Why Do People Cheat

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"I have been cheated on, time and time again. See, I think they just get bored or something of that sort, because even now mine has been caught trying to do more than window shop." —Anonymous.

So why do people cheat? Possibly one partner isn't enough, perhaps people get bored, maybe 'the grass is greener' is hard to resist. Tell us about your experiences—the good, the bad, and the ugly.

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From Debbie
After 15 years of marriage and a great sex life, my husband just stopped wanting sex.  At first if I begged he would do his duty, but not very well.  Then he stopped - after 6 months of taking care of business myself, we went for drinks after work.  I did not want to cheat, but after a few drinks and some slow dancing, he had me. He was smaller than my husband, and came a lot faster, but he took the time to take care of my needs. This went on for 3 months almost daily - then one day my old husband was back.  I stopped seeing my lover the day my husband was back. 

I think my husband knew what I was doing, but he never said anything as he had no interest in me, so I did what had to do.  If he cut me off again for that long, I would do the same thing again.  Both girls and guys have the right to be looked after in the bedroom, if your partner will not do it, there is nothing wrong with shopping around.

From Mary
Here's a quick tip, Perclown, we cheat because you have fallen asleep. [see Perclown's entry below] Men come home from work, fall asleep in their lounge chair, wake up for dinner, watch TV, go to bed. Boring boring boring. If you want your wife to come home from a hard days work...fall on your knees and give her oral sex of a lifetime, 'cause the fact is if you don't there will be another man at the office that already is, and doing it much better.

From Perclown
Simple as can be friends...we cheat and I say this from experience because we are bored and it takes a lot to keep us anxious for more...so here's a quick tip it u wanna keep your man when he comes home tonight from a hard days work...fall on your knees and give him the blowjob of a lifetime....open up and say ahh...ladies and drink every drop...cause the fact is if you don't there will be another woman at the office that already is...and to add to that she is trying to get him to leave you...so keep it hot...because whether u like it or not we cheat because you have fallen asleep...

From Anonymous
Can't speak for others but I have cheated to experience things I cannot with my partner. Women of different ethnicity, sizes and shape, age. Those things which my partner can't change but to me are still valid fantasies. I also have to try things she will not do such as strap-on play and anal sex. I make no excuse. It's not right but at the end of the day I'd rather not be left wondering what those things would have been like.

From Anonymous
I have cheated on my husband and got caught twice. When he asks me why I have no answer. I do love him, he is a good husband for the most part and a good father. But when a man shows interest in me I get this feeling like I have to see what it could turn out to be. This makes me hate myself but I know I must be missing something.  The funny part is these relationships don't work or last but I keep going back.

I think should I just leave, start over punish myself? What is the answer? When I am getting attention from the other men I am on such a high I feel like I am worth something, and I feel so regular with my husband don't men understand how much attention we need? Does anyone else feel this way. What do we do?

From Greg
I am having a hard time not cheating. The sad thing is there isn't even another women. It's just that lately every women is looking more and more attractive, and I can spend all day thinking about it. I do love my wife though. She is a real good person and probably better than any women I could ever hope to marry. On the flip side, I am having trouble getting it up for my wife. Another women accidentally brushes her boob against me, and I am good to go. I don't know, I am really confused right now. I always said I would never be one of those guys who threw away a good thing for a another women, but now I know why someone would do such a thing.

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