stepped to her, we embraced.  Our lips met and our hands were searching for body parts.  The kiss was unbelievable.  Her lips were nothing like the men I had kissed in the past.  Her body conformed to mine and mine to hers.  We moved in to a stall where we proceeded to slip our panties down and began to touch each other with soft tender fingers.  Standing up was nearly impossible.  Our legs were trembling and felt as though they were made of jelly.  We both ended up fingering the other to a wonderful orgasm. 

Julie, (her name which I found out after our session) was in fact 36 years old to my 28.  Being slightly more experienced in lesbianism, she bent me over and pleasured my ass with her tongue.  Needless to say another orgasm gushed forth, which left me breathless and barely able to stand.  We decided the restroom was not the perfect place for sexual encounter so I gave her my address.  Upon closing, I found that she didn't need my address as she was sitting in her car waiting for me. 

From Mindy
I have often thought about it. I am married with children and have an amazing husband. However, I think about being with another woman. I never have and don't think I could make the first move, but if one was made on me, I don't think I could resist. 

Most times when I travel for work, I have my own hotel room, but several times I have had to share with other female coworkers. Some of them are very modest and always change in the bathroom, while others have walked around nude in front of me. That is when I get the biggest urge. I have no problem being naked in front of them and I love to see if they gaze upon my body. 

One time I was just out of the shower and trying to decide which heels to wear to a conference...I was nude on the bed and put on a pair of five inch black pumps. My female roommate loved my shoes and asked if she could try them on. She came and sat right next to me on the bed and tried them on. I was so hot right there and wished she would have made a move at me...but she didn't, maybe next time!

From Jimmi
In the bar, dressed, he was handsome, very funny, very intelligent.  In our motel room and undressed he was slim, well-built, his cock was magnificent.  For the first fifteen minutes we had a three-way suck.  My wife sucked him and he sucked me.  It was an amazingly erotic experience for me, watching my wife give another man head while the same man was also giving me head, the warmth of his mouth and feeling his teeth and tongue all very erotic. 

After he and I recovered, we swapped positions and I began to suck him off.  Yes, an incredible first for me and although my technique was nowhere as good as my wife's, I believe I gave our friend some good head and after about five minutes found myself willing him to cum in my mouth.  I was excited, sexually aroused, both from my sucking our friend and my wife sucking me.  What a mind-blowing experience!  His cum was hot, thick, creamy and tasted very spicy.  I took it all, no drop lost, and enjoyed the shock of it entering my mouth, pure pleasure! 

Once again after recovering we began our last session.  Using condoms and lube we men fucked each other.  Neither of us climaxed, just me experimenting with being fucked by a male, and me fucking another male.  It was yet another collection of amazingly erotic experiences. 

From Anonymous
Absolutely!! I would love to have a woman eat my pussy - I keep thinking it would be so much better than a man; that she would know just exactly the right thing to do, when. Although I don't have the same fantasy about eating her pussy. I don't think I could do that with another woman. However, her breasts are another thing. I would love to touch another woman's breasts and suck on her nipples while she did the same to me. And yes, if a man were also there, I think the one not being fucked could help a lot by sucking on the nipples of the woman who was being fucked.

But I have fantasies about orgies - about everyone doing everything to everyone. About me and a guy sucking another guy off and licking his balls - maybe while a woman is eating me. Just pure sex....

From Curious no more
This weekend after years of wondering what it would be like to be with another guy I found out. Myself and another friend of mine were watching porn and started to jerk-off. Then we started to jerk-off each other. Both of us had precum of the other on our hands and we licked it off.

After awhile we got on the floor caressing each other and began kissing moving into a 69 position. We both sucked the other for quite awhile and came in each others mouth. He was uncut about 61/2" long and his cum and cock tasted great. Have wondered for a long time, but think I would do it with him again on an occasional basis as I'm not curious anymore.

From DL
As a late teen (summer after my junior year in high school), I hung around with a neighbor 3 doors away.  He was a college kid, but we had known each other for years so it was not unusual for me to be around him.  What was unusual was that he had recently discovered his own gay sexuality and clearly wanted to explore it.  He didn't directly come on to me for a homosexual relationship, but he encouraged me to hang out with him in his basement room, provided me with beer and access to his hetero porn stash, and after a couple of weeks started showing me straight porn movies.  I had seen it all before, but it was pretty powerful stuff for a 16 year old in the pre-Internet era.  Anyway, the second time we did that, he masturbated in front of me and encouraged me to do the same, acting like it was no big deal.

 I was really eager to come back the next day to do it again, and he popped one into the VCR that was pretty much a blowjob extravaganza.  Once we were both hard and stroking, he started talking about how amazing it must be to have your cock sucked, how badly he wished he could feel a mouth on him, etc.  We were sitting on the same old couch, and I just leaned over and took him into my mouth. If I had thought about it I don't know if I would have had the courage, but I didn't really think.  I just did it.   I still remember it as the most fucking incredible thing I've experienced, sexually.  It was big, warm, smelled and tasted really strongly of cock, and I could actually feel his pulse on my tongue.  Once I'd crossed that line, the games were pretty much over.  I got down on my knees in front of him and sucked till he came.  It was unbelievably erotic, both physically and because of the power dynamic (me being something short of an adult and him an official 'man'; me on my knees in his basement, him leaning back on the couch, watching porn and enjoying my mouth).

I 'did' him like that two or three times a week for the rest of the summer, and then he left town for school and we really never spent any time together after that.  But, it still means a lot to me.  I would do it again in a second.

From Gill
We met Ian at a hotel and chatting over a couple of drinks the subject turned to sex. Somehow we found ourselves all going to our room. Where he kissed my husband having told me to sit in a chair. Soon undressed they lay on the double bed. First kissing for ages. Then 69 on each others cocks. My husband had never asked for or mentioned any desire for this to happen and I was transfixed it was beautiful. Then Ian told him to kneel on the bed and after using some lube entered him. slowly at first then increasing the tempo he took him up the arse. Eventually Ian came and as he did so my husbands cock swelled ejaculating hard. By now I was orgasmic desperate to join in but they were in their own world.

Parting several hours later we had great sex together but he has never repeated this but admits to being curious about doing it with someone with him giving. This led to us trying anal a few times but it was not the same. We did not plan this and I guess we have to wait and see what happens in the future.

From Shorty
Oh yeah. I fantasize about sucking on another man all the time. I have been overseas to other countries where it is normal for men to be together and men to dress up like women. Tranny's are HOT! I received a blow-job from one before. It was great! Some tranny's are so hot, they look as good as women.

My best friend and I went as far as french kiss before. He was married and we all laughed it off. But I wanted more. Even today, if he asked me to have sex with him, I would. I've seen his thick beautiful cock before. I have to be careful drinking around him - my desires would come out of the closet! I don't know how he would feel about that.

I have never had a cock in my ass before, but with the right person, I would do this. I think same sex marriages and relationships are a good thing. I'm pretty sure they know how to please each other being that they are of the same sex. I like looking at gay porn as well. Some of those men are very hot.

From Anonymous
My fantasy is feminine Asian shemales. I love women, their shape, smell and smooth skin but I also have a fascination for cock. I love the way they feel, taste and they look so cool. I love watching a woman suck on one and the streaming cum a cock shoots. I also like watching men suck off shemales and suck the cum covered shaft slowly like a woman.

I am a sucker for a beautiful Asian shemale with fat cocks enough to fill my mouth but not so long I choke. I am absolutely infatuated with watching a sexy shemale masturbate and shoot her goo. I just find the cock sexy as an organ its so erotic. I dont like men but a sexy ladyboy really gets me off.

From Sean
I consider myself straight, but, I met this guy on a business trip. We were staying at the same Motel so after the conference was over he asked if I wanted to get a bite to eat. I said yes, and we had a really good time exchanging stories. After diner he suggested we go to his room for a night cap. We talked about our business and our wives and kids. I'm not sure how the subject came up, but , the next thing I knew we were talking about our sex lives or the lack of it.

He must have noticed the bulge in my pants, the next thing I knew he was on his knees in front of me removing my pants and underwear. His mouth was hot on my cock and he felt great, I came like a bull in his mouth and he took it all. Then he pulled me to the floor and rolled me over on my stomach. I told him I never did this before and I wasn't sure I could take him. He smiled at me and said" I'll be gentle, just relax".

He removed his pants and took some KY lube out of his briefcase, he applied a good amount on his prick and even more on my ass. He pushed in one finger, then two, then three...It was hurting but I felt I had to return his favor.

I felt the tip of his cock enter me, he was gentle. When he was all the way in he pumped like a jackhammer until he shot his load in my ass. I was surprised after a while the hurting stopped and it really felt good. We stayed together the rest of the night, he did me a few more times and I got to do him before we dressed and left for the airport.

From Cumcraze
I am a married man with kids and happily married, but I've always been curious about giving and receiving head from another man. About 6 years ago I met this guy on-line and we began chatting. We chatted for quite some time until the moment came when we met in person.

Well, we ended up in a motel room both butt naked and he gave me a blowjob and so did I then I allowed him to go further. We continued seeing each other on a regular basis to the point where I became aroused by giving him head every time.

About 5 months ago we stopped seeing each other since he left for Chicago. Then about 2 months ago I met another older gentleman and since then, I've been going over to his house during my lunch hour and from the very first day, he and I both sucked each other off and I have to say that I like his 8" cock and enjoy sucking it good, but now I want to experience swallowing his load. I'm sure sooner or later I will and I can hardly wait to see him this week.

Sucking cock is not as bad as I thought it would be and being married makes it more difficult because don't get me wrong, I love pussy but something about sucking a nice stiff cock is such a turn-on. And only a man knows what another man likes.

From Mark
My introduction to same gender sex came over a year ago when, post divorce, on moving into a new apartment I ordered a new refrigerator. I took a week off to unpack and the refrigerator duly arrived on the agreed day and time. The delivery guy was a very handsome black man, early twenties and absolutely nothing sexual went through my head on his arrival. It was only when he offered to remove the packing (too big to get through the kitchen door) that I began to feel something and by the time we'd finished removing the card and styrene we were laughing and joking.

Very naturally, I blurted out a suggestion we meet for a coffee. He agreed saying he was off duty that afternoon. We met and I was very pleased to discover we had many shared interests in movies, music, politics, and after an hour I had very deep desire to experience something sexual with this very intelligent and good looking male, a very unnerving emotion for a up-to-then very hetero male.

I suggested we continue the conversation back at my place, he agreed and as soon as the apartment door was shut he pinned me against the wall and kissed me very passionately, his tongue in my mouth, me reciprocating, he fondling my penis, eventually unzipping me, falling to his knees to take my erect penis in his mouth. It was, of course, a wonderful moment, the erotic warmth of his mouth, the gentle biting of his teeth, the licking of his tongue. It was probably no different to my ex-wife or any of her female friends sucking me off but this was a male with my penis in his mouth and it did feel very different! I climaxed very quickly, he got up, kissed me and my semen was transferred to my mouth, a very erotically charged moment!

I had never ever had a penis in my mouth before but I now wanted to suck this guy off. On the bed I cautiously took his penis in my mouth and began to suck, imitating my ex-wife's actions, and what a strange feeling it was! He felt very big in my mouth (he was big but not elephantine), my actions of kissing, licking and biting providing lubricating saliva in my mouth, and I was very pleased to hear him start to give out some moans of ecstasy. He took longer to climax than me but when he did the rush of his semen was as close to heaven as I experience, hot, sweet tasting, and a lot of it, me gagging a bit when he pushed his still ejaculating penis to the back of my mouth.

A year later, I'm 65, I haven't become a raging old queen. Instead, I'm discretely bi-sexual, very cautious, aware that I must know something about the men I eventually have sex with, careful to use condoms wherever I can, although my ex's female friends, all in sexless marriages, I occasionally meet for dinner or museum visit with some very enjoyable lovemaking to follow, must remain totally unaware that I regularly enjoy sex with other men. I haven't the courage but I'd love to arrange a threesome with one of the wives, that's two bisexual men - me and one of my bi male friends.

From W
I have had a few times when I was younger that myself and a friend would suck each other off. I did not admit it for a long time, but I enjoyed it. Both him giving me head and me doing him. Sometimes I think about doing it again. I am not gay and love women to the max. Yet every once in a while I think about it.

From Jane Ann
As a girl in my late teens I went into a gay bar with some friends. After meeting a very attractive woman several years older than myself, we went to her place and for the first time I had the experience of my life! It was beautiful! I am now married and my husband does not know about my strong attraction to beautiful women. The urge only becomes stronger the older I am.

My husband asked me if I would let a woman suck on my nipples or eat my pussy and I said yes. I don't really think it would matter if it were a man or woman. It would still feel fucking fantastic. I would not want to do that to a woman but I don't think I would mind kissing one. Does that make me bisexual? What do you think?

From Tom
When I was a teenager, a friend of mine spent the night at my house. I had always been attracted to him, but we were both "straight" guys. After he went to sleep, I laid there thinking about what it would be like to suck his dick. 

After an hour of thinking about it, I went over to where he was sleeping and I began rubbing his leg. I slowly moved my hand to his crotch and pulled out his dick. After he got hard I sucked his dick until he came in my mouth. We never talked about it, but to this day I often think about it.

From Anselmo
I am 53 years old and never had any sex experience with a man. I have been married twice and have great sex with women. I would love, anyhow, to have a sex experience with a man. To hold his dick and suck it till it comes. I do not enjoy the view or contact with a man's body but I am intrigued and curious about eating a nice penis.

From Anonymous
I met her in the women's locker room at a gym and couldn't take my eyes off her. I had never before been with another women although have thought about it a lot. I knew if any one would get me to go ahead with my curiosity it would be her.

You talk about reaching out and touching someone, her body trapped my mind and eyes. She had hair all the way down to her waist, her breast were huge with extremely large nipples that made mine ache at the thought of our breast touching. She was pretty and I so wanted to be with her.

She kept looking at me and I thought she was wondering why I kept looking like a lost puppy, but later learned she was hoping too. We left the gym and went for lunch and then to my home. There we explored one another and had a fantastic time for several hours, then she left to get her kids from school. We have since become friends and get together at least once or twice a month and I look forward to each meeting.

From Gene
I am male, 50, and have never had sex with a man, but I would like to try it. I have had thought about it a lot, and I want to see what it is like to hold a hard cock. I'm divorced with two children, and the thought of HIV is pretty scary. But I still would like to have a man, or rather let a man have me. I would like to 69 with a man and let him fuck me. I have used dildos on myself and I like the feeling, and I would like to know what it is like to have a warm hard cock in my ass that is attached to a man. I want to try it all.

From Anonymous
I am not attracted to men. I do not look at them, do not see one that I wish to be with. I do however think about sucking a guy's tool from time to time. Or at least letting him suck mine.

From Darci
I've always enjoyed looking at other women but thought nothing of it until my ex-husband turned me on to porn. I discovered that lesbian porn really turns me on and have fantasized about making love to another woman for some time now. In my early twenties, I wrote a lesbian erotic piece and got so turned on that I had to finish myself off before I even finished the story.

I've often wondered if I'd be brave enough should the opportunity present itself. I suppose if the circumstances were right that I'd find the courage. I think it would be highly erotic to feel the softness of another woman's lips on mine, to experience the feel of someone else's nipples hardening beneath my touch.

To touch, taste, and see another woman's naked body remains, for the moment, only a fantasy.

From Marilyn M
I grew up with crushes on boys, but I fell face first into a mad crush with a girl when I was 21. I would've done anything for her. She was not only stunningly beautiful but sweet and fun, too. She was so feminine that she made me feel butch. One night I slept over, in her bed, and thought I would die. Eventually, I talked her into letting me kiss her and got to cop a feel of her gorgeous breast. Alas, she was not interested, but I wouldn't really have known what to do then, anyway. 

Since then, I've appreciated the beauty of femme women and even kissed a few but have not been lucky enough to have a real relationship. I am with a wonderful man now who is not sexually experienced, but he is very enthusiastic and willing to learn. He is currently studying a book about how to give oral sex that I gave him. I still wonder about what I am missing, though.

From Anton
I'm a straight male in a heterosexual relationship, and I would say mmf is the stronger fantasy for us both. However, we would probably more readily try ffm, though it really pales in comparison with mmf. I think it's because it may prove to be, shall we say, less stressful. 

But the thought of having my woman pleasured by me and another guy totally blows me away. We have talked about it and fantasized quite a lot, and I would love her to find someone to share her with me. I picture her in various positions -- from the front and the rear, a dick in both holes, on her knees alternating between two dicks, and all the rest. She smiles so damn lustily when I tell her all this. Fantasies are wonderful, but they need to come true, sooner or later. Maybe soon!

From Jeff
I've walked around with nothing on in front of another man a couple of times, and even though I feel I'm not gay, I wanted them to see me and make a suggestion. It's never happened. I didn't have the guts to show off an erection either, which probably didn't help, but I was just too scared I guess.

I did have a conversation with another guy at a bar one evening, and told him I loved to masturbate. He said he did too, and he gave me his card. He seemed straight too, but I've thought about what it would be like to watch him get off, and have him watch me get off. I'd consider rubbing his penis for him and watch his expression as he shot his cum. Wow.

From Anonymous
I've thought about having sex with another man often and probably just oral. I've viewed pictures of two men in a 69 position and must admit that I became intrigued. Haven't tried it yet and if the situation ever presents itself I'd have to wonder. The thought of both of us nude and hard doing each other creates an awesome mental vision.

From Anonymous
I have to admit the curiosity has grown over the years. I think what I like is the fantasy and sensual aspects of sex with another man but not in reality. I think about how it would feel to suck a cock and feel him come in my mouth. Or to either fuck or be fucked in the ass. But when I see other guys at the beach in their thongs they never appeal to me physically.

Maybe in the right place, right time, especially if it were a mfm encounter. But I am not incline to lie or cheat to my wife. I don't think in a 1000 years she would ever want a threesome and I have to admit it will probably never happen.

From Ghost Rider
Sorry people, I'm broad minded on a lot of things but this just isn't one of them. I have to agree with Andrew "Dice" Clay and one of the tapes that he made. In reference to guys and guys. Just can't see looking at a hairy ass and thinking "Yes man, I've just got to have that." Nor can I see playing the rump ranger. Smoking the phony bologna just isn't my cup of tea. Especially when there is all of those nice vagina's out there just whispering "Eat Me, Eat Me." Who in their right mind can say no to a delicacy of this quality. 

There is no comparison when you are trying to make a man's ass match up to a woman's ass. A woman is softer, rounded, and smoother than a man. She is more desirable sexually than a man to other men in my opinion.

From M
I think The House Of Flying Daggers is a gorgeous movie. The love story is so wonderful and everything is visually very pleasing. The love scenes are not too graphic, but they're very sensual. The eye-kissing is pretty romantic and at the same time very animalistic.

From Jake
I have long been curious (and long fantasized) but not enough to do anything about it. Finally in my late forties I decided I had to find out what being with a guy was like. I made an Internet search which lasted 8 months because I was being careful and picky. 

Finally I found another married guy who was also careful but bi. We met at a restaurant - I was excited but very nervous. We shared three glasses of wine. I liked him, I was ready. We went to his hotel room (he was on business travel). We took off our clothes, got in his bed and began to kiss, carress and hug. We sucked each other, it was very pleasureable. I wasn't sure I could actually "Do" anything - whether my fantasy would maybe not translate to reality, but it did. After a while I came, as did he. 

I'm glad I tried it - but funny - I'm not fantasizing about guys as much. The experience was worth it, but I think I'm closer to the hetero side than bi.

From Doug Campbell
The first time it happened, I wasn't sure if I wanted to go along with it. I was with a couple, taking her doggy-style while hubby licked her clit. After some time, he suggested that I withdraw so that he could taste his wife's juices on my cock. I was too aroused to spend much time debating with myself whether or not to comply, and just did it. It felt good, and even better the next time, once I had crossed "the barrier". 

I now consider myself bisexual, yet would step over any number of guys to get at a lady. However, I would also step over a number of ladies (not sure how many though!) to get to a couple. Mmm!

From Dave
Same sex? Would I ever? The answer is yes to both questions. I am a 56 year old married male who had always fantisized about being with another man ever since I was in high school. I wondered what it was like to touch another man's erect penis, feel it's hardness, see what it tasted like and see how it felt inserted in my anus, feel the warm sperm dribble out once my friend had unloaded deep inside me. Yes I have tried it. I would do it again, if given the chance but I am not gay and told my friend so before we started our encounter.

From Anonymous
I can say that my wife and myself have been there and done that many times over both with another female and male. As for me I kinda like when there is another male doing her.

She loves the fact that having two guys doing everything and anything to her without pain is a great turn on. The one time I can remember was the time we both put our cocks in her pussy at the same time. That drove her nuts and let let me tell you the sheet didn't have a dry spot on it.

For all you girls who want to do this, be open with your lover and express just what it is that you want and you might just get your wish. Good luck and have fun

From Frank
The thought of having sex with another guy never crossed my mind or my buddies. We shared an apartment for six months. We were both 23 years old and always out looking for women at night clubs, bars, parties etc. After working out of town for 2 weeks I arrived home on a Friday evening and again my room mate Steve and I went out drinking. We had no luck with the women that night and returned home late only to find that the heater in my waterbed had malfunctioned so the bed was to cold to sleep on. Stave suggested I sleep on his bed which we had done twice in the past for one reason or another.

Within minutes after the lights went out I felt this poke on my backside. He suggested we do each other because it was obvious we were both very horny. After a short talk I relented thinking after a few humps it will be over. Not quite. We took turns screwing each other and with different positions. It was wild to say the least. Oral sex was never a thought, just getting off was. (Although I wonder now what it would be like) We never did it again and never really talked about it much after.

We both got married and had families. Now, over twenty years later my wife just started using a strap-on at my request. It brings back memories of my buddy doing me. It feels great but she wishes she could sense what a real cock feels like. I'm sure she would be a better lay if she had the feeling. My friend was awesome. There was no attraction between us, getting off was the only objective. No strings attached.

From Anonymous
I have been married for three years. The first time I had a sexual encounter with another man was about a month before I met my wife five years ago. I have always looked at beautiful men and beautiful women since I was a teenager. I think that both sex is wonderful, I can do things with her that I couldn't do with a him, and vice versa. 

I find it hard to meet men that I would feel safe with, I just get chickened out. There is a married man who is a friend of my sister's and I have always dreamed of the things I would do to him. I get a vibe sometimes if we are around each other and I just don't know how to find out if he is interested in me or not. It is a wish of mine, to be having sex with another married man, but its so hard to find one.

From Rita
Having looked at other women and wondering how it would be tends to make me believe that if the situation presented itself I would. My boyfriend is constantly asking me if I find this one or that one attractive so I believe he's all for it. Having not yet done this I think I'd rather be with her a few times before then allow my boyfriend to watch only. I wouldn't want an emotional attachment as I have that. 

I would like to feel another women's body next to mine and explore. Being a member of a health club gives me the opportunity to view women in the locker room and get quite turned on. Unfortunately nothing has ever presented itself there and I'm too nervous to ask anyone. I keep watching the eyes hoping that I see a spark of interest.

From Anonymous
I am now 51 and have recently had advances by women quite often: grocery store, mall, basketball games. I must admit I have been tempted. I would love to feel a woman suck my tits and my clit. Who knows a woman and what she wants better than another woman...Houston we have a problem....but the feel of a penis is a wonderful thing. Who knows maybe a threesome would be a thrill

From Anonymous
I have always been curious and one day plan on having wild and passionate sex with another woman and a big dick man.

 

From SouthernDeepImpact
There's probably a clinical name for guys like me. I really, really get off fantasizing about getting ass- fucked by guys, and giving deep-throat blow-jobs. I even indulge these fantasies with a collection of 8 to 12 inch jelly dongs. And I love it.

However, the idea of actually doing it, when I'm actually in the company of other guys is a real turn off. I never see the guy who I think "yeah, I want him to fuck me." The fantasy is one thing, but the reality is quite another.

For that reason, I'm pretty sure I'm straight hetero. (My wife will be relieved!) But the fantasy of a homosexual encounter is really attractive.

I'm pretty certain I cannot be actually gay because I just cannot make the emotional attachment that would be necessary. I think real gay people have real emotional connections to their partners. I can't do that. Even in the fantasy, it's just about sex and nothing more.

So I'd say that makes me straight with homo-erotic fantasies. Oh! But what fantasies they are!

From JJ
I think of myself as straight, because I only find women's face and ass attractive, but sometimes I fantasize about having a guy fuck me up my ass and me suck his dick, I met a guy my age (21) to fuck, but I wussed out, I don't know what to do!

From klittykat
My first clitoral orgasm was in the 2nd grade. A pretty little dark-skinned girl named Dawn rubbed her pussy against mine in the girl's bathroom and gave me the best feeling of my life! I have the same orgasms today, but there achieved with my fingers or my husband's tongue (a much more intense orgasm I might add). But I long for the day when I can get my hands on a woman who wants to grind pussies with me all day.

From L
When I was young, I had a same sex experience. A neighbor asked me to let him suck me off. I do so on several occasions. Then I found I wished to do as much to him. I do so and found I liked it however not enough to really pursue it further. Years later, I had another real change to do so again, however I turned it down. I think we all are or can be attracted to our own sex. One must cross that line. If one can so be it, I could never really do it.

From Rob
I think the majority of readers are in the 20s to 30s age range. I would love to hear from you older guys and gals. I'm 69 and love all facets of sex. I had a good friend that sucked me off many times. His favorite fantasy was to have me fuck his wife with my huge cock (Grab you left wrist with your right hand, that's what it felt like) and fill it with cum then he could get down there and lick it out. But now he is gone and I miss him a lot. 

I can no longer get an erection due to medical problems but I enjoy seeing a large hard cock. I wish we could meet a guy both my wife and I liked so he could fuck her while I licked her clit. Then pull his cock out every little bit so I could suck on it. Then when he shot his load, I'd clean both him and the wife with my tongue. I am still able have an orgasm with my simi-soft cock and squirt pee across the room. It feels nearly as good as the real thing. So lets hear it from the old farts.

From Brigitta
Although I have never participated in any sexual activity with another woman, the curiosity is definitely there. I have always found the female body attractive - like art. I was brought up in ballet school and have always appreciated the female body as a work of art. The way we can make our bodies flow with grace and flexibility - no wonder men love us so much! I have always enjoyed looking at pictures of naked women noticing the differences in each body form. I have revealed these thoughts to my boyfriend and I think he enjoys how turned on I get by other women.

I have expressed a fantasy that I have - not really sure I want it to come true, but I would like to be seduced by a woman who has experience in this area. I don't want it to be someone I know or would see out in public. I wonder what it would be like to feel the smooth skin of another woman, to kiss her breasts, to slide my tongue inside her pussy tasting her excitement. Part of me wants to do this with my boyfriend watching.

Perhaps this will be the year of new experiences.

From Karen
I started finding myself "turned on" when I would look at the porno magazines my husband often had hidden around the house. I never really thought about being attracted to a woman. I did however find myself attracted to to the women in the magazines. I have always been turned off to what people refer to as "dykes" and "butch" women. I don't know why. But I have found myself having overwhelming desire to have sex with a "hot, young beautiful" woman. And I don't particularly want a woman "doing" me...I want to "do her". (other than kissing). 

I particularly want to wear a strap on and fuck a hot looking babe silly with it. Anal...all of it. I want to eat her out, but I don't want a woman doing that to me. Is there some term for that? I wonder what makes me that way? I love men, love sex with men...I especially love the feel of big strong arms wrapped around me. I just have had this fantasy about women for many years. I am 42.

From Loretta
My roommate and I (both female) are happily bisexual. One of our most enjoyable experiences is making love to each other after having sex with our male partners. Naked we slowly take turns on top and drive each other crazy. As we orgasm, we put our fingers in our own cunts and then deep into each other. We pretend we've impregnated each other.

From Mermaid
I get very very turned on w/ the thought of making love to a beautiful woman as I am a beautiful woman myself. I am dying to go down on a woman, to experience the sensation of what if feels like to taste, smell, and give the pleasure to another woman as well as receive the same. I fantasize all the time when I am masturbating, about being with a woman. When I am making love to my male partner, I imagine him licking both of us women at the same time as well as him watching us two women rubbing on top of ea other while he slides himself between us and this makes my pleasure so extreme that it can't be put into words. 

In reality, I don't know if I could do it. I want to ask him to get us a beautiful escort for one night but I am afraid to cross a line that can't be taken back. I sometimes would like to secretly just experience this on my own.

From Lizbeth
I find women to be quite attractive. A woman's body can definitely arouse me. I love breasts, thighs, ass etc., but I've never actually had the urge to have sex with another woman. Although I am curious about what it would be like, I doubt I'd ever do it.

From Greg
I have had girlfriends who just are no good at oral sex. I, of course, love it! Solution? There are plenty of "married guy cruising" websites where you can come by (no pun intended) a partner to get the relief desired by someone who obviously LOVES what they're doing, with no strings attached. I don't consider myself gay, just getting certain needs met.

From Anonymous
Yes, I've been interested in other men for as long as I can remember, but very much as a sideline to women. All my experiences (there have been about five) have been in gay bathhouses at the end of a long night on the town, and I've found them a wonderful way to unwind.

Have given anal but not received - that's something for a future visit - but from my experiences other men are fun, but not the end all and be all.

From Rebecca
Yes I have done it and would do it again many times over. I love being with a man also, but women are so much more sensual and woman are just more lovely to look at. A woman's body is art no matter what shape or size. I am attracted to people, not because of their sex, but for who they are, that is what attracts me. So if its a man good or a woman, either way it is the person that turns me on, not their sex.

From Anonymous
I was always curious about being with another woman, and I was fortunate to have the opportunity to explore this. I feel like a bit of a failure in some ways because it just didn't do anything for me, but I'm really glad I tried it, and it cleared the whole "am I aren't I" thing up.

From Bill
I am happily married and enjoy a great sex life with my wife. However, I have over the years, had many a moment when I had fantasized about men. Then about a year ago, an opportunity presented itself that went further than I before. 

I met this guy in a social setting and we were having some great laughs. Well as the night wears on he asks some of us back to his place for a nightcap. About 4 of us (men and women) go over there and we are all having one last drink. As the rest get up to go, I am not quite finished with my drink and opt to stay longer. Well frankly, this guy was attractive to me and as I finished my drink he got up to give me a hug and we just locked lips and kissed for a long time. To make a long story short, we ended up watching each other masturbate to completion. He has since moved from the area but I often think of him now and what we did not try.

 

From Spiky Wench
Occasionally yes. But really, my interest in men is so much more passionate and overriding. I really cannot understand why people say the female form is so much more beautiful. I personally find it dull and bland compared to the beauty of a young, strong, smooth-skinned lad.

From Anonymous
I'd like to experiment with gay/bi guys in my area. Where's the best safe place to find someone?

Note From the Editor:  OUTPersonals is an adult environment geared toward those looking for hot man-on-man action, fantasies, straight-up sex, and more sex for gay and bi-curious men. 

From Raven
I am basically heterosexual, but I think that I have always been interested in other men's bodies. I first began to discover my bisexuality when looking at porn magazines and movies, and I realised that I was turned on as much by the men's cocks as by the other activities. Eventually I made contact with a very learned bisexual Presbyterian minister who assures me that not only does the Bible not specifically forbid homosexual conduct, but that in the ancient world before the advent of Christianity it was considered normal for young men to indulge each other - partly as a means of preserving the young ladies' virginity before marriage.

As for me, I eventually took the plunge in a gay sauna just to see whether that was the experience I was looking for. Did I enjoy it? Well yes and no. I have since tried it on 4 - 5 more occasions and while I do find interacting with men sexually quite exciting on a recreational basis, I have yet to find any satisfaction on an emotional level. I have been with a steady and loving relationship with a woman for over two years now, with frequent and great quality sex. In that time have indulged in my bisexual side once. That was interesting, but mostly confirmed that overall I am most attracted to the charms and mysteries of the female body.

From Tony
I had an experience when I was young with a friend, I was too young to appreciate it. Since then I had been taught that this is "wrong" and felt guilty about it. I still haven't told anyone about it, not even my g/f.. 

I would love to experience it as an adult. I would love nothing better than performing oral on a man and having him "do" me as my g/f watched. I'm not turned on by men kissing, its more of a penis fetish. I have fantasized with my g/f about my desires and we are trying to make these fantasies reality. I am fixated on m/m/f 3somes and can hardly wait to experience my own. I love the taste of my own cum and really want someone to come in my mouth and ass.

From Chris
Yes I have, and yes I would again. I had my first m/m (actually, m/m/m) experience as a youth and felt so guilty that I didn't do it again for a long time. But I never stopped thinking about it. I have been married for a while, but a few years ago I was chatting with a lot of people on the internet and met a gay man who lived near me. I went to his house and we kissed, sucked and he used a dildo in me. It was great! I really had a good time and was sorry nothing more ever came of it.

The hardest parts for me are (1) finding interested individuals and (2) dealing with the guilt. It isn't like there are people out there walking around with "yes, I am interested" buttons. There really should be ways for interested individuals to find others in their areas who are interested in encounters, both those that might lead to something more and those that could just be a one-time shot. As far as the guilt, it primarily has to do with being raised "Christian" and having the experiences go against the teachings of the traditional church. That has changed in some instances and with some churches, but homosexual encounters (and thus bisexuality) still are considered by "society" as abnormal. Which seems odd, since most people seem to think, as individuals, that same- sex encounters are no big deal, even those who say they aren't interested.

I look forward to having another chance, but I am not going to hold my breath!

From Phil
I'm a 28 year old virgin that masturbates fantasizing about women, but I once had a nude man look at me as I laid on the beach nude and he asked me if I would let him jerk off my dick. I let him and it felt good but I still long to be with a woman. Nude men are OK but nude women turn me on.

From Dane
I am basically hetero sexual but in early college years had some M/M sexual experience with my college roommate. Never emotionally involved with him just another way to get off when you weren't getting any with women. We helped each other to jack off and sucked some too but never came in each other's mouths. It was hot and I did find his body attractive. I still enjoy pix of hard cocks being sucked by women or masturbated. I am happily married too and Bi sex is only fantasy fodder now.

From Jenny
Yes I have, and yes I would again. I have had many bi- sexual experiences, and two semi-serious "girlfriends" while I've been married to my very understanding husband. My first experience was when I was 21, and I realized that I had been interested in other girls since I was about 12, but didn't realize it. It felt very freeing to admit it (at least to myself, my husband and my best friend) and felt like I could relax and enjoy sex more in general, even with my husband. It really opened up our sex life together- we felt more comfortable expressing our needs to each other, and he enjoyed hearing stories about my girlfriends.

I think we should all be able to enjoy sex with whomever we want - with respect to age, consent, etc. We should be able to do what feels good with other willing and consenting adults, no matter if they are same sex or opposite sex. I hope others realize their inner desires and act on them as I did. It can be a very positive experience and can really help you see yourself more clearly.

From Bookwormly
I've never had a desire to be with another guy emotionally, and I find the male body way less attractive than the female form. But, the thought of playing with another penis has been on my mind for a long time, and recently I had the chance to act on it. It was as much fun as I thought it would be; having said that, it was a genital thing only, and I was very conscious that I had little interest in the person attached to the genitals. This made me feel ... less.

From Scott
This is an interesting subject. I don't find men sexually attractive at all. But on occasion my best friend and I have pleasured each other sexually. For us there is a major difference between helping each other get off and being attracted to each other. We have both sucked and fucked each other off. But in the end it is a sort of hollow feeling compared to the passion and feeling of fucking a woman. More like a masturbation aid then anything more.

I do think more straight men should drop their homophobic fears and experience same sex stimulation though. In my case it increased my understanding for loving for the female body and sexuality. But what the hell, in a bind I can get off with a guy even though in that case it is just physical with no real meaning.

From M
I have thought about it. I have wanted to know what it would be like to go down on a man. To have a play about, but kissing would be a real turn off. I have wondered what it would be like to be fucked up the ass by a cock, hell it feels good with a dildo. 2 reasons why not: 1) would not know where to start about it, and 2) wife would not like it I think.

From Georgie
Have I ever wondered? Of course. Have I acted on it? Finally! An adults only party and a few adult beverages and plenty of sexual innuendo caused 'us girls' to get rather carried away. But the husbands didn't seem to mind. So the only thing that followed us upstairs was a "have a good time" and we did.

Making love to a woman is an intensely different experience. I don't think it's something I would want exclusively, but now and again it would be great. Now my husband fantasizes about a threesome with her. But we don't think her husband would be nearly as agreeable.

From Jay
I have never had a sexual encounter with other males and find the idea of giving or receiving anal sex from a guy an unattractive prospect. Having said that, since puberty I always had some fantasies about mutual masturbation with my best friend and certain other guys.

It is no doubt a form of Narcissism but I often found the sight of myself in the mirror or friends in the changing room in their briefs quite a turn-on; I was fascinated by the way male genitals bulged. In my teens just putting on a pair of contour pouch briefs made me want to masturbate, and I sometimes did whilst looking at pictures of guys in underwear in clothing catalogues. Once when I went to college wearing such underwear I could not concentrate all day for thinking how I wanted my friend to jerk me off.

If the circumstances had been right I would definitely have gone this far. Guys in their early twenties sometimes give me a twinge of bi-curiosity though only if they have a muscular physique, fairly hairless body and are not effeminate.

Once when I was in my early twenties I had a major fantasy involving a guy of this description and of the same age who worked at a trendy clothing store. It was sparked by an occasion when he handed me pairs of trousers to try on in the changing cubicle as I was wearing only tee-shirt and briefs. For months after I had masturbation fantasies of him fellating me in the cubicle but I would immediately feel guilty after ejaculation, such is the repression brought about by society. 

Though I would never call myself bi-sexual I still regret never having mutually masturbated with that guy, my friend or another male who made me bi-curious.

From Cathy
When I was a girl I knew I had feelings for other girls. I didn't understand it so I ignored it. After that it was a matter of shyness. It took until my 40's to look for someone and a male friend helped me. He brought her to my house and I was stricken with her wonderful smile and the fact that she was shy too. We talked and danced and then she kissed me. That was absolutely the best! I love to kiss men but this was different. Softer more gentle quite sexy. 

We hugged and our breasts pressed against one another set me on fire. My friend sat very quiet on the chair watching, only. I was glad about that. Somehow we managed up on the sofa without our clothes. We touched, kissed and giggled. Somehow I became the pursuer and slowly crept down her body to kiss her lips. I panic not knowing what I'd do if I didn't like it. Ha, no chance! We landed up in bed playing, talking and kissing. 

We still see each other occasionally and talk on the phone. When we walked back to the living room our friend smiled and said' look's like we got a match'. We all laughed. I slept quite well that night. There has been others not as much lately. I think it's harder to find someone as you get older. I still can be shy.

From Dick
Oh, God yes! I've had some wonderful, satisfying experiences with a close male friend, and loved every minute of it! We enjoyed some shared and mutual masturbation and were both totally comfortable with each other.

Obviously, the key to a satisfying, memorable experience is knowing in advance that the other person feels the same as you regarding a same sex experience. It's certainly not for everyone, but there is a certain knowledge between same sex couples about how they like to receive pleasure; they understand how their parts work. In retrospect, I wouldn't change a thing. We both enjoyed ourselves immensely.

From Julius
Easy for me to answer. Never wondered, never considered. No curiosity. The female is so overwhelmingly attractive she has no competition in my eyes. I'm just amazed that she finds the male attractive at all. Why aren't you all lesbians?

From April
I've never been intimate with another woman although I have an appreciation for an attractive, sexy woman. I'm trying to fulfill a fantasy of exchanging Tantric massage with a woman. (It's a hard thing to do via personal ads!) I could do great things with the clit but the big hesitation is whether I could put my tongue inside a woman's temple... I don't like swallowing semen and can't wrap my mind around my tongue in a vagina.

From T
For as long as I can remember I have been attracted to women. I started masturbating when I was 5 or 6. Even then I thought about girls. I am now 18, I have had no sexual experiences with women yet but I can't stop thinking about it. I can't say that I am a lesbian yet, because I have to be with a women first to really know. 

I masturbate daily to the thought of a girl going down on me, sucking kissing, having her face pressed against my wet pussy. I have to meet a girl already god I'm wet just thinking about it. I sometimes masturbate to guys but it usually ends up turning into a sexy woman.

From Wayne
I consider myself a heterosexual man. I do love women and always have. I never look at guys and think "he’s cute", or "I’d like to be with him." However every once in a while I think about giving a guy a blow job or him giving me one. I find woman who like two guys together very sexy. I think same sex curiously is more wide spread in heterosexuals than most people are willing to admit.

From Sabrina
Oh sure. I've explored that genre before. While it was enjoyable in its own right, I prefer the strength, sexuality and brawn of a hot man inside me.

From Anonymous
I had an experience when I was a youth, with a friend. Unfortunately that was it because of the guilt I felt. Only in the past few years, as I have begun to accept my sexuality, have I given serious thought to trying it again. I have shared my curiosity with my girlfriend and she gets quite turned on by it. I am not attracted to men emotionally it's strictly about the sex. 

We watch bisexual movies together and she uses a strap-on on me during sex. I enjoy cleaning my cum off/out of her after sex; so I think I've done "it", just not with a man. I think the guilt of actually being with another man still haunts me. I know I could only do it with my girlfrine involved. We are slowly moving towards the real thing, I think we just need to find the right person.

From Tim
I consider myself as straight. Having said that, one time I was at an adult bookstore with the typical video booths. This particular one I noticed had glory holes between two booths. As I was getting into the video I noticed a hand come through the hole, obviously offering to stroke me.

My 2nd brain down there took over and I moved my hard cock over to the waiting hand. I felt my cock being stroked and it felt wonderful. I kept myself from coming then and went to the counter to get some condoms. Back in the booth the stoker was still next door. I nervously unwrapped the condom and rolled it down. I slid my cock through the hole. I felt a pair of warm lips encircle it and he started sucking me off. I came.

I of course then wondered what it would be like to be in the giving end. On another visit I was set to try it. With little prodding I soon had a hard cock sticking through the hole. I kneeled down and took it in my hand and slowly stroked it. I slid a condom over it and took my first cock in my mouth. My head bobbed back and forth until I could feel his balls tighten and him filling that condom with cum.

On another visit to a different place things started out similarly. My condom covered cock poking through a hole, expecting to be stroked or sucked. I detected a different feel this time though - a better feeling. I realized that the guy was backed up to the hole and my cock was at the entrance to his lubed ass. Oh my god, what a feeling to slide into him.

From Ginger Anne
Absolutely! I feel that sexuality is fluid and to totally ignore the sexual beauty of half the planet seems ridiculous. I've never been with a woman, but one day, hope to have the experience.

From Robert in Portland
A couple years ago a friend of mine from Boise was passing through town and called me just as I got home from work. I told him "sure, come on over", and gave him directions to my bachelor pad.

I had not seen him for several years, and we sat around drinking wine. He said he had been thinking about me all afternoon, and while he sat around calling, waiting for me to get home, he wrote me this note. He then proceeded to take a folded piece of notebook paper out of his pocket, and placed it on his knee. Being too lazy to get up, I asked, "what's it say?" He said "you'll just have to read it".

A while later, when I finally got up to take a piss I snatched the note off of his knee, unfolded it and read "blah blah blah blah blah .... I have always wanted to suck your cock and am hoping tonight's the night blah blah blah blah." I thought about this as I pissed, decided "what the hell. It's not gonna be me who is the one sucking dick", so I finished pissing and quickly stripped off all my clothing, and walked back into the living room buck naked, my big dick dangling right there in the open for him to admire.

I poured myself some more wine, lounged back on the couch where I had been sitting, and gave him a look that said "what are you waiting for?" He got on his knees, and then gave me about the best blow-job I've ever had, quickly bringing me near orgasm a couple times, then backing off. Eventually he took me over the edge, swallowed my load, and licked me clean. He then took a big slug of wine, said "Thanks, I've gotta go" and took off. Haven't seen him since.

You know, when you stop and think about it, you'd naturally get the best head from another male. After all, they are endowed with the same basic equipment and know exactly how it works. I don't have any desire to be a dick-smoker, but man, I'd sure be glad to find another guy who wants to suck on mine!

From KB
Many years ago, when I was 17, I spent a weekend with my pal Dennis as his family was out of town. On Friday night, we got hold of a case of beer. As we drank and drank, pissed and pissed, we finally made a bet (over, of all things, a game of MONOPOLY). Losing the game, and therefore the bet. I was to give him a blow-job.

Thinking I wanted to get this one time thing over with asap, we went into his parent's bedroom, I got down on my knees and started licking and sucking his cock, as he watched me in the reflection of the mirrored closet doors we were in front of, with a huge grin on his face! After a short time, he grabbed the back of my head, rammed his dick as far down my throat as he could, and sprayed a big load of his gooey spunk down my throat, forcing me to swallow. I felt somewhat degraded, and begged him to suck me off .... but he wasn't about to. 

Much to my chagrin, within a couple of days he figured out a way to sort of blackmail me into becoming his "Tuesday afternoon blow-job boy" ... so for the next 6 months (until his family moved away, otherwise I'd still be sucking that prick) it was my "job" to orally service him however he wanted it, every Tuesday afternoon when no one was home at his house. 

Although I didn't tell him, it got to where I enjoyed sucking cock, and have sucked quite a few since then! Strange how things work out!

From Riley
When I was younger, we lived in a duplex. On the other side was a young guy. Eventually, we became friends and spent time together. Occasionally, all the parents would be gone leaving the duplex to us. At one point, we began to masturbate by simply pulling down our pants sufficient to reach our dicks. Eventually, this evolved into full nudity. He immediately became infatuated with my big dick (about 6 1/2" at that age) and balls and the small patch of brown pubic hair at the base. He had a small amount of fuzz. His dick was average in size. 

Finally, he asked if he could feel my big dick and I agreed. I must admit that it felt good and he began to stroke it with one hand while masturbating himself with the other. This continued for a few weeks until I began masturbating him. Out of curiosity, we would rub the heads of our dicks together. One day while he was masturbating me, I shot cum for the first time. The cum got all over his hand and he licked it off. It was obvious this really turned him on. The next time we masturbated, he took my dick in his mouth, sucked it until I lost my load. This continued until we moved. I never saw him again nor have I had an experience like that again.

From Big Guy
Even though I have been married for 30+ years, I'm totally convinced that I would love the feel of a cock growing in my mouth. I'm not quite certain about swallowing the cum (I've tasted my own on occasion, not sure if I like the taste or not), and I may have to let nature take it's course. 

As far as getting fucked in the ass, I think that would be a major turn on. I have experimented with several household items in my ass and loved most of them. I am interested to know how women rate getting fucked anally versus vaginally. I think the anal penetration is "naughty", which makes it even more sexual. What are the differences in feeling, etc.

From Anonymous
Regrettably, the only time in my life that I had the opportunity to suck a cock was when I was very young. Whilst in grade school, my cousin and a friend of his came to my house to "play". We ended up experimenting in the bathroom. You know how that goes. First we would put another's penis in your mouth, then you would begin to suck on it and feel it grow. All the while I was afraid of him coming in my mouth, which I didn't think I wanted. The feeling of that hard dick in my mouth was indescribable. I loved it! 

I think I would like to try it again now that I am much older. Like everyone else, I am certain I'm not gay, but I do think I would be a good cocksucker. By the way, after we sucked each other, we put our fingers in each others asses, but that's another story.

From Fanienne
I am a woman who loves having her breasts stimulated. Last week I found someone who appreaciated and understood my needs perfectly. I had just finished showering at my health club, when a young, maybe early 30's, woman complimented my breasts. At first I was left without words. I'm not homophobic. In fact I have always appreciated the beauty of other women, I've just never had one start a conversation that way. Now I'm in my 50's and work hard to stay in shape. When I regained my verbal skills, I thanked her and continued dressing. She continued to watch me, and finally asked if I would like to get some lunch. I was intrigued now, so I accepted. Lunch was pleasant and comfortable. So comfortable we ended up back at her loft.

I knew I was being seduced an I loved it. I was nervous but not afraid. When she kissed me I couldn't believe how natural it felt. I would occasionally fantasize about sex with another woman, but that was where it stayed. I didn't know what I was supposed to do exactly but she did. When she pulled my top down and kissed my nipples, I literally melted onto the sofa. If I could have reached my own nipples, I'd have done everything exactly as she did. I had always heard that no one can please a woman like another woman. Now I know it to be true.

My only regret from that afternoon is that I wasn't more open with her. She made love to me. I experimented with her. I've promised myself that the next time, yes there will be a next time, I would hold nothing back.

If you have ever given one moments thought to a same sex experience, take the opportunity if it is presented.

From Judy
My first sexual experience with another person was with a girl a few years older than myself. I was a teen and totally inexperienced but she knew all the moves. I consider myself a straight woman and am married to a wonderful man, but I think back to that night and the amazing oral sex that she and I had. She is also married and we are still friends but we never talk about the night in the tent. I have a feeling that a lot of girls try what we did to see what its going to be like. For me it is a pleasant memory.

From Gary
I think everyone, at one time or another, fantasizes about same sex adventure. I am 63 years old and have been married for 43 of those years; however, if given the opportunity, I would suck a cock and take one up my ass in a heart beat. When it comes to sex, I believe that whatever happens between two consenting adults is just fine.

From Anonymous
Well I recently made my fantasy a reality, at least partly, and it was hot! I met a dude on line and we met at his house. We got naked in his bedroom. I got on my knees and played with his cock, which was short, but thick. I enjoyed how soft the skin on the glans was when I took him in my mouth. I also liked the slimy pre-cum that seeped continuously from his urethra, but I was scared to let him jizz in my mouth. We then got on the bed and did some 69 for maybe 5 minutes and I came hard and loud. I'd never come that fast from a woman giving me a b.j. I was in oblivion, howling and grunting and shooting my semen. I was not even conscious of whether he swallowed or not. 

He gave me two more strong orgasms within the next 30 or 40 minutes but they weren't as intense as that first one. If the right opportunity and a man with whom I was comfortable came along again, would I repeat it? YES.

From Helen
Growing up I never once thought that I was gay. I was travelling around Australia as a 21 year old backpacker with my male best friend ( he thought he was gay and I thought I was straight). We were picking fruit and I can remember sitting stoned at a long table by myself, and being absolutely transfixed by a model's breasts in a women's magazine. They were gorgeous, full and you could clearly see her erect nipples through the flimsy material, it seemed so natural unlike porn. I was so turned on and just sat there buzzing.

Later on we met a very butch couple of dykes and one of them who had a real twinkle in her eye challenged me on my sexuality and made me think about it. Since then I have had a couple of female relationships, one lasting 6 years.

I am now happily married to an Aussie bloke and I am satisfied with our love life. (I think we are both too scared to rock the boat to introduce other people into our marriage.) I adore sucking his cock but I have to say that a pair of full, erect nippled, heavy, voluptuous and sweet smelling breasts do it for me as well!

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